Ekuqaleni, amathoyizi anomsebenzi omnye-ukunceda umntwana ngolwazi lwehlabathi elijikelezayo, ukufundisa nokuphuhlisa. Ngokomzekelo, ukudlala ngamadonki, amantombazana ayelungiselela ukuba ngaba oomama, kwaye abafana bajongene nendima yomntu onondla ngokuncedwa ngamabholo enkuni. Ekuphuhliseni uluntu, amathoyizi atshintshe: izinto zatshintshile, iimpawu zokudlala zezinto zasendlini zavela, kwaye isibheno sabo sobugcisa sanda. Kwaye namhlanje ishishini lokudlala liye lafikelela kwinqanaba layo: luhlobo luni lwamathoyizi alukho kwii-shelves zeevenkile zabantwana! Yiloo nto ekhokelela kule mibala - umnqweno wokukhulisa abantwana okanye iinzuzo zorhwebo? Iintlawulo kunye neziphumo zamathoyizi anamhlanje, kunye nefuthe labo kwi-psyche yengane, ziya kuxutyushwa kamva.
Amathoyizi - isibuko somphakathi
Kubuwula ukukhanyela into yokuba izinto ezizungezile zibonakalisa ngokuchanekileyo ngokoqobo. Le nkcazo yinyaniso yeetayiti. Umntwana onqabileyo wamanamhlanje akanalo ifoni okanye ipilisi yezinto zokudlala, makungabikho oomatshini abangenakubalwa kunye nezinye izixhobo. Kubonakala ngathi akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngolu hlobo - ukusebenzisana neentshukumo ezinjalo, inkunzi iyaxelisa ukuziphatha komntu omdala, kwaye ngoko ifunda.
Kodwa kukho ingxaki enye: ngokulandela ukuthengiswa kweevenkile, abavelisi bazama ukwandisa umdlalo waloo mdlalo. Akunakwenzeka kuphela ukuba ithebhulethi yabantwana ayinakuhlukaniswa "nomntu omdala" ngokubonakalayo, ngoko ke ikwaxutywa ngemali eninzi. Zonke ezishiywe ngumntwana nje zicinezela amaqhosha uze ufumane umphumo ohleliweyo. Akukho phuhliso lweengcamango, ukungabikho komsebenzi wokudlala, njengolu hlobo, kwaye ngaphezu koko, ukunyamekela komsebenzi wenkqubo ye-nervous fragile. Akumangalisi ukuba, abantwana banokukhawuleza bathatywe ngamathoyizi anjalo, kwaye indlu iya kuba yinto efana ne "Izwe Lezingane." Kukho indlela yokuphuma-thengisa amathoyizi alula kakhulu ashiya indawo yokucinga. Lawa makhonksi aseklasi, abaqulunqi, bahlela ukudala.
Imifanekiso ephosakeleyo: inyaniso okanye inkolelo?
Kodwa ukukhathala nokuxhalabisa ngokukhawuleza nje "iintyatyambo" xa kuthelekiswa neengongoma ezisemgangathweni ezinokuthi zithwale ii-toy zamanje. Ngokuphathelele ukumisa imifanekiso ephosakeleyo. Khumbula indlela kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo ihlazo elidlulayo malunga nedonsa edumileyo kwihlabathi - uBarbie? Kubonakala ngathi kuqhutywe isifundo, iziphumo zatshitshisa uluntu: umfanekiso "ococekileyo" weBarbie uphoqa amantombazana endleleni ye-anorexia.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngeendlela ezingenangqiqo kumfazi ophilileyo, kubangela ukubonakala kwezinto ezinzima ezenza ukuba amantombazana ahambe ngokutya kunye nendlala. Nangona kunjalo, akukho datha echanekileyo enikezelwe kulo "sifundo" kuluntu. Ukunqongophala nokuvakalelwa kwimidiya: ukuthengwa kwehla ngokukhawuleza, ukuthandwa komfanekiso kuye kwehla, kwaye abazali baye baqala ukukhusela abantwana "kwiidlingozi" ezimbi. Kwaye abantu abambalwa banikezwa umfanekiso olula phakathi kokunciphisa ukuthandwa kweBarbie kunye nokuvela kweedodoli ezintsha kwiimarike, oko baqala ukuzithengela esikhundleni sakhe kwaye okubonakalayo kwahluke kakhulu kwi-stellar blonde.
Ubuntwaneni obonwabileyo kunye nemidlalo efanelekileyo
Kakade, into yokudlala iyimifanekiso ethile, itemplate, egxininisa apho umntwana efunda ukuhlala iimvakalelo kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane. Kwaye ukuba lo mfanekiso ngokwawo uphatha umyalezo ongafanelekanga, umzekelo, unobundlobongela okanye wesondo, ngoko ke abazali kufuneka bawuqwalasele. Kodwa, umzekelo, ngokubhekiselele kuBarbie ofanayo, imbambano yempembelelo yakhe embi kumantombazana kunengxabano.
Okokuqala, idonki ngokwabo kunye nobomi bakhe obungenasiphako ichaneka imifanekiso yeentombi zamantombazana. Kodwa akukho ne-Snow White noRununzel, elowo unomfanekiso obonakalayo kwaye ulindele isikhulu sakhe, asinakugxeka ukufakwa kweemifanekiso eziphosakeleyo. Unokuba usenokuthi uBarbie uyichazwa ngokusesikweni kwintsapho enhle. Okwesibini, isixhobo esiyinhloko esichaphazela ukuvela komntu womntwana kukukhulu kunona idodoli ngokwayo, kodwa idlala nayo. Umfanekiso ofanayo noBarbie ungasetyenziselwa ukuthakazelisa intombi ngokuthunga okanye ukupheka. Njengendlela yokukhetha, kukho imidlalo emininzi yevidiyo apho i-blonde eyaziwayo ifundisa ukupheka ubulumko kuphela, kodwa nezinye iimeko "ezibhinqa" ezibalulekileyo. Imizekelo yale midlalo iyafumaneka apha. Okwesithathu, musa ukuvila ukudlala nomntwana uze uchazele kuye inyaniso elula. Umdlalo ngumsebenzi ofanelekileyo wokufunda nokulawula inkqubo yophuhliso. Isiphetho siyazibonakalisa: asiyiyo into yokudlala - okubi, kodwa intsingiselo esiyibeka kuyo. Xoxa nabantwana kwaye ubafundise ukwahlula imvelaphi kwimifanekiso eqingqiweyo ukususela ebuntwaneni. Kwaye akukho zixhobo zamathoyizi azikwazi ukulimaza abantwana bakho!