Iingcali ze-sociologists zinikele ingqalelo nje kuphela kwenyuka kwinani leemitshato eziqhawule umtshato, kodwa kunye nokubonakala kweengxaki ezingenakunqunyulwa kwiintlalontle zentsapho. Uninzi lwezibini ezitshatileyo azikwazi ukuwaphula ngokusemthethweni ubudlelwane ngenxa yeengxaki ezibonakalayo phambi kwabo, ngenxa yokungabikho kwesivumelwano kwimicimbi yabantwana abangaphantsi kwabazali babo. Ukwahlukana, ulwahlulo, ukwahlukana kwepropati - zonke ezi zizathu zokugweba abafazi ukuba babe nobukho kunye naphezu kwezifiso zabo. Kodwa isizathu esiqhelekileyo sokuvela kweemeko ezinjalo ukungazi imithetho.
Ngoko, umzekelo, umyalelo unikezela u-alimony kumntwana, ngelixa emtshatweni, kwaye kwimiba ekhethekileyo kunokwenzeka ukuba iqabane elisweleyo (umlingane). Ungasebenzisa kwakhona ilungelo lokuxhasa abantwana ngaphandle komtshato kwaye nangona kungekho bantwana abaqhelekileyo kwintsapho. Ngenxa yoko, inkundla kufuneka ibone ukukhubazeka kweqabane (iqabane).
I-Alimony, ngaphandle kokuqhawulwa komtshato, ingafumaneka kwakhona kwiimeko apho iqabane lingagqibekanga imithwalo yakhe yomzali ngokuphathelele kumntwana. Emva koko umlingani osweleyo uhambisa ukulungiswa kwe-alimony, ngelixa esemtshatweni womthetho. Umthetho unikezela ngamatyala apho i-alimony ihlawulwa khona kumntwana kunye nomlingane. Iimeko ezinjalo ziquka iimeko xa umfazi ekhulelwe okanye umntwana engazange afumane iminyaka engama-3 ukususela ekuzalweni kwakhe. Kule meko, unina angaphinde abuyele kubazali bomntwana kunye nokugcinwa komntwana. Isicelo se-alimony ngaphandle kokuqhawula umtshato sineenkqubo ezifanayo zokufakela, ngokubhekiselele kwi-alimony emva komtshato osemthethweni.
Amaqabane angachaza iimali eziyimfuneko kwaye, ngokungabikho kokungahambisani, misela kwisivumelwano ngokuzimela. Kodwa ngenxa yamandla omthetho isivumelwano kufuneka siqinisekiswe ngumbhalisi.
Xa kukho iingxabano, ukungavumelani komnye wabafazi ukufezekisa uxanduva malunga neqabane okanye umntwana omncinci, unokufaka isicelo kunye nesitatimende sesibango sokuba u-alimony kunye nomtshato. Emva koko u-alimony uzuzwa ukusuka ngomhla wokufaka isicelo, kwaye kungekhona emva komtshato osemthethweni. Kwimeko apho umtshato ungenakwenzeka, kufuneka ufake isicelo se-alimony.
Ukuqokelela i-alimony, kufuneka ikhunjulwe ukuba inkundla inokuhlawulisa kuphela ipesenteji ethile yegosa elisemthethweni lomlingane okanye i-alimony kwisixa esicwangcisiweyo. Ixabiso leentlawulo ze-alimony lichaphazelekayo kwizinto eziliqela. Ezi ziquka: isimo sempilo yengane, izinga lemali engenayo, isimo sempilo yomlingane, obophezelekile kwiintlawulo ze-alimony, kwakunye nokuba khona kwabanye abantwana.
Ngoko ke, ngokufumana ingeniso engapheliyo, ukungabikho kwengqesho okanye imeko apho iholo engenayo liye lahluke kwi-engafanelekanga, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ifune i-alimony kwisixa esicwangcisiweyo semali. Kodwa oku kungadinga ukuqokelela amaxwebhu ukuba impumelelo yangempela yindleko enkulu kunokuba kuboniswe kwingxelo yengeniso. Oku kungaba ngamaxwebhu malunga nokwenza amashishini, ukuthenga izinto ezibiza.
Ukongeza kokuhlawula i-alimony, umyalelo unikezela ukuthatha inxaxheba kwabazali bobabini ebomini, uphuhliso, unyango lwabantwana abaqhelekileyo. Ngaphandle kokuvuma kwemvume, isicelo sithunyelwa enkundleni ukuba iqabane lihlawule iindleko ezongezelelweyo, nokuba ngaba inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana ingahlawulwanga ngaphandle komtshato.
Kwimeko apho ukuxhaswa kwabantwana kungasetyenziselwa iimfuno zomntwana, iqabane elivela kuyo i-alimony liqokelelwe linelungelo lokufaka isicelo kwinkundla. Emva koko ufumane imvume yokudlulisela u-50% wenkxaso yenyanga yenyanga kwi-akhawunti yomntwana.
Ukukhuselwa ngokukhawuleza kwenkokhelo ye-alimony kuhlawulwa ngumthwalo wecala. Ngexesha elithile apho intlawulo yesondlo nangona nayiphi isizathu ayinakwenzeka, umntwana unako ukukhutshwa karhulumente ngoncedo. Ukongezelela, isixa solu hlobo uncedo luya kuqokelelwa kwiqabane elihlawula i-alimony.
Ukuba kukho inkundla yenkundla, xa kubonakala ubungqina bokungabikho kwentlawulo yokugcina isondlo, ipropati yokuchithwa inganatywinwa okanye enye imilinganiselo yokuqokelela imali ehambelanayo.