Emva kokuba ufike elunxwemeni lolwandle, ukhangele phambili kwiholide elihle kunye nomntwana ngamagagasi atshisayo. Kodwa zonke ngezizathu ezithile ziqala ukungahambi: inkwenkwe ingabonakali, ikhwebu, ikhunga ekhaya, kwaye nantoni na yonke iyaqala ukukrazula nokukhwehlela. Intlekele? Akunjalo. Yichitha iintsuku ezimbalwa ukukunceda ukunyuka kwimeko entsha - kunye neeholide zezorhotho ziya kufumana imibala eqaqambileyo.
Nika ixesha lokuba umntwana asetyenziswe elwandle. Abantwana abancinci badinga ukunyamezela: ungalibali nakwieholide ukusuka kummandla olinganisiweyo. Yiya elwandle ngexesha elifanayo kwaye ume xa kunokwenzeka kwindawo ethile. Jonga ukutshintshwa kwemidlalo esebenzayo kunye nokuhlamba, ungakhohlwa malunga nekhefu. Ungalibali ngokulala komhla kunye nokutya okulula - baya kubuyisela amandla kwaye bancede ukujamelana nokugqithisa.
Qaphela ukhuseleko lokukhusela. I-Bathe kunye ne-tan kunye nosana kwimini yentsasa nangomso, ushiya ulwandle okanye uhamba phantsi kwe-awning eqinile xa ilanga lise-zenith. Qinisekisa ukusebenzisa imveliso eneemeko ezikhuselekileyo, ukuhlaziywa emva kokutyelela ngamnye emanzini - ulusu lwabantwana lubuhlungu kakhulu kwaye lunokutshisa ngomzuzu emihlanu phantsi kwelanga elikhanyayo. Ngaphambi kokuba uhlambe, gcoba ithawula emanzini uze usule umntwana - ukuze unciphise umngcipheko wokubanda obangelwa kukunyanzelisa.
Gcina imenyu kunye neyokusela. Kufuneka uphuze umntwana kaninzi, oku kuya kunceda ukuphepha ukushaywa kweshushu. Sithengisa amanzi apholileyo apholileyo, iziphuzo zesininzi ezingenasiphunga okanye iindiza zemifuno ehlanjululwayo. Ingane iyenqaba? Zama ukumnika isiselo kwifomu yomdlalo okanye uzalisekise ngokutya - ikhukhi, iziqhamo, ibha ye-cereal. Gwema izitya ezinamafutha kunye neentliziyo ezintle - khetha ukutya okulula, i-casseroles, inyama ephilileyo kunye nentlanzi.