Ngokukhawuleza xa intshukumo iyayeka, amanzi aya kukhawuleza. Abaninzi abanokuphefumula bajonga abagijimi beengcali, abagibeli. Uninzi lufuna ukuphakama ngaphezu kwamanzi. Kwaye kunzima ukuba abazali baxhathise xa umntwana ekhupha amehlo kwaye ebuza: "Mama, Tata, ndifuna!" Ndiyakwazi? "Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ashuswe yimpendulo kwinqaku lethu.
Kuqala kuphi?
Ngaphambi kokuba unike umntwana iimvakalelo ezintsha, ziphendule kwimibuto embalwa. Yintoni ofuna ukunikela ngayo umntwana wakho, onomdla kuwe okanye naye? Masithi wena ngokwakho usebenza kwi-skiing skiing kwaye ufuna ukuvula le nto kumntwana. Kodwa inzondelelo yakho yeentaba ayiyikunyanzelisa nayiphi na imbopheleleko kumntwana wakho. Ngako oko, musa ukukhawuleza, unike ukuzama iindlela ezahlukeneyo: i-skis, iibhodi, iinqaba ze-snowblades ... Yilungiselele ukuba umntwana omnye wale mi sebenzi ayinakukuthanda kwakho. Unyana wam waqala ukusila eneminyaka engama-4, eneminyaka engama-6 watshintshela kwi-snowboard kwaye iminyaka eyi-10 edlulileyo engatshintshi nantoni na. Ngaphezu koko, wandidonsa. Ngaba ulungele ufundise wakho omncinci ukuba udlala nge-skating, okanye ujoyine i-skating wena, ukuba akunjalo? Ukuba ukhwela, ukukhangela umcebisi kuya kuba nzima. Into ephambili apha kukuqinisekisa ubungakanani kunye nobukhulu beeklasi. Ukuba awuzange ube nekhefu, lungela ukuba umntwana azame kwaye akukholise ukuba uzame. Emva koko, oku kuvuya ngokwenene! Umntwana, emva kokufumana iimvakalelo zokuqala ezithandekayo, uya kuba ufuna ukuwabelana nawe. Ngaba ulungele ukuxhasa umntwana wakho ukuba awuyithandi, kwaye intshiseko yakhe iya kuphuma esikolweni? Kukho imeko apho, ngenxa yesizathu esinye okanye esinye, awuyi kuthanda ukusasaza. Nangona kunjalo, umntwana wakho uyaphila ngaphandle koko ayikwazi. Zama ukumxhasa kule meko. Ndiphe ithuba lokuzama. Akulula ukwenza, kodwa kungcono kunokuba iintaba zihlala zingaphumeleli iphupha lomntwana. Konke kuxhomekeke kuwe.
Inyathelo ngesinyathelo
Ukuphendula le mibuzo, ungaqala ukuqokelela ulwazi. Abahlobo, abaqhelana nabo, i-Intanethi, izifundo zevidiyo - yonke le ntshukumo yolwazi iya kubhekiswa kwicala lenu kunye nenjongo enye-ukwabelana ngoluvo oluvela kumava athobileyo. Yenza umzamo wokufumana utitshala oya kukhululeka nawe kunye nosana lwakho. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi kunokuthenga izixhobo kunye nemiba yokhuseleko. Umfanekiso wesifundo esihle kakhulu kunzima ukuchaza. Ingaba ngumdlali wezemidlalo, kunye nomqeqeshi wokuhlangula, uxhonywe ngediplomas ezahlukahlukeneyo kunye neendondo, kwaye nje umntu ogibele ngaphezu kweenyanga ezintathu. Ngomntwana oneminyaka engama-school school, umqeqeshi kufuneka abe ngutitshala kunokuba ngumqeqeshi. Nokuba ngaba izifundo zeqela, imisebenzi esemqoka yomqeqeshi ayilona nje indlela yokukhwela kunye nokukhuseleko, kodwa kunye nenkcubeko, ukunxibelelana.
