Xa ubusana bufika, abantwana baqala ukufumana indlela yabo ebomini. Ngenxa yokukhula, iindlela ezintsha zokukhangela ihlabathi, abanye abaselula banomsebenzi oxakeke kakhulu, kunye nabanye - bethandekayo. Kodwa kwimeko yokuqala neyesibini, kufuneka idibaniswe nento enomdla kwaye iluncedo, ukwenzela ukuba intombazana ingaqali ukuxhoma kwimeko.
Inyaniso kukuba intombazana inomdla obuninzi onokuyichaphazela kakhulu ingqondo yakhe. Intombazana inokuba neengxaki zokuthetha kunye noontanga, umnqweno uya kubonakala ufana nalabo abasondelene naye, nangona ezi zide zivela kwimimiselo engcono yabantu. Ubomi bomntwana osemncinci udlalwa ngokungaqondi kakuhle kunye nomnqweno wokujoyina uluntu. Kungenxa yoko, ukuba awuyikudibanisa kunye neyona nto iyifunayo kwaye inomdla, ke intombazana okanye intombi ingasondela okanye ihambe ngendlela engafanelekanga. Kodwa indlela yokudibanisa ubomi bomntwana oselula, ngokokuba wayenomdla?
Ukuze uqonde indlela yokudibanisa ubomi babantwana abaselula, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba yintoni abayilwe ngayo kunye noko bafuna. Akufanele ubeke iimpondo zakho kunye nemibono yimeko. Khumbula ukuba umdla onqwenela ukuba unomdla kumntwana osemtsha. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukhethe imisebenzi enxulumene nomntu wakhe kunye neembono zobomi. Kakade ke, oku akuthethi ukuba kulungile ukufumana umnqweno womntwana ukuthetha kunye nobuntu obunqabileyo nokusela utywala. Kuvela kule nto kwaye kuyimfuneko ukukhusela umntwana osemncinci ngoncedo lwemisebenzi enomdla.
Midlalo yokudlala
Enye yezinto ezinokudambisa ubomi, zidlala imidlalo. Ngoku ngokuqhelekileyo kuwo wonke umzi kukho iiklabhu apho abantu abafuna ukudlala iindidi ezahlukeneyo zekhomputha kunye nebhodi. Abafana bakhetha abalinganiswa babo, baqulunqa ngokupheleleyo amandla abo kunye nezakhono zabo, baze "badlale" kwi "roll". Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana usemlutha kwimidlalo ethile, ungammema ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwi "roll". Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokudlala umdlalo. Kwezinye iimeko, abafana bahlangana kunye, inkosi ifunda iskripthi seemeko ezithile, kwaye wonke umntu uyaphendula indlela abaza kuziphatha ngayo, ngelixa bekela iingqalelo zomntu. Kuvela ezi mpendulo (izenzo) ekuphuhlisweni kwesalathiso kuxhomekeke. Kukho olunye uhlobo lwe "rolyok". Kule meko, abantu ababaxeleli nje, babonisa. Abafana bazithambisa izambatho, bavelise izixhobo, baze baye kwizinto ezibizwa ngokuthi "Inruzka" kwaye "badlale" abalinganiswa. Enyanisweni, olo lonwabo lunomdla kakhulu kwaye luncedo. Inyaniso yokuba abafundi bafunda ukudala into ethile, bayadlala, ngokwenene bazibonakalisa njengabalingisi, bafunda iindidi ezahlukeneyo zobugcisa bokulwa.
Kwinqanaba elifanayo lingaba negalelo lokudlala indima ye-anime, iifilimu kunye neengqungquthela. Olu hlobo lwamajelo aluba luya kuthi lube luninzi ngakumbi. Ngoko ke, ukuba intombazana inomdla kwimisebenzi yokuzilibazisa, isifiso sakhe kufuneka sisekelwe.
Iiklabhu zee-reenactors
Olunye lonwabo luyakha kabusha. Kule meko, abantu baqokelela kwiiklabhu. Iqela ngalinye "libetha" ixesha elithile. Ngokuxhomekeke kwixesha elikhethiweyo, iingubo zicatshulwa, ezihambelana ngokupheleleyo, izixhobo kunye neemfomfom zenziwa. Uninzi lwamaxesha amaninzi, abachaziyo bakhetha i-Middle Ages. Ukuba umntwana osemtsha uba ilungu leqela, akafundi nje izinto ezininzi ezincedo. Kwiinkampani ezinjalo kukho ikhowudi ekhethekileyo yenkampani kunye nabantu abatsha bafundiswa inhlonipho ngabasetyhini, ukukwazi ukuzimela kunye nokukhusela abafazi.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokwenza utywala kunye nezinto ezilula: ukudansa, iiklasi kumacandelo ezemidlalo, iiklabhu zobugcisa, indawo yokudlala. Into ephambili kukuba intombazana yayinomdla kwaye yayifuna ukuthatha inxaxheba. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba akafuni ukwenza oko ucebisayo, ungadikibali. Kuphela kufuneka uhlolisise le ntombazana kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uyayiqonda into ayifunayo ngokwenene.