Zihlala kakuhle
Kanye ngonyaka, kufuneka utshintshe ifowuni, yonke iminyaka emihlanu-imoto, zonke iinyanga ezintathu ukuhlaziywa ngokugqithiseleyo ikhabethe. Iholide kufuneka isetyenziswe kwiihotele ezilungileyo kakhulu zeYurophu. ECrimea naseTurkey - ngenxa yokulahlekelwa, i-dacha ngokubanzi ingaphaya kwemida yokuziphatha. Konke ngokwemigqaliselo yekhowudi yamanje "yindoda ephumelelayo." Ukuqinisekiswa okusebenzayo kwesi sikhundla akunalo. Kodwa, naphezu kweengxaki, "umshini wokugungqa ingqondo" uyaqhubeka usebenza ngamandla. Imifanekiso eyenziwe ngokuzikhethela yokukhuthaza impilo, ikhuthaza abantu ukuba bathenge, bathenge, bathenge - akukhathaleki ukuba ngaba ezinye iimpahla ziyimfuneko kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ziyakwazi ukuzithenga. Nangona kunjalo, kungekude kudlulileyo kwacaca: akunakwenzeka ukuchitha imali eninzi. Ukuze ugcine impilo efanayo, kufuneka usebenze ngaphandle kokulala nokuphumla. Nangona oku akuqinisekisi ukuba inqanaba elithathwa ngokuba "lifanelekile" kuluntu lwabathengi. Ngenxa yoko, ukuxinezeleka, ubunzima kunye nokuzinikela ngokupheleleyo phambi kobunzima bezoqoqosho.
Ufuna ntoni?
Umntu owaziwayo "umthengi webhasikidi" (isethi yempahla kunye neenkonzo eziyimfuneko ngokufanelekileyo ukuze zihlangabezane neemfuno zabantu eziphambili, ezisungulwe nguRhulumente), inqaku, alibandakanyi izidlo ezidliwayo, izinto zokunethezeka kunye neziyobisi. Ngaphezu koko, ezidweliswe ngaphantsi kweengubo, iimpahla, izicathulo kunye nezinye izinto zokusetyenziswa kwexesha elide zidinga ukuhlaziywa ngokusekelwe kwixesha elithile apho into into ephazamiseka ngayo, kungekhona nje ngefashoni. Ewe, ukuba kukho uluhlu olunjalo akusiyo yonke isizathu sokunika umfazi omnye unyaka ngamnye kwiminyaka emihlanu. Kodwa ukuzama ukuqonda umahluko phakathi "Ndifuna" kwaye "ngoko yamkelekile" ayiyi kuba yinto engabonakaliyo. Ubutyebi obungapheliyo abukho. Kwaye abantu abacebileyo banokubhathala kwemali - kwaneziqithi zabo, kodwa inyaniso ihlala. Ukuba nakho konke akunakwenzeka. Ukuthenga akunako ukunika ulonwabo. Ukhilimu ovela kwenkampani eyaziwayo, ukugqoka i-designer, imoto eneebhilidi ezigidi zingabangela ukwaneliseka. Oku kuphezulu. Ngaba akubizi iindleko ozigqibileyo ukuhlawula ezi zinto ezincinci? Bonke abantu bahluke, kwaye akukho ziphephelo zendawo yonke. Ukumangalela ukuba uya kuthandana kule ndawo, abavakalisi bangamhloneli uThixo - emva koko, awuzange ube khona, kwaye akukho zizathu zokurhoxiswa okunjalo. Wonke umntu - owakhe, kwaye ungavumeli ukuziqhekeza phantsi kwekhefu enye, kwanehlabathi lonke. Zibuze imibuzo, ungathandabuzeki isidingo sokuthenga. Ukuba ufumana impendulo kubo ngokukhawuleza, unoku ... unqabile ukungafuni ukuthenga. Umnqweno onyanisekileyo awunakulinganiswa. Musa ukulibala malunga nokuthiwa yimbuyekezo. Wonke umntu uqhuba imoto, kwaye uhamba ngaphantsi komgwaqo? Kodwa musa ukuma kwindawo yokuhamba. Indoda yomntu wonke ngumgidigidi, kodwa akunjalo? Kodwa wena uhlukile kwaye uyingqayizivele kuye.
Musa ukoyika!