Impahla
Musa ukuthenga zonke izixhobo ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba awuyi kuceba uhambo ukuya ezintabeni kwixesha langoku, uze uthenge, umzekelo, iiglasi azibonakali, kuba ngexesha elizayo umntwana uya kukhula kwaye enye ifani iya kufuneka. Khumbula u buncinci bakho. Ngaba wakha wacinga ngezilangazi zokukhanya xa ugibele umtya? Umsebenzi ophambili weebhogi ze-skip is filter filter. Uluhlu lwefayile lukhusela i-retina emisebeni yelanga kwiintaba. I-Skis kunye neebhothi zinokuqeshiselwa de ukuba umntwana anqume ngokuchanekileyo ulwalathiso kwaye umsebenzi awuyi kuba rhoqo. Ukuba umntwana usebenza esikolweni sezemidlalo, ngoko izixhobo ziyakuthi zikhethwe apho. Yintoni endimele ndiyifunayo xa ndikhetha iimpahla? Kwintsebenziswano yokuvelisa izambatho ze-ski and snowboard. Isakhiwo sesisu senziwe ngendlela enokuthi umswakama okhuphekileyo awuhlali phezu kwesikhumba. Ngenxa yoko, ubushushu bugcinwa. Nangona kunjalo, iimpahla zokugibela zenzelwe ukuba abantu bahamba ngokunyanisekileyo. Kanye nje ukuhamba kwiingubo ezinjalo akunako ukukhululeka.
Uphi na nini
Ukukhetha indawo apho ungazama ukukhwela umntwana wakho, - umsebenzi olula. Enyanisweni, nayiphi na iklabhu yindawo apho ungeke ukwazi ukuhamba ngekhefu okanye ukugibela ibhola kuphela, kodwa nexesha elifanelekileyo. Yiya kwi-skating okanye urenze i-snowmobile. Yiya kwibhendi yokuhlambela. Ukufudumala kwi-cafe. Uhambo oluya ezintabeni ludinga ukulungiswa ngakumbi. Kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zezulu uya kufumana izimo zemozulu ezahlukeneyo, iqhwa elihlukileyo. Imozulu kwintaba ibonakaliswe ngcinezelo oluphantsi lwangaphakathi, ukushisa kweqondo eliphantsi kunye nombane ophezulu ophezulu. Ngaba unako ukukhwela okanye awukho, kuxhomekeke kwithuba lonyaka. Njengomthetho, xa uthengela ityelelo, umsebenzisi uhlala enika ulwazi malunga neziganeko zezulu kwindawo oceba ukuyifumana ngayo. Ukuba uziva ukuba ulungele ukuya ezintabeni nomntwana, zama ukucwangcisa uhambo olusondele entwasahlobo. Gxininisa kwiindawo eziphakamileyo ezili-1300-1500 zamitha ngaphaya komgangatho wolwandle. Ukuqala kokuzama oku kunele ngokwaneleyo. Bala ukuba intaba abantu bayigqitha. Kanye njengawo, njengomntu ohamba naye, akukho nto yokwenza. Yonke into engabonwa ngexesha lokukhenketwa kwe-ski ngaphandle kwe-skiing, ithatha ixesha elifutshane. Ixesha eliphambili lisetyenziselwa ukukrazula nokuphumla emva kokusasa.
NoNxibelelwano
Kuba i-skier encane okanye i-snowboarder kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha nabahlobo. Ithuba lokudlala kunye, ukuqhuba umjaho, ukwabelana ngempumelelo yakho kuya kwandisa kuphela uvuyo. Ngokukodwa ukuba uhambo luya kwelinye ilizwe apho abazali kuphela okanye abahlobo abasondeleyo banokuthetha naye ngolwimi lwabo lwasekhaya. Uqeqesho luhlala lusebenza ngakumbi xa lusebenza ngeqela. Ngombutho, oku kunzima kakhulu, kodwa umntwana uya kuzisa uvuyo kunye novuyo.