Kule nqaku ndiza kuzama ukucacisa ngokucacileyo iingcamango zam malunga noko ndicinga ngako ngokuthenga. I-psychology ye "shop maniac" ayinakulinganisela, njengomlutha weziyobisi, ayiboni nto ngaphandle kokuthengisa kunye nezaphulelo. Ngexesha lokuthengisa kwexesha, banokuyeka imisebenzi yabo ukuze benze ibhizinisi labo abazithandayo ngokuzinikezela ngokupheleleyo: ukuthenga. Ukuthetha, sebenzisa imali eninzi. Akunakunqandwa, abanamehlo avuthayo, ukuqhuma ubuso, bazele ukuxhatshazwa kunye nokuzonwabisa ngokuthenga.
Ezidumileyo "ivenkile yezitolo." Baquka uNkosana Diana, owachitha imali kungekhona nje kuphela ngokusondeza, kodwa naye ngokwakhe. Kwidambathongo yakhe kwakukho imibala engama-300 embala omhlophe. Umdlali ongumdlali owaziwayo uCameron Diaz akafihli uthando lwakhe lokuthenga, uthengisa yonke into efika emehlweni akhe ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba le nto isenokuba isesidlweni sakhe. Umculi ongekho ngaphantsi uElton John usebenzisa imali engakholwanga ukuthenga. Ingxelo yakhe yesigidi sesigidi ngosuku olunye lwangomdla weendaba.
Ukunyanga kwesi sifo esibizwa ngokuthi - ukuyothenga, eMelika, iiklabhu eziliqela zivuliwe ngokungachazwanga. Ngokuqhelekileyo, "i-shop maniac" ithenga iimpahla zabo ukuze zibukeke njengezithixo zabo, okanye zingabonakali njengezimvu ezimnyama kuluntu oluhloniphekileyo. Ngenxa yesimo sabo, abantu basebenzisa imali ngaphandle kokucinga.
Ukuba uvela kule ngqungquthela ye "shop maniacs", kwaye ufuna ukuzinqanda, kodwa ungayifumani, phulaphula isiluleko seengcali. Ngaphambi kokuya kwisitoreji, bhala phantsi kwiphepha lephepha ngokuqinisekileyo ofuna ukuthenga. Xa ufika kwivenkile, sebenzisa kuphela uluhlu, uze ubeke kwibhaskiti, izinto ezifanelekileyo kunye nokutya. Ukuba awukwazi okokuqala ukujamelana nomnqweno wakho wokuthenga into ethile, usuka kude kumathelethi kunye nama-hangers, uphefumle ngokujulile kwaye uphumelele, ngelixa unako ukuvala amehlo akho. Vula amehlo akho, jonga into ofuna ukuyithenga kwaye awuyi kufuna ukuyithengela, ngokuba okwangoku awunakuziva ulungelelaniso kuyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba umntu eze kumntu oza kumtyelela, kwaye ubone abanikazi ubuncwane bendawo yangaphakathi, ufuna ngokwenene ukuthenga okufanayo. Kodwa uvala kwakhona amehlo akho kwaye ucinge ngomzuzwana kwindlu yakho, ukuba le nto iya kudibaniswa njani ngaphakathi. Mhlawumbi akunakwenzeka kakhulu ukuba uya kufumana apho, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uqale ukukhumbula ukuba unqume ukuba ulawule lo mlutha.
Ngoku ulawulo oluyisiseko, lwalabo. Ngubani ongenakuyichasa inkanuko yabathengisi ukuthenga le okanye loo mveliso. Oku kuya kunceda umntu wakho omthandayo onokukunqanda ukuchitha inkunkuma engadingekile yemali, okanye uncede wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Kodwa ke, qi niseka ukuba ususe iimpahla zangaphandle ngaphambi kokuba uye esitolo, ngaphandle koko ukushisa akuchaphazeli kakuhle inkqubo yengqondo yomntu. Kwaye uza kuchitha imali eninzi kunokuba ulindele.
Amadoda nabasetyhini bahluke omnye komnye kwizidingo zabo zokuthenga kunye namakhono abo. Ababambisanga ngokungaqhelekanga ukuyothengisa, indoda idinwa ngokuthenga ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ibhinqa. Emva kweyure nesiqingatha se-co-kuhlala evenkile, kungcono ukuthumela umntu endaweni ethile ukuba ahlale kwi-cafe, ukwenzela ukuba ulinde apho, mhlawumbi unako ukuxabana naye. Kungcono uvumele ukuba ufumane imali yokuthenga kwakho, kwaye uchithe ngokukhawuleza ngaphandle kokumphoqa ukuba athengise kunye nawe.
Kusuka kulo mthombo, kufuneka ukhuthazelele iinkalo ezininzi zokuziphatha: ngaphambi kokuba uye esitolo, bhala uluhlu lokuthenga; ukuza kwikaritha, uphefumle ngokuzeleyo uze uphume; ngaphambili. Kunokuba uthenge into ethandiweyo ebingumhlobo, bonisa, kwaye nokuba kuyimfuneko kuwe; Musa ukugqoka ngokufudumele kwisitorethi; ukuba kunokwenzeka, uye esitolo ngaphandle kwamadoda.
Ndiyathanda ukuba uthenge ngempumelelo!