Iphutha lomfazi 1
Ukunakekelwa okanye ukucinga
Enye yeengcamango kukuba sinokuqiniseka ukuba sinakho ukuhamba kwi-labyrinths yemiphefumlo yethu kwaye siyazi ukuba sifunda njani iingcamango. "Andiyi kuthetha nto kuye, kuba kufuneka aziqaphele. Yaye le nkcazo ihoxisa kakhulu, ngoko kuyacaca ukuba loo mntu wayengazi into awayeyenzayo, kodwa akazange akrokre ukuba babelindele ukuba anike iintyatyambo, kuba wayesazi ukuba ndiyathanda iintyatyambo . Indlela elula kakhulu ukuphuma ukuthetha malunga nokulindela kwakho. Umthetho wegolide wobudlelwane obuhle kunye nokunyaniseka.
Iphutha labesetyhini 2
Ukuba umntu unokufundiswa kwakhona
Njengoko uyazi, isiseko sobuntu sifakwe kwiminyaka emi-5, kwaye ngo-21 umgangatho wokugqibela wobuntu ubonakala. Njani, ngaphandle kwemvume emncinci yomntu, ungatshintsha, kwaye uneminyaka engama-35 ubudala.
Indlela efanelekileyo kukuthatha umntu ukuba ngubani. Ukuba kukho into enomsindo, ukukhathazeka, ukukhathazeka, kufuneka uvakalise iminqweno yakho, uthethe ngeemvakalelo zakho. Xa efika ekhaya ngokukhawuleza, kunokuba athi, "Uphi na u-bastard?", Kungcono ukuthetha kuye: "Ndandisondele kakhulu, ndingathanda ukuba undibize xa usufikile emsebenzini."
Iphutha labesetyhini 3
Umyeni kufuneka agcinwe kwisithuba esifutshane okanye egcinwe ezandleni
Ukuba eso simo sengqondo sikhona, ngoko ulwalamano lushiya uthando. Ubuhlobo obusondeleyo butshabalalisa ukulawula, ukuhlambalaza, amabango, umona. Inkululeko enkulu uyenzela omnye umntu, isondele ngakumbi kuwe. Umyeni okanye omnye umntu ongeyenawe, akayiyo impahla yakho. Kwaye ke unelungelo lokwenza izenzo kunye nokukhetha.
Iphutha labesetyhini 4
Bonke abantu bafuna enye
Isimo esinjalo sicinga ukuba kumntu ubona umntu, kungekhona umntu. Yintoni ebangela oku? Intukuthelo, amava ambi, ukwesaba ubudlelwane obusondeleyo? Yintoni oyenzayo ukutsala amadoda anjalo ebomini bakho? Ngokuqinisekileyo abafuni kuphela "omnye", bafuna ukunyaniseka, ukholo, ukwamukelwa, ukuthandana ngokomoya, ukuqonda, ukunyamekela.
Iphutha lesifazana 5
Ukugxininisa ukunyaniseka okubi
Uhambe ixesha elide, mhlawumbi unomnye umfazi, okanye kwenzeka into eyingozi. Xa imeko ingahambisani nokulindela, siqala ukucinga ngento embi ngakumbi. Izizathu apha zihlukile. Luhlobo luni lokuzithemba esinalo, sisenza njani thina, sithemba njani umlingane wethu? Yintoni esenzayo ngeengcamango zethu, ngaba zihambelana neyinyaniso, zicacise okanye zizicwilise ngokupheleleyo kuzo?
Iphutha labesetyhini 6
Indima yexhoba
Umnqweno wokwenza into ethile kumntu ongenakonwaba, ukhokelela kwisimo sexhoba, xa uzithatha, xa usebenza ngezenzo zakho ulindele izenzo okanye ukubulela. Kubalulekile ukwenza yonke into engathandekiyo, kuphela ngovuyo, ngaphandle kokulindela into ebuyayo.
Iphutha lesifazana 7
Amatyala
"Ndifanele ndilale ngesondo, ndihlambuluke ukupheka" okanye "Ukuba uthe watshata, kufuneka ukuba." Simele sahlukane kunye nezinto esilindeleyo kwaye senze konke ngokuzonwabisa kunye novuyo.
Ngoku siyazi zonke iimpazamo zentombi ebubudlelwaneni nomyeni wakhe, kwaye uzame ukungenzi iimpazamo kwibudlelwane nomyeni wakhe.