Eyokuqala kunye, mhlawumbi, enye yezinto ezingundoqo zokungaphumeleli, ezikhankanywe ngabachasene nomtshato womtshato - ukungakhuselekanga komthetho. Ingxabano ebalulekileyo. Ukufa ngokukhawuleza, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile okanye omnye wabahlali kunye nabo, mhlawumbi awunakufumana amalungelo kulo propati. Ngaphantsi komthetho, kuya kuba nezihlobo ezizodwa kunye nezisemthethweni. Ewe, unokubonisa umtshato womtshato. Isiqinisekiso siya kubelwa ngokuphila, abantwana abaqhelekileyo okanye i-akhawunti yokuchitha. Kodwa akulula kakhulu ukubonisa ubungqina bokuqala. Ngokusoloko ekhokelela kwimiphumo enjalo njengoko kuthatha ixesha elide lomthetho. Kwaye kunye negosa elinamava alinakukwazi ukwahlula ipropati efunyenweyo ngexesha lomtshato womtshato.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwahlukana kwepropati akusoloko kubalulekile kubahlali. Ngoko ke, ukuba unalo njongo yokuba "uqoke" okhethiweyo wakho, ngoko ukungabikho komtshato wokuqala komtshato akufanele kukuthumele. Kwimeko enzima, unako ukubhala njalo intando.
Enye ingxaki ngabantwana abafanayo. Ngokwezibalo, abantwana abazalelwa emtshatweni womtshato, bazalwa ngaphambi kokusweleka kwaye babuthathaka. Le nyaniso ichazwa yingqondo: umama, xa ekhulelwa umntwana, ngamanye amaxesha uqala ukucinga: "Ukuba umyeni wendoda ngokukhawuleza ushiya?" Kunzima ukuba ngumama ongatshatanga ngaso sonke ixesha.
Kodwa ke ukuba umntwana uzalwe enempilo kwaye intsapho ihlala kwindawo yokuphila.
Kukho nawuphi na, umtshato womtshato uyisisombululo esihle kubo bafuna ukuvavanya iimvakalelo zabo ngaphandle kokuba nabantwana abafanayo.
Ngoko, sinokugqiba: ezininzi zeengxaki zomtshato womtshato - zingasombululwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuyimfuneko ukusondela kwisisombululo seengxaki ezifanayo, kwaye kungekhona inzuzo yecala elinye. Okukhethiweyo kukukho.
UTatyana Martynova , ngokukodwa kwisayithi