Unqobe umntu wobuzwe obuhlukile yiphupha eliphantse malunga nantombazana kunye nentombazana. Kodwa indlela yokwenza ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ushiye uphawu kwinhliziyo yakhe, kungekhona onke awaziyo. Apha, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kuzo zonke iindawo zomhlaba wonke abantu baneempawu zabo, kwaye ukuzithoba nabo kuyimfuneko, rhoqo kusekelwe kubo. Ngoko, njani ukunqoba iintliziyo zabantu, ukuba uhlala kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zehlabathi?
Ukuba uthe waziswa eChina ngexesha lokujikeleza kwakho, ulungele ukuba umntu uya kukugubungula ukusuka entloko ukuya enzwaneni elwandle. Oku kubonisa ukuba intliziyo yakhe iphelele kuwe, kwaye ukulungele ukwabelana nawe ubomi bakhe bonke. Ngokukodwa, uthi uyakunikela ukuba umtshatile - kungekho, akukho ngaphantsi. Kodwa ukuva inani elikhulu lokuncoma kwidilesi yakho, ngelixa eArgentina okanye eTaiwan, lithetha ukuba wathanda kakhulu loo ndoda.
Ukungahambisani kakhulu ngabantu basePhilippine. Ukuba babethanda le ntombazana, bacinga ukuba kufanelekile ukumbamba ubuso bakhe ngeenyawo zabo. Intetho engaqhelekanga yindoda yenceba, kodwa ayikufanelekanga. Ngenxa yokuba kumazwe ahlukeneyo-amasiko ahlukeneyo kunye namasiko. Ukuba, kumazwe afana neAlgeria, iNigeria okanye iMali, insizwa ifike kuwe kwaye ngethuba le ncoko, ibambe isandla sakho, yaqala ukukhangela isandla sakho ngokulula, uyazi, uye wangena emphefumlweni wakhe. Ukuba ufuna ukuphindaphinda, yenza okufanayo ngesandla sakhe. Apha unesivumelwano esivumeleneyo, into ephambili kukuba, ngaphambi kokukwenza oku, qi niqiniseke ukuba uyayithanda le ndoda.
Phakathi kwamadoda ase-Arabhu, uvelwano kwizesondo zesini luhamba kunye nomdlalo weengqungquthela okanye umnxeba wesandla sakho. Kodwa e-Malta okanye eCyprus, ukudlala ngothando ngamehlo epilisi okuphambili ukuphumelela intliziyo yomntu.
Enye into ebalulekileyo ekukhohliseni ngamazwe kubonakala kwintombi. Kubonakala ukuba kwiindawo ezahlukileyo zehlabathi, ubuhle bakhe obuhle, ubuhle besifa kunye neempawu zokubonakala zixabiswa. Ngokomzekelo, kwiindawo ezifana neThailand, iChina okanye i-Indonesia, intombazana enesikhumba esimhlophe ingayinqoba intliziyo yendoda. Kuthetha ukuba ukutyelela eli mazwe, akuyimfuneko ukuba ube ne-tan efashini. Kukho abafazi abaxabisekileyo abangabikho. Kwakhona kula mazwe, imfuno enkulu ihamba ngamantombazana amancinci kunye amancinci. Kodwa mncinci ngomlinganiselo othile wegama. Ibhinqa elincinci kakhulu kule ngqungquthela yeplanethi ibonwa njengowesifazane ogule ngokungapheliyo.
Inqaku elithandekayo kukuba emazweni aseAfrika, ubuhle bemvelo nobumnandi babasetyhini abufanelekanga. Ukulwa nomntu apha kunokwenzeka kuphela ngengubo egqabileyo, yokwenza kunye nefashini kweli lizwe. Kwakhona, ngabantu baseAfrika abahlawula ngokugqithiseleyo inkwenkwezi kunye nokuzikhethela kwentombazana xa ukhetha intombazana. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuya kwintlanganiso kunye "nomntu wakho wase-Afrika", hlaziya yonke into yakho yesenzo, kwaye wenze ugugu lwakho lukhange kwaye lucebise. EBrazil naseArgentina, indlela eyona nto yokukhanga intliziyo yomntu kwinethiwekhi yakhe yintlankle. Kula mazwe, amadoda ayawaxabisa ngamabhinqa amahle kwaye anelisayo. Ngoko ke, ukuba ungumnikazi wolu hlobo, nonke nina makhadi eempondo ezandleni.
Ngaphezu koko, konke kufuneka kukhunjulwe kwaye emazweni ahlukeneyo nakwiidolophu zikhona iinkcazo ezikhethekileyo kunye nobuchule bokuthandana. Ukusebenza kwisicwangciso esikhethekileyo, esilungileyo, awuyi kulufumana kunzima ukuqhelana nolunye uhlangothi lwangaphandle. Ngokomzekelo, eCanada bars, indlela engcono yokumazi umntu ukuba uyayifaka iilebula kwibhotile yotywala. Kuli lizwe, lo mqondiso uthi ukhululekile kwaye uphendlo olusebenzayo. E-Asia, umfazi oqinileyo makayiqwalasele intombazana egqoke ukuze intamo yakhe ibonakale. KwiAsia, intamo yesibini ibonisa bonke ubuhle besifazane kunye nokucocwa.
Konke kwiArgentina okanye eBrazil enye, ingqalelo kwindoda ayikhethi kuphela kubelelwa ngabasetyhini, kodwa nakwiimpahla. Apha, ukhetho olungileyo luya kuba yingubo eguquguqukayo kwaye elula. Ngaphambi kokupheleliswa okunokwenziwa kwefestile, akukho mmeli wala mazwe onokuma. Ngendlela, qaphela ukuba ngabafana base-Argentina kunye neBrazil abanokukwazi ukukuanga ngosuku lokuqala.
Unqobe indoda kumazwe afana ne-Indiya, i-China kunye ne-Arab Emirates inokukunceda ngoncedo olulungileyo nolungileyo. Amadoda, abameleli bala mazwe, abanomdla kakhulu kwaye bafuna ukujonga izinto ezinjalo. Ngoko ke, xa sifika kula mazwe angentla apha, qaleni kokuqala u tyelele i-beauty salon yendawo. Emva koko unokuphuma ngokukhuselekileyo endleleni yakho yokuzingela abantu abathile beentlobo zesintu.
Ukuba unquma ukunqoba inxalenye yesintu yabemi baseMelika, musa ukulibala malunga ne tattoo (nangona kuphela nje okwesikhashana). I-American macho ijonge ubukho be tattoo kumzimba wesetyha kakhulu. Kunokucetyiswa ukuba indawo yeyona tattoo iphakanyiswe ukuba ukhethe isikhumba ejikeleze iqhosha lesisu, igxala, umva okanye isifuba. Ukulwa nobuhle obunjalo bungaboni nje kuphela. Kodwa amadoda asePolynesia awanandaba namantombazana adlala kakhulu. Ngoko kuya kuba luncedo ngaphambi kokuya kweli lizwe ukuba ube njengezifundo zokudansa.
Ngoko sihlolisise iimpawu eziphambili zendlela ahlukene ngayo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zehlabathi ongayinqoba intliziyo yomntu. Ngoku unayo onke amakhadi ngesandla, ngoko unokuhamba ngokukhuselekileyo kwisiqingatha sakho sesibini, naphi na kwiliphi ilizwe elingenalo. Kwaye sinqwenela inhlanhla!