Amakhwenkwe asePai kunye kunye namantombazana athobileyo ahlala kuphela kwiingxelo zamagama kunye namaphupha abazali. Umntwana wokwenene usekude kwincwadi enokuthi: unengqiqo, umemeza - ngamanye amaxesha aphakame kakhulu kwaye eninzi kakhulu, enenkani. Ngelinye igama, wenza konke ukwenza uyise nonina banqwenele ukuthabatha iintloko zabo. Kodwa mhlawumbi yonke into ilula kakhulu?
Ukungabikho kwengxelo yimbangela eqhelekileyo yokungaqondi kakuhle. Ukuba ufuna umntwana ukuba akuve, qinisekisa kuqala ukuba ingqwalasela yakhe igxile kuwe. Musa ukumemeza ngokugqithisileyo ukusuka kwelinye igumbi okanye ekupheleni kwendawo yokudlala - kufuneka ufike kumntwana, uqhagamshelane naye kweso, uthathe isandla sakhe kwaye uvakalise ngokukhawuleza isicelo eso.
Ukudideka kwezinto eziphambili kubonakala kungekhona, kodwa into ebalulekileyo. Ukongezelela kwisondlo esifanelekileyo kunye nolawulo olucacileyo, umntwana ufuna inkxaso esebenzayo kunye nomncedi omdala: umama okanye utata, okanye ngcono - zombini. Ukungabi nxaxheba okunjalo kunzima ukuhlawulela izinto eziphathekayo.
Ukunyanzelisa into eyenziwa ngabazali ngezinye izihlandlo ekufakela imfundo njengenjalo. Ingundoqo yesimo somntu ukuxhathisa uxinzelelo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba luncedo njani. Umntwana ulandela nje izilwanyana-ngaba kulungile ukumgxeka? Mhlawumbi kunengqiqo ukumvusa ngothando nangokuqonda.