Emva koko, othandekayo, kufuneka bawaxabise, kufana nesipho sokuphela. Ukuba uya kulungisa i-akhawunti yomntu iingxaki zakho, kulo mzekelo, uya kulahleka ukutsala kwakho.
Simele silinde iminyaka yothando lokwenene, into eyona nto kukuzithanda thina kwaye sikholwe inhlanhla.
Abantu abaninzi bayazi ukuba bayathanda umntu ozithandayo. Kubalulekile ukufumana iimvakalelo ezintle, ukuzonwabisa kunye nabahlobo, umzuzu ngamnye wobomi.
Musa ukuchitha ixesha lakho ukucinga malunga nokuba awunalo othandekayo, kodwa zama ukukholisa wena, wenze konke oku kunokwenzeka. Emva koko uya kuphumelela, kwaye iya kubonakala ebomini bakho.
Ngomhlobo, ulwalamano aluhlali lulula kwaye lulula. Kuya kuba nzima kuwe ukuba awuyiqondi isizathu sokuba ukhethe.
Mhlawumbi uhamba naye kuba uloyiko lokuba yedwa. Mhlawumbi kunjalo. Okanye mhlawumbi awulungele ukuvakalelwa. Ukudibana nabanye, ukuzikhohlisa, ukuziva unetyala, mhlawumbi ukhathala. Mhlawumbi kungcono ukuba yedwa nje?
Akunjalo into embi ukuba yedwa. Ukuba oku akuvakalayo ukukholisa, zama ukubeka kwindawo yayo. Nabanye, soloko nenza njengoko kufanele bakuphathe.
Umthandayo akayinto into yokuba wonke umntu uboniswe, abonayo. Akuyena imoto yakhe, isikhundla simele sibe nomdla kuwe, yena ngokwakhe kufuneka afuneke kwaye unomdla.
Musa ukuthatha indima engenakuchasana nawe, oku kuya kuba nzima nje ubomi bakho. Ukuba awuyithandi indoda, kufuneka uhambe naye. Kwaye nangona umntu ethanda izinto ezithile, akuthethi ukuba ufuna i-intombi kunye nento efanayo. Kuhle ukuba nento efana nabantu. Xa abantu ababini badibanisa iminqweno eyahlukileyo, ubudlelwane abuyinto enomdla.
Ithelevishini kunye ne-cinema zidala ukukholelwa ukuba uthando luya kuhlala ngonaphakade. Kodwa, ngelanga ngelinjalo. Ngexesha lobomi, uthando alufaneki, kuba sitshintshe ngokwethu, i-worldview yethu ishintshana nathi.
Lowo uhlala naye ixesha elide, uyeka ukuba khona, awuyiqondi into oyisebenzisayo ukufumana kuyo. Ulwalamano oluhle lufikelela kwindawo ephezulu kwaye alinakuqhubeka nokuphuhlisa. Oku kwenzeka xa umntu eyeka ukuthanda omnye.
Ubudlelwane abukwazi ukuhlala phakathi kwabathandi abatshintshiyo. Uthando luya kutshintshwa ngumntu ongenamdla okanye ongenanto.
Ukuba uhlala ushiya akudingeki ukuba uqonde, njengokungathi unomntu ongenamsebenzi. Ufana nangoko xa uthanda nomhlobo. Utshintshe ukucinga kwakhe.
Kuyatshitshiswa ukushiywa. Kodwa kukho konke oku kufuneka udlule, kufuneka uphile. Ubomi abupheli apho, nje umntu ongeyonto engekho. Ku sa phambili. Ubuhlungu entliziyweni, buya kupheliswa, kwaye kwakhona uya kukhula. Ukufunda ukuba yintoni inkululeko, unokusinda, ube namandla, kwaye ekugqibeleni, udibana nomphefumlo wakho. Kuphela, akufanele uphelelwe ithemba, kufuneka ukholwe ukuba yonke into iya kuba yinto ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho.