Kukho uluvo lokuba ibhinqa lenziwe ukuba lilungise ikhaya kunye nesiphelo sakhe sokukhulisa abantwana. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba akakwazi ukugwenxa. Makhe sithethe ngezizathu zokungathembeki kwabasetyhini. Ngoko, nantsi izona ziqhelekileyo.
1. ImiSebenzi
Oku akusoloko kufumaneka, kodwa udibana. Cinga nje: umfazi usebenza kwinkampani enkulu kwaye ufumana umvuzo ophezulu. Kwaye kubonakala ukuba konke kulungile, de ukuba umphathi ubamemele isidlo sakusiya kwindawo yokutyela. Nantsi yonke into iqala: ukutshatyalaliswa, izipho ... Ukuba ibhinqa lingakulungele ukuhlambalaza, ngoko kule meko, indlela yokuphuma isuswa. U Akak, ukuba umsebenzi ubiza? Ngoko ke kufuneka uhambe ngokunyanzela okanye, njengokuba ifaneka namhlanje, isondo leshishini.
2. Imali
Wonke umfazi umphunga wamanyathelo omntu kwaye ulindele izipho ezivela kumntu othandekayo, kwaye umntu umlethela i-tulip. Ngoko akukho mntu unokuqinisekisa ukuba akayi kugijima kumntu ombambe ngeebhilikithi ezinzima. Musa ukugweba kulo mfazi, asiyikugweba isondo esomeleleyo ngenxa yokuba uyayikhathalela abafazi abahle.
3. Buyisela
Ayikho imfihlo yokuba abafazi bangabathanda yaye banqabisa. Kwaye ukuba umntu ecinga ukuba uthando lwakhe lugxothwa lo mgangatho, kwanele ngokwenzela ukuncoma kumhlobo wakhe osondeleyo. Ewe, uya kuba nomsindo kwaye mhlawumbi uqale ukuziphindisela. Kwaye khawucinge nje oko kuya kwenzeka xa kuthembela kuye indoda. Unokuziphindezela ngale ndlela. Ngoko, yenza izigqibo, madoda.
4. Ukunganeliseki ngesondo
Ingaba umntu uyazi ukuba uthando kunye nomthando wakhe kumfazi wakhe? Ngaba uhlala emtshela ngeengcinga zakhe zesondo? Ngaba uyazibuthela ndawonye? Unjani uhlobo lwezinto ezizithandayo? Yintoni evuyisa kakhulu kwihlabathi?
Ukuba ubuncinane enye yale mibuzo ayishiywanga impendulo, ngoko ke indoda leyo inesizathu sokukhathazeka. Indoda ingakwazi ukulungiselela intandokazi ekhaya, kodwa ukuba akukho nto yesini esilungileyo, loo nto izakufuna ithuba lokugcwalisa le galeko.
5. Ndikhathele konke!
Ibhinqa liyakwazi ukutshintsha xa ixhala. Mhlawumbi akazange ayeke ukumthanda indoda yakhe, kodwa i-quibbles yayo engapheliyo, ukugqithiseleka kwengqumbo, ukunyanzeliswa kwayo njengenkosikazi.
Kodwa ke, uyayithanda ukuthanda uthando ngendlela afuna ngayo iqabane lakhe. Uphupha lomntu oqondayo kunye nothando, onokuba ngumntu ohlangothini.
6. Ukungahambi
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukukrexeza kwabasetyhini kwenzeka kuphela ngenxa yengozi ngenxa yokusetyenziswa ngokugqithiseleyo kotywala kwinkampani evuyayo. Emva kokufumana umlinganiselo omkhulu wokunxila umfazi angasifumana ebhedeni lomntu onqabileyo owamkela ngokukhawuleza ukuphonsa idama xa ehambela isikhungo somngcwabo ...
Walala njani lo mzuzwana, le ntombi ayikhumbuli. Uziva nje enesizungu, nangona unesiqingatha sesibini.
7. I zilingo
Abantu abaye bahlala ndawonye ixesha elide, bayazi kakuhle, ngokufanelekileyo kangangokuthi abanakho izihloko eziqhelekileyo kwingxoxo, bayeke ukunikezana ngokumangalisa, bekhathalele umtshato otshabalalweyo ...
Ukongeza, ngolunye usuku umntu othanda ukuthanda izwe unokubonakalisa ngubani oza kunika imiqondiso yenkcazo kumfazi. Yaye ukuthetha naye kuya kubonakala kunqabileyo, kungabonakali kangangoko ukuba uziphonsa echibini kunye nentloko.
Musa ukulibala ukuba ngohlobo lwaloo nto, le ntokazi ibinomzwelo. Iphupha leemvakalelo ezintsha kunye neemvakalelo. Ukuba umntu othandekayo nomthandayo uyammangalisa, ke akukho mntu unokuqinisekisa ukuba oku akuyi kwenziwa ngenye.
Esinye isizathu sokwenza ukukrexeza kwabasetyhini akwanele. Le nkosikazi iyakwazi oku kuphela xa enganelisekanga ngokupheleleyo ngobomi bayo kunye naye kunye naye, kungekhona.