Kwiinkulungwane zonke kunye nomfazi okhoyo kwi-metamorphoses, uya kuba yinkokeli emsebenzini, ebomini nakwimeko ebudlelwaneni. Amadoda aguqulwa ngokupheleleyo kwelinye icala. Ngoku, ngaphantsi nangaphantsi sivame ukuva ii-serenades phantsi kwebhola, ukuvuma okuthandwayo kwaye ungaboni izenzo zobuqhetseba. Kodwa yintoni esishiyelwe kuthi - abafazi? Sifanele sithathe isinyathelo esezandