Kubomi bomntu wonke kuza ixesha elinjalo, xa unqotshwa yizinto ezibizwa ngokuba ziingcamango ezingenangqondo. Ziyakwazi konke into: ukuzisola, ukuphindezela, ukwesaba umntu, njl. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka sicinge, kuba, njengomthetho, sidala ihlabathi lethu kuphela emva kokuba into ethile isungulwe okanye siza kwisigqibo. Nangona kunjalo, ukucinga rhoqo, ukuhlala ukwesaba iingcamango ezingapheliyo - oku, kwimbono yam, isisidenge kwaye siyiphutha. Ngoko makhe sibone indlela esinokukrazula ngayo le nkxalabo enkulu, kodwa yinkathazo kakhulu kanye kanye.
Kule nqaku, iindlela ezi-3 ziza kuqwalaselwa ngokubanzi malunga nokulahla ngokucokisekileyo komntu kwiingcamango ezingapheliyo.
Into yokuqala yokuyenza kungekhona ukuqhuba imfazwe neengcamango ezingapheliyo. Zonke iinzame zakho aziyi kucinga ngazo ziya kubonakala zingasebenzi kwaye uya kulinda ukuwa. Kunzima ukukholelwa, kodwa kunjalo. Yeka imfazwe ngeengcamango zakho !!! Khawucinge ngomntu ocinga ukuba akaqondi, ukuba uhlala echanekileyo kwaye ebaluleke kakhulu - akungathandabuzeki. Ngoku uthi: "Ngaba kulungele ukubonisa ukuba kukho into engalunganga kumntu onje?". Ndiqinisekile ukuba uya kuthi: "Hayi, akufanelekile." Yinto efanayo ngokugxina iingcamango: "bona" bayangenangqondo, banobudenge, kodwa banenkani kwaye baphatha ngobuqili nge-nimvoy. Ngako oko, nje ngokunyamekela ukhathalele ukwesaba okukuthintela ukuba uphile, unqabe ukulwa nawo uze ube yi vypobedite. Kuyinto engaqhelekanga, akunjalo? Kodwa xa uyisebenzisela "kwesikhumba" sakho, ke uzive umphumo. Esi sixhobo esinamandla, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunokwanela ukukrazula iingcamango ezinzulu.
2. Indlela yesibini yokukrazula ibhetele ngakumbi kulabo abasele baxabana nale ngxaki. Ndiyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba wenze ezinye "iisithethe": unxininisa kakhulu ukuzola, ucinga ukuya kwi-10, njengokungathi yonke into iya kudlula. Enyanisweni, oku kukusiphakamiso sokuzimela ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kwinqanaba elithile lunceda. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka uzibuze umbuzo: "Ngaba ndiza kubandezeleka bonke ubomi bam, ukucamngca iiyure, ukuba ndilahle ingcamango ethile?". Ndiqinisekile ukuba ufuna ukuhlala ubomi obuqhelekileyo, ngoko ke kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ezi ngcamango zingenanto. Unokwenza oku ngale ndlela: ukuba ucinga ukuya kwi-10 ukulahla iingcamango ezingapheliyo, ke ubale, umzekelo, ukuya kuma-200, 300, kwaye mhlawumbi uze ufike ku-1000. Ngaba "iinkqubo" zakho uze ulahle iimbilini zakho.
3. Indlela yesithathu kwaye, mhlawumbi, eyona nto ibumnandi kumntu "okhupha" ngaleyo ngcamango unxibelelwano nabantu, kunye nomntu osondelene naye. Ukuthetha ngokulula nabo, unokuxelela umntu ngalo, kuba kucebise ukuba wabelane ngentlungu yakho ukuze wenze incinci. Nangona kunjalo, cinga enye: "Musa ukuthetha ngxaki yakho kumntu onokuyifumana." Ngamanye amazwi, kufuneka uxoxe ngeengcamango zakho ezigqithisileyo kuphela kubantu abanjalo abanokuzithemba, abangazimeli ngokwabo isisombululo sokuziphatha esingathinteli ingqalelo yabo nasiphi na iingcamango ezingenangqondo. Ngamava am ndiya kuthetha ukuba abantu abanjalo baya kukwazi ukunceda; mhlawumbi ngaba oogqirha bezona zigqwesileyo.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, inqaku lokugqibela le nqaku: "Hlangana" neengcamango zakho ezigqithisileyo, jonga oko "zidlayo", zithini uhlobo lwawo, uze ubatshele ukuba ufuna ukuthetha nabo okanye cha. " Le ngcebiso kufuneka iqondwe ngokuchanekileyo: isekelwe kwinto yokuba awubaleki ukuhlangana nabo, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo - hamba kubo, hamba "ncokola". Olu luhlobo lokucamngca; wena, ngoko kuthetha, phuma ngeengcamango zakho "kanye emva kwexesha." Zama ukuqonda okubalulekileyo kwezi ngcamango, ukuba uphuma kuzo, uzama ukuqonda ", ukuhleka," ukuthetha ", kwaye uya kubona ukuba iingcamango zakho ziyizinto ezingenangqiqo kwaye zingenangqondo. Skoreevsego, emva kokucamngca uya kuba mnandi kwaye ukwesaba kwabo kuya kuba ngaphantsi!