Bathi thina, bafazi abancinci, banomona kwaye sithandazela ukuba ekuhlanganisweni kokuqala kunye nobunzima bekulungele ukubamba umhlobo obalaseleyo kwizinwele, kwaye ubuyeke ubuhlobo obungunaphakade kwiintlanga ezingenabugovu. Kubalulekile ukufumana ukuba zivela phi iingxoxo, oko kuyinyani kubo, kwaye yintoni inkohliso. Ngoko, iingcamango malunga nobuhlobo besifazana.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kwimeko yakho kukho abafazi abangama-12 abo bonke ubudala abahlobo abavela ezikolweni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yimida, ukutshintsha izinto ezithandwayo kunye nokwakhiwa kweentsapho. Ngoko yintoni umcimbi?
Thina thina bafazi sininzi ngakumbi kwaye sivulekile kunabantu. Ngako oko, ngamanye amaxesha kunye nolwazi oluthile oluqalayo esiqala ngalo kwiimbulo, kwaye "ukubuyisela" - ulungele ukunyanceda. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba ingxaki ixazululwa - abahlobo bezolo bayingxenye. Kutheni? Ewe, kuba bebengabangani. Baye baxhasana ngomzuzu onzima.
Ubungqina besibini malunga nobuhlobo besifazane buqulunqwe ngabantu. Xa umntu esabelana nomntu onobuhlungu, kubalulekile kuye uncedo oluthile, olufanelekileyo kunabo bonke-olusebenzayo. Ngokombono wabo, umhlobo akafanele akhulume, kodwa kuye. Thina, bafazi, sinomdla kunxamnye. Asiyidingi inkxaso yemoya: oko kwakunjalo, ukuba ngubani omele akhulume, ukukhala, kunye kunye kunye kunye ne-poahat-poahat. Siza kwenza oku kamva, emva kokufumana ukuqinisekisa ukuba konke kulungile.
Ukususela ebuntwaneni siye saqhathaniswa nabanye abantwana abaselumelwaneni, abalingana nabo esikolweni, abalingana nabo esikolweni, abakwazi ukukhuphisana rhoqo nokujonga emva kwabanye. Beka umchasi ophumelelayo ngakumbi "endaweni", nathi sizama rhoqo indlela elula - ekuboniseni iimpazamo zakhe. Ngenxa yoko, thina, sikhula, sicinga ukuba ubudlelwane obunjalo buqhelekileyo. Ngoko sixubusha yonke imihla, siqwalasela inqaba yendawo ehlala kuyo. Olubuhlobo kuphela oluhlobene nobudlelwane.
Uvakala kaninzi ukuva: "Unjani na intombazana kum ukuba ungahambi nam ukuya kwizifundo ze-ikebana"! Kuqondwa ukuba kufuneka ube nezinto ezizenzekelayo, kungenjalo akukho mfuneko yokuba ngabahlobo! Kwaye ukuba akukho mntu unokungathandabuzeki ngesidingo sokuba neminqweno efanayo, ngoko ukungazi kakuhle malunga nehlabathi elipheleleyo kufuneka lihlukaniswe nomhlobo lonke ixesha linye yingozi. Sonke sahluke kwaye sinxibelelana ngakumbi kunomdla, kungekhona nangomfanekiso wethu, kodwa nangomnye umntu onemibono yakhe, iinkolelo, izinto ezithandwayo.
"Ubunyani" bobuhlobo buhlolwe nje ngendlela abantu ababini abakhululekile kuyo, ukuba babe ngabanye, kwaye kungabikho iikopi ezigqityiweyo. Ngelishwa, oku kunjalo. Imvakalelo yethu idla ngokugqithiseleyo ukuqonda, kwaye ngenxa yamagama obomvu singakwazi "ukuthengisa" intombi. Kwaye kungekho njongo enobungozi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba singacingi ngento yokuba ulwazi esilithumela kumntu wesithathu lunokulimaza ngandlela-thile, lukhubekise okanye lusicaphukise. Isizathu sesibini sale mpawu ngumnqweno wokufezekisa ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kubuhlobo bomntu umntu. Njengoko, niyabona, kwinqanaba elithile lokuba ndize kuwe, ndifumene zonke iimfihlelo. Kodwa ezi zazingekho iimfihlelo zakho ... Ukuze ungabi lixhoba kwaye usasaze ukuhleba, mamela ukuba ngubani naziphi iimfihlo ozithembayo.
Ukunxibelelana nabasetyhini ngokubanzi kunika ulonwabo kubo bonke abantu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba isini. Yaye ibeka isigxina seleko-oko kukuthi, ngaphezu kokuba umntu ungumhlobo nabasetyhini, ngaphantsi kokuba uziva ekhohlo. Kakade ke, akubhekiselele kwisondo, kodwa ngokubhekiselele kwintlalo yoluntu. Uqhagamshelwano nabasetyhini luhlobo "lwe-elixir", "ehlawula" ngamandla akhe abantu abaninzi.