Le nqaku ayiququzeli "amabali", iingxelo ngomoya wazo "bonke abalimi bebhokhwe", "akukho thando" kunye nezinye i-melodrama. Inyaniso oyifunayo, siyazibhokoxa ngobunzima obuvela emlonyeni womntu umtya weendlela ezahlukeneyo kunye nemibuzo ekhohlisayo. Vula ikhalenda! Kwizinto eziphathekayo uya kuzifunda ngeemeko zangempela: njani isondo esinamandla sisebenzisa abesifazana. Ukunyaniseka kwenyaniso, ubuqili kunye nokunyaniseka ...
Ukuba umntu usebenzisa wena ngesondo
Kukho imizekelo emibini yokuziphatha kwamadoda, xa bevela kwintombazana abayidinga ngesondo kwaye akukho nto.
Okokuqala : ukuthandana okuncane kumanqanaba okuqala okuthandana, de kube kufikelele kwisini.
Okwesibini : ukuziphatha ngendlela epholileyo kwithuba lonke lolwalamano lwakho ngokwesondo. Kwaye abafana abazami ukunyanga ngenyameko intombazana, nathi siza nezizathu ezingenangqiqo kumlingani ovela kwinani elithi "akafuni ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe," "lo ngumlingiswa wakhe." Zombini iimodeli zidibene yinkqubo yeklasi yokuziphatha kwamadoda. Ukuvavanya ngokunyanisekileyo imikhwa yomntu: akunjalo na?
- Akayifaki intombazana kwindawo yakhe, abahlobo
- Ungayithobeli isibonelelo sokubonakala esidlangalaleni ndawonye: uye kwi cafe, ibhayisikobho
- Ulwalamano lwakho luyancitshiswa ukuya kwinqanaba elungqambileyo kumntu othile ekhaya, ngenxa yento yonke ayikho ixesha, akukho mali, kunye nezizathu ezinjalo. Ufika kuwe kuphela ngexesha elifanelekileyo kuye. Ukuba ukhenela ukutyelela, kodwa uva iimbambano ezingapheliyo, uyidlala yecansi.
Ngokomnye wabantu abadliwano-ndlebe, kukho ukungafani nemithetho: "Ndiyahamba naye ngombambano, uye kwi-bar kunye ne-skating rink, kodwa andinandaba naye. Akukho mvakalelo, akukho mvakalelo. Ewe, ndingumfana onjalo. Ndifuna kuphela kwicala lomzimba. Ukuba intombazana ibuhlungu okanye iqala ukuxubha uthando, ndiza kumxelela. " Ukuba usetyenziselwa "yimpumelelo yezemidlalo"
Ngokuqhelekileyo phakathi kwabafana abaneminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kweyama-25 kunomxholo othi "Ndiyomdla umdlalo: ukuphumelela, ukulala nokuphosa." Ixhoba likhetha ukhetho:
- Mhle, kodwa i-cocky
- Akunakwenzeka
- Pathos hen
- Queen's Syndrome
- Emva kokuba undijike
- Umntu woluntu
- Ubani ofuna ngenxa yobungakanani
Loo mntu uza kwenza konke ukufikelela kwiinjongo - ukuze amlale. Kwaye ixesha le-candy-bouquet, kunye nokuthandana. Kunzima kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba ungayithandi. Emva kokudibana nabantu abanjalo, kukho ulwandle lwezinyembezi, intlungu kunye nokudumala. Ukufumana ukuba inkwenkwe ayinakwenzeka ukuba isebenze ... Khangela, okokuqala, kwigama lakhe. Qhubeka uphonononga phi na indlela odibana ngayo. Zakhe izenzo. Ukuba kukho ulwazi malunga nolwangaphambili, fumana ukuba ubuhlobo babo baqala njani nokuba kutheni baqhekeza. Laba bafana basebenze kwisicwangciso esiqinisekisiweyo esisebenza ngempumelelo kunye namantombazana amaninzi.
Ukuba umntu usebenzisa wena njengomhlobiso
Ngamanye amaxesha amadoda afuna ukuba nentombazana ukuba ibe. Thatha kunye neziganeko ezibalulekileyo, iintlanganiso kunye nobusuku. Uhlobo lokuziphatha kommeli wesini esomeleleyo kule meko luhluka ukusuka kubukhulu besikhwama sakhe.
Umntu ocebileyo uya kuthenga ingqalelo yakho ngezipho, ngokukhawuleza uqhube ngeevenkile kwaye ngexesha elifanelekileyo uthi "namhlanje siya kwintlanganiso / idili." Indoda
enekhredithi izaliswa kuphela ngomhla wokuhlawula , iya kuba khona xa ikulungele kwaye imali ingenzi nzuzo kuye. Indlela yokuziphatha ithatha iimpawu zokuqala zokuqwalasela - ibiza iintlanzi, i-pussycat, i-bunny. Ngamanye amaxesha wenza ukuba akuvumele ukulahlekelwa nguwe. Ihedyuli yeendibano ezidibeneyo zilungiswa ngokwazo. Unokuba ngumsindo, kuyimfuneko. Unqabana ukuba ajwayelane nabazali kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo bentombazana enokuzixeka.
Ukuba usetyenziswe njengomkhonzi
Ngaba kukho iimeko apho umntu emema khona endaweni yakhe, xa enentaba yezinto ezingcolileyo, izinto ezingahlambulukanga kwaye ezingenanto kwiqrijini? Yaye ngokumomotheka okomnkantsha, ukugubungela nokubetha emlonyeni, kukucela ukuba uphume. Ukuba iphinda iphindaphindiwe rhoqo, le ntombazana ibonwa njengomkhonzi,
"ulungele ukuba adle, kakuhle, kwaye ungalala ngesondo .
" Ukuba usetyenziswe njengendlela "yokugcina indawo"
Kwenzeka ukuba usetyenziswe njengendawo "ye-airplane airfield". Kwaye akukho malunga nokulala. Sichaza imeko. Intombazana ihamba nomntu kwaye ibonakala ibudlelwane kunye nokuphela kovuyo, kwaye ngenye indlela, i-bang - le ndoda iya kumnye umntu, yaqala ukudibana nomnye okanye yalala ngaphandle kwendlela. Ngoko, bathandekayo, "yinto yokugcina indawo." Izizathu:
- Indoda inomnye umfazi kwaye ukhetha phakathi kwababini;
- le ndoda yagqiba ekubeni iguqulwe kwangaphambili, ukuze igcine ibuyise.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiimeko ezinjalo awunabo. Ulwalamano lwakho lune-limbo: babonakala bedibana, kodwa kwakungekho nkcazo esemthethweni. Ngexesha elinye waziva unyanano nomntu, kwelinye - ngokwalo.
Indlela yokuchonga? Efihlakeleyo, amabali akhe atyhidiweyo, utshintsho lwolwazi luhlengahlengiswa.
Umntu uyazigweba iindawo ezininzi ngexesha lokuhamba ngokubambisana, umzekelo, ukhokelela echibini. Yintoni engayithandi, uhambe kwindawo ephumlileyo, efihliweyo kwaye ujabulele ngasese? Ukuba le ntombazana iqhubekile ukuya kwindawo egcweleyo-i-cafe-loo mntu uziphatha ngokuzonwabisa, ukuphepha ukuthintana naye. Ufihla iifowuni kunye neesaziso ezivela kubathunywa bexeshana. Ubeka ifowuni kwitheyibhile kunye nekrini okanye uyibeke ephaketheni lakhe. Iimfowuni zivame ukuhamba ngemini kwaye zicacise: apho ukhona, zeziphi izicwangciso kunye nalapho uya khona. Kukho nawuphi na umcimbi ukuba ungadluli nawe.
Ukuba usetyenziselwa indawo yokuhlala
Kukho amaxesha apho ihlabathi elilawulayo lilawula amandla amakhulu: uhlala ngaphandle kwephahla phezu kwentloko okanye ngaphandle kwemali. Kwaye ke "ikhanda eliqaqambileyo" lihanjelwa ngcamango yokusebenzisa ibhinqa njengendawo yokuhlala yesikhashana. Kuthetha, ukuhlazisa, ukukhubaza - kodwa kubalulekile ... Izimpawu zokuziphatha:
- Iyanxusa ukuba uhlale nawe iintsuku eziliqela kumqolo;
- Ufunga ngeemvakalelo ezinamandla, nangona ubuhlobo bakho kunye neveki nomsila;
- Iingxoxo zihamba ngokukhawuleza kwindlu yakho. Kwaye akakhathaleli ukuba uhlala kunye nomntakwabo okanye umama.
Abantu abanjalo banako nantoni na ukuba bafumane ngokukhawuleza kwisihlamba esibusayo ngexesha lokurekhoda.
Njani ukuqonda ? Zama okungakumbi malunga nokuchuma kwakhe, umsebenzi apho ahlala khona. Kwaye ukuba uqiniseke ukuba ukhangele ukuba unendawo yokuhlala, mcele ukuba ahlale iintsuku ezimbalwa ngokulandelana.
Ukuba usebenzise imali
Amantombazana akhuselekileyo kwaye aphumelelayo kufuneka akhethe ngokukhethekileyo abalingani kwaye angaphuthelwa yiGigolo. Ngokudla kaninzi, bakhetha ixhoba lento edideka ngamadoda. Kwaye kwakhona, ii-polls zibonise ukuba amadoda aphethe imali asebenza ngokwezicwangciso ezimbini:
Eyokuqala . Le nkwenkwana, ebona kuwe isikhwama semali, iya kuba kabini ibe yinyameko kwaye ilumkele. Ungumuntu ongcono kunazo zonke emhlabeni ongenandaba nemali yakho kunye nesimo. Isasazeka ngovelwano kunye nokuthandana kwe-pohlesche ebusuku. U-Alfonso ufezekile kangangokuthi uthatha umoya: isidlo sasekuseni embhedeni, ukuhlalisa ngokuhlwa emva komsebenzi kunye neqela lezinto ezintle ezinobomi bemihla ngemihla. Kwaye bazama ukubonisa "ngubani oyinkosi endlini," ukulawula umfazi ophumeleleyo endlwini yakhe. La madoda anqabile abonakalise ubuthathaka babo kwaye oku kukuthandwa ngabafana. Yaye ngelixa intloko yowesifazane ikhutshwe ngothando, insizwa icela ngenkohlakalo encinci ukuphuhlisa ibhizinisi "jikelele," okanye lisondela ngokukhawuleza kumhla womtshato.
Okwesibini kubi kwaye kuthetha. Ufuna umntwana kuwe. Umtya onjalo ukubetha iikhondom, "ngengozi" andinaso ixesha lokukhupha. Yenza konke ukwenza intombazana ecebileyo "ibhabhise" ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye kwakhona, sicaphuna amagama omnye wesini esomeleleyo:
"Kutheni ukuxoka? Ewe, umntu ngamnye ubuncinci wayecinga ukuba uzithabathe umfazi ocebileyo kwaye azalise. Emva koko umtshato, kunye nonogogo wakhe epokothini lakho. " Kwaye ncinane malunga namadoda
Lo ngumzekelo wabantu abanobuqili nabanokratshi, kodwa kusekho uthando olungathandabuzekiyo, amadoda amnandi kunye nabafana abakulungele ngokwenene yonke into! Kuzo nayiphi na imimangaliso, ukuze ube nolonwabo. Konke okufanayo, kusele abo bafana ukuba ngubani onokukuvuyisa injongo yobomi bakhe. Iintshaba zikhona ezo ezo zinto zibiza ngaphezu kweyadayimane. Kwaye aba bafana baninzi ngaphezu kweengqungquthela! Yaye yintoni na indoda yakho?