Kutheni abantu abadala bethanda iindlovu?

Ukususela ebuntwaneni siva iindlovu. Siyifundwa kwaye sixelelwa ngabazali, sibukela iipatto ezibugcisa kunye namafilimu. Emva koko sakhula, kodwa abaninzi bethu baqhubeka beyithanda ibali. Ewe kukho ininzi, iindabakwane njengezinto zonke, kodwa akuyiyo yonke into evume yona, ingakumbi abameli bezesondo ezinamandla. Kodwa yintoni kanye esiyikhoyo? Ngenxa yokuba nokuba ngaba badala, sisaphila ukuthanda amathandana?


Ukungabi nothando

Abasetyhini abaninzi badinga iindaba zamantombazana, kuba ebomini ababanalo uthando olwaneleyo. Ngexesha elifanayo, banokuba nabathandekayo abo bawaxabisa kwaye bayabaluxabisa, kodwa ukubamba kwakhe iimvakalelo kubangela ukungabikho komtshato kwintsebenziswano.

Amantombazana athile ayathanda ukufunda iindaba zeenkcukacha kunye nokubukela iimifanekiso kunye namafilimu. Ewe, uhlobo lwabo oluyintandokazi ngamabali abathandwayo. Kutheni? Ngenxa yokubonga imisebenzi enjalo, abafazi baqhubeka bekholelwa ukuba iimvakalelo ezinyanisekileyo nezinyani. I-Tembolee, kwiinguqulelo zanamhlanje zeenkwenkwezi, amaqhawe amnandi kunye neentando zithandwa ngabantu abanyani, abanokuhlala befumaneka kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo. Yingakho, ngelixa befunda kunye nokuphequlula iindaba zeengoma, abafazi bazifudumisa ngokholo kwintlalo kunye nakwimadoda ngokukodwa. Ngokusekelwe kobuqu obuhle, badala imifanekiso baze bazivelele. Ekubeni zonke iibali kubantwana zibhalwa ngabantu abadala, ngokuqhelekileyo banalo ifilosofi ejulile, esiyiboniyo ebuntwaneni. Kodwa amantombazana akhulileyo angayiqonda ngokupheleleyo kwaye aqonde ukuba luhlobo luni lwe-overtones umbhali otyalomalileyo, oko wayefuna ukufundisa. Ukongezelela, kwiindalana zonke izinto zenzeka lula kwaye kulula, iinkosana zihlala zifumana iindlosokazi zabo. Kwaye abaninzi abafazi banomdla: ningenzi nto, kwaye kwakhona-kwaye nitshatile inhle kakhulu, ingqiqo, inothando kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, indoda efanelekileyo. Iingoma zefeythi ziyeza kakhulu kwiinkomfa, kuba kwiimbali zindoda zifumana uthando.

I ntengiso

Ngendlela, kungekhona nje kuphela abo abangenalo uthando abaya kuxela inkcazo. Ziyakuthandwa ngabashenxayo kunye nabashenxayo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba iindaba zobubele kuphela ezibizwa ngokuba yiinganekwane, ezichazwe ngokoqobo njengeenganekwane. Ngokomzekelo, amafilimu amaninzi amaninzi, angabonwa ngokuba yimbali, kuba zonke ziphela kakuhle, abalinganiswa banamakhono angaphezu kwemvelo, bhiyozela ubuhlobo, inkxaso kunye nothando. Iindaba zokuzilibazisa ezifana nabangenalo ngokwaneleyo ebomini. Aba bantu bamele banike iminqweno yabo yokwenene, ngenxa yeebhobhothi, ngenxa yokwesaba abanye kunye njalo njalo. Ngoko balinda amabali adventure of adventure, ezizibandakanya kunye nabalinganiswa abakhulu bala ma-epic. Iimvakalo ezintle zihlala zivuya. Kuzo akukho ndawo yimihla efanayo kunye nobomi obunzima. Ezi ziimpawu eziphambili ezityelela abantu kwiibali ze-adventure ze-story. Abaninzi bangathi ukuba yimpumelelo efanayo umntu unokuthanda onke amabali malunga neentlanga. Kodwa oku akunjalo. Kuphela kwimbali yamagama, yonke into iphele kakuhle. Kukho, akukho mntu ulahlekileyo, akafi, akabizi abanye. Yingakho sikhetha iindaba ezingamangalisa, ngenxa yokuba abanakho indawo yokudabuka nokudumala, ukujonga esikrinini okanye ukufunda incwadi, sihlawuliswa kuphela.

Ubuhlobo kunye noHulumeni

Esinye isizathu sokuba abantu abadala bakuthande iindaba zobufebe ukungabikho kobuhlobo bokwenene kunye nobuqhawe ebomini babo bokwenene. Abantu bafuna ukufumana oko abanako ukufumana abanye. Yingakho bebhaptizwa ebomini bebomi. Akukho ndawo yokungcatsha. Ukuba kukho inkampani yabahlobo, ke bonke baya kumela omnye komnye kude kube sekupheleni. Kwiibali zengqondo, akukho mntu uthengisa nabani na. Nangona wenza ubudenge, ngenxa yoko, abantu bayaziqonda iimpazamo zabo baze bacele ukuxolelwa, bahlawulele izono zabo. Abalinganiswa beetekisi banomdla ngakumbi kwaye banomusa kunabo bahlangana nabo ebomini bokwenene. Iingxelo zefestile zivumela abantu ukuba bangalahlekelwa lukholo lwabo lobuhlobo bokwenene. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubonakala ngathi bayaqonda ukuba le nto yinto yamagama. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, amabali anjalo asebenza kwisicatshulwa sawo, axhomekeke kwingcamango yokuba abahlobo bokwenene basaphila, abaze bahluleke kwaye bangaboni. Ngenxa yoko, abantu baqala ukukhangela abahlobo emfanekisweni kunye nokufana kwamaqhawe efilosofi, kwaye oko kuyimpawu, bahlala befumana abantu abanjalo, kuba baqonda ukuba ngabaphi abantu abayidingayo.

Ngokumalunga nobuqhawe, abantu abaninzi bafuna ukugcina abanye okanye ukuzisindisa. Kodwa ngobomi bokwenene oku akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukongezelela, ngokwenene, zonke iintshaba kunye neengxaki zikhohlakele ngakumbi kunezandi. Ngako oko, kuba lula kubantu xa badibanisa kunye neenkwenkwezi ze-fairy kunye namakhosazana abonga i-arcs, ukubonisa ubuqhawe nokunye. Siyabulela kumabali, asizange siyeke ukukholelwa kwinto enhle, eqaqambileyo, enomusa, ngokumangalisa ukuba yonke into iya kuyenzeka ngenye imini. Ngako oko kulungile kakhulu xa abantu abadala befana neenganekwane, kuba iindaba zobubele zinika amandla okuphila kunye nethemba efanelekileyo.