Ukuxothwa, ukulahleka kwe-savings, ukwehla kwinqanaba lezenhlalakahle-iziganeko aziyinto emnandi. Nangona kunjalo, akukho zizathu zengqondo zokwesaba okanye ukwesaba. Ukungaqiniseki malunga nekamva akuyona indaba ye-Ukrainian. Ingxaki, nayiphi na ixesha le-perestroika, ngowokuqala, ukutshatyalaliswa kwindlela yokuphila yobomi. Musa ukwesaba. Oku, njengalowo nawuphi na umqathango, kufuneka kusetyenziswe! Asiyiki ubusika, kodwa sigqoke iingubo zoboya obuhle kunye nokusila; Asiyiki imvula, sizityhalele indebe yeti, sithatha incwadi enomdla kwaye ujabulele ixesha elingenanto. Ngoko okokuqala, cinga-ungayisebenzisa njani imiqathango ecetywayo? Kule meko, izifiso zakho zobuntinakho zingakunceda - khumbula ngubani ofuna ukuba njengomntwana? Mhlawumbi ufanele uvavanyo? I-psyche yabaninzi abasetyhini, ngenhlanhla, ayifani ngokungafani ngokunyuka. Oku kusenza sibe ngcono ukunyamezela uxinzelelo olubangelwa utshintsho. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kokushukumisa ngokwaneleyo, utshintsho lobomi bekhadiyini lunokuba ngumsindo onamandla. Sinikela ngeendlela ezi-5 zinyaniso zokuphepha ukuphazamiseka ngexesha lokutshintsha okukhulu. Hlalani nikhumbula lonke uluhlu lwezizathu ezenza ukuba utshintshe ubomi bakho. Ungakulibali kwakhona ukuba utshintsho alona nje kuphela unyango olungcono lokukhupha kunye nobuvila, kodwa kunye neyinyathelo eliphambili oyenzile! Cwangcisa ubuncinane kwixa elizayo. Abantu abaququzelelweyo kunye nabahamba nge-pedantic kulula ukuthululela kwiimeko ezintsha zobomi. Utshintsho olulungisiweyo lulahlekelwa isiqingatha soxinzelelo. Lungiselela ukuhlangabezana ne "nostalgia": khumbula zonke iimpazamo zobomi bakho obudlulileyo. Ukutshintsha indawo yomsebenzi, udidi lomsebenzi, indlela yokuphila, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana umphumo we "flashback". Ingqondo yokuxhalaba iya kunika imixholo kunye nemifanekiso efanelekileyo ukuba igxininise kwixesha elidlulileyo, ukuphefumula, kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo ukukhala. Ngomzuzwana wobuthathaka, "khupha ngaphandle kwekhanda lakho" iindawo ezifihliweyo. Khumbula - kwakungekho konke kukhanya! Ukude yonke into ikhangeleka ngakumbi kunokuba ivela kumgama osondeleyo, ungavumeli ukucaphukisa i-subconscious yakho. Sombulula iingxaki njengoko zifika. Kubomi bakho obutsha, ekuqaleni kungenakwenzeka ukuba kukho izinto ezintle kunye nezinto ezinomsindo. Ukusebenzisa umgaqo owaziwayo u-Miss O'Hara "Ndiza kucinga ngalo ngomso," ungesabi ngamehlo okucinga ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuba yonke into ibe yiyo, isigqibo sokugqibela malunga neenguqu zokuqala. Musa ukuxhoma kwiimfuno zakho zakudala. Ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi, sinqatshelwe "i-carrot enomnandi" yokuba inkampani kunye noluntu luxhomekeke phambi kwethu. Kwakuphantsi kweempembelelo zabo ukuba ucinga ukuba kuhle ukuba njengomgcini-mali kaMary Bath, okunciphisa ukulinganisela isigqithi seyure kwaye usebenza kwindawo enye iminyaka engama-40. Ngoku unqumle okulungileyo nokubi. Ngoko ukhethe izithixo ezintsha!
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Ingxaki kukuba, okokuqala, ukutshatyalaliswa kwendlela yokuphila yobomi. Musa ukoyika! Njengawuphi na umqathango ohlongozwayo, kufuneka usebenzise nje! Ukutshintsha ubomi bakho, kufuneka uhambe indlela ende, uzele izithintelo kunye nokuchasana, kuquka abo basondeleyo. Unokuchaza njani ukuba uhlukile ngoku? Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezivandlakanyo eziza kukuvumela ukuba wenze "i-pike ephakamileyo" ngokungabikho ukulahlekelwa. Lungiselela iindlela zokubuya. Into ephambili abathandekayo bakho bayamoyika ngayo iimpazamo. Kuthekani ukuba emva kokutshintsha ubomi bakho buba bubi? Bazise malunga nazo zonke izicwangciso zakho zokugcina. Akunakulungele ukutyhila imeko. Ncokola ngakumbi lwakho nosapho. Cacisa izizathu zezenzo zakho, ukuchaza ngokucacileyo zonke iimeko ezenze ukuba wenze isigqibo malunga nokuguquka okunjalo kwaye, mhlawumbi, ukuguquka okungafunekiyo kweziganeko. Bonisa ukuzinza nokuzimisela kwakho. Fumana amalungu entsapho ukuhlonela izigqibo zakho. Ukujamelana nemiphumo yentlekele, senza inkqubo entsha yexabiso. Lixesha elihle lokukhula komntu.