Kutheni sifuna ukushiya umfazi omnye umfazi?
Inqaku le-Sonnniki lokuba ukukhwabanisa kwendoda yakhe akuthethi ukuba yinyani. Kunoko, nangona kunjalo - kubonisa ukuba iqabane lithembekile kuwe. Njengoko ukhetho, olo phupha lungaze lwenze nantoni na into eyenziwa entliziyweni ngokwenene, kodwa ukubonisa ukudideka okukulindeleyo kunye nethemba elikhohlisayo.
Ukuchazwa ngokucacileyo kwiphupha apho indoda ishiya enye ibhinqa kukuba ukhululekile ukulahlekelwa nguye kwaye uhlala wodwa. Umtoliki wephupha uncoma ukuba uthathe ngesandla kwaye ushiye ukusola okungadingekile - kaninzi, akukho nto.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba iqabane liye kwelinye, ke akufanele ube neyiphi isizathu yokukhathazeka-ubuhle bento enjalo ebomini boqobo buye kwagqithiselwa ukulala kwaye, ngoko ke, kwasuswa. Nangona kunjalo, oku kungabonisa ukwesaba kwakho ukutshintsha into ebomini bakho. Mhlawumbi, kukufanelekile ukucinga ngesimo sakho sengqondo kule nto, kuba utshintsho lunokuthi lube ngcono.
Emva kokungcatsha komyeni wakhe nokuhamba kwakhe kwenye intsapho ephupheni, ngaba waqhawula? Lindela ingxabano encinci eya kusombulula ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuqabane nomyeni wakhe ephupheni kubonisa ukuba lixesha lokutshintsha into ebudlelwaneni bakho, kuba phakathi kwakho nomyeni wakho uqala ukuphakama udonga lokugqithisa, ukungaqondi kakuhle kunye nokungabikho kokusola okungenasiphelo. Ngaphambili uphelisa umthombo wokunganeliseki, okuphakamileyo amathuba okugcina umtshato wakho.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba umyeni wakho wakugxotha enye ibhinqa, usenokuba neengxaki, kuba abanye abahlobo bakho abasondeleyo banomdla kwaye abanakuxanduva.
Iqabane elithathayo kunye nokumanga omnye kwelinye iphupha alithethi ukutshatyalaliswa ngqo, kodwa kubonisa kuphela ukuba uya kubandakanyeka kwiimeko ezinokungcolisa igama lakho. Qaphela izibonelelo ezinokukrokra zentsebenziswano ezivela kubalingane okanye ukunyaniseka kwabahlobo.
Ezinye izibonelelo zokulala
Ingxabano ephupheni kunye nentanda yakhe ibonisa ukusekwa kobudlelwane obudibeneyo ebomini bokwenene. Ukuba umyeni, ngexesha lempikiswano, ekumangalela ngokungathandabuzekiyo into ethile, ke oku kukucacileyo ukuba iimvakalelo zakhe ngawe zifudumele, kwaye uthetha kakhulu kuye.
Ukumanga kunye neqabane lakho ephupheni akusizi kakuhle: uya kudimazeka kwiimpawu zakhe, okanye mhlawumbi wahlukana kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuba intombazana engenazo zibini iphupha lomyeni omtsha - iincwadi zephupha ziqikelele ukuba ngumtshato wokuqala, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, ayiyi kuphumelela, njengoko isigqibo sokuboshwa kwakhe siya kuphazamiseka. Umfazi otshatileyo, ungumnqophiso wokungathandabuli ubudlelwane phakathi kwentsapho, okwenza ukuba acinge ngokubonakala komthandi omtsha.