Ukulungiswa komntwana esikolweni: ulwazi oluqhelekileyo
Inkqubo yokufunda nayiphi na umntwana ibhalwe ngamanqanaba amathathu athathaka. Eyokuqala, kunzima kakhulu, ingena kwiklasi yokuqala. Okwesibini - utshintsho ukuya kwibanga lesihlanu, ukusuka kwisikolo esiprayimari ukuya kwisikolo esiphakamileyo. Okwesithathu yinguqulelo kwibakala lesi-10, ukusuka kwisikolo esiphakamileyo ukuya phezulu.
Yaye ukuba abantwana bebanokukwazi ukujamelana nesigaba sesibini nesithathu ngokwabo, kunzima kubadlali bokuqala ukuba bazivumelanise nokutshintsha okubukhali kwimisebenzi yabo. Ngako oko, abazali abaqalayo kwixesha elifanelekileyo bafuna ukugxininisa kumntwana kunokwenzeka kwaye bamncede ukuba alungiselele isikolo.
Ixesha lokusebenzisa isikolo kumntwana ngamnye ngumntu ngamnye: umntu unelungelo leeveki ezimbalwa, umntu udinga inyanga ezintandathu. Ixesha lokulungelelanisa lixhomekeke kwimeko yomntwana, iimpawu zakhe, ukukwazi ukusebenzisana nabanye; ukusuka kwinqanaba lesikolo kunye neqondo lokulungelelana komntwana ebomini esikolweni. Kwiintsuku zokuqala zesikolo, umntwana uya kufuna inkxaso eninzi kwiintsapho zakhe: abazali, nootatomkhulu. Uncedo lwabadala luya kunceda umntwana ukuba asebenzise ngokukhawuleza ubomi bakhe obutsha.
Akukho imfuneko ukuqhuba ngokukhawuleza umgcini wokuqala kwisikhokelo esinzima "bevela esikolweni - bahlala phantsi ukuze bafunde izifundo." Kwaye nawuphi na umzekelo, awukwazi ukukhawulelana nomntwana ekudibanisaneni nabafundi ofunda nabo. Ngethuba lexesha lokuzilungelelanisa esikolweni, umntwana uqala ukusebenzisana, ukuseka oonxibelelwano abatsha, ukusebenzela isikhundla sakhe kwinkampani yabantwana, ufunda ukunceda nokunceda abahlobo. Umsebenzi wakho njengomzali kukunceda umntwana wakho afunde indlela yokusebenzisana nabanye. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukujonga i-niche kwisangqa seklasi somntwana. Inxaxheba yentlalo ekhethiweyo eklasini iya kuthintela ngqo inkqubo yokufunda kunye nokusebenzisana nabanye abantwana. Yaye isithuba esigxina kwiklasi yokuqala siya kugcinwa kwixesha elipheleleyo lemfundo yesikolo. Ngoko ukuba umntwana ngokukhawuleza uthathwa ngokuba "uyazi zonke," ke uncede ukuba aphule umfanekiso owenziwe ngaye, ekubeni ebusheni ubunjalo bunjalo buya kuba yimiphumo emibi.
Utitshala uthintela njani inkqubo yokulungelelaniswa komdlali wokuqala?
Utitshala wokuqala, mhlawumbi, kungekhona nje umntu obaluleke kakhulu kumntwana wakho, ngumntu obalulekileyo kuyo yonke intsapho yakho. Nguye onokunika isiluleko malunga nokukhuliswa komntwana, uncede ukuwulathisa ngendlela efanelekileyo. Kufuneka uqalise ngokukhawuleza uqhagamshelwano kunye notitshala kwaye ube nesithakazelo kwindlela umntwana aziphatha ngayo esikolweni. Unokuthatha inxaxheba kwimpilo yesikolo yomntwana wakho, ukulungiselela, umzekelo, iiholide. Ukwahlula iimfuno zakho kunye neemfuno zathisha kumntwana. Ukuba awuyiqondi indlela yokufundisa, cela umfundisi ukuba achaze oko, kodwa kungabikho nkcenkcazo kumntwana, akufanele ahlupheke ngenxa yokungavumelani kwakho notitshala.
Enye yezinto ezibalulekileyo zokufunda ngummelwane womntwana kwideski. Enyanisweni, lo ngowomnye wabagadi bamagcisa ekuphumeleleni ngokukhawuleza komntwana esikolweni. Kufuneka ubuze malunga nendlela ulwalamano lomntwana nommelwane wakhe lukhula ngayo. Ungacingi ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala ephazamiseka. Nguye onokuphazamisa nokuphazamisa ummelwane kwideskiti, kodwa ngenxa yalokhu awukwazi ukujezisa: kunzima ukuba abantwana abancinci bahlale ixesha elide. Kufuneka uchazele umntwana wakho ukuba indawo efanelekileyo yendawo enye iyimfuneko, kwaye ukuba ummelwane edeskini usebenza, akufuneki ukubaphazamisekile. Dumisani umntwana ngokufezekisa kwaye umfundise ukunceda abanye. Emva koko, umkhwa wokuncedana omnye unceda abantwana kumaxesha anzima.
Ungayiqonda njani ukuba umntwana uphendule ngempumelelo kwisikolo?
- Umntwana uthanda ukufunda, uya esikolweni ngokuzonwabisa, uyazithemba kuye kwaye akayikwesaba nantoni na.
- Umntwana uphepha ngokukhawuleza nenkqubo yesikolo. Ukuba le nkqubo inzima, ngoko umntwana ufuna uncedo, kodwa akukho mfuneko ukuba ahlaselwe. Akuvumelekile ukuba uqhathanise nomntwana wakho nabanye, abantwana abaphumelele, kwaye ugxeke zonke izenzo zakhe. Umntwana wakho uyingqayizivele, akudingeki ukuba ulingane nomnye.
- Qaphela ukuba umntwana akayi kusebenza ngokweqile. Inkqubo yesikolo esinzima kakhulu ifuna ukwabiwa kwexesha elifanelekileyo, ngaphandle koko umntwana angagula. Ukuba inkunzi iyakwazi ukuhlangabezana nale nkqubo, kukufanelekile ukucinga malunga nendlela yokuhambisa umntwana wakho kwelinye iklasi okanye kwesinye isikolo apho umthwalo ungaphantsi.
- Yenza umntwana enze impumelelo. Kufuneka akholelwe kuye. Musa ukungakhathaleli ngokufunda.
- Umntwana wakho uphendule ngokuphumelelayo esikolweni, ukuba wenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo kwaye uyigxotha kuye okokugqibela. Umntwana kufuneka akhulume nawe ngesicelo sokunceda kuphela ukuba zonke iinzame zakhe zokusombulula ingxaki zibonakalise ukuhluleka. Musa ukukhawuleza ukunika uncedo lwakho, ngaphandle koko umntwana uya kufakwa kwi nyaniso yokuba ufuna ukukwenza izifundo kuphela ngoncedo lwakho, kungekhona wena. Kancinci buthathaka imida yoncedo lwakho, ukunciphisa ize. Ngaloo ndlela, uhlakulela ukuzimela komntwana.
- Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, isalathisi esibaluleke kakhulu sokulungiswa ngempumelelo ngesikolweni kuya kuba kukuba umntwana uthanda abahlobo bakhe abatsha kunye notitshala wakhe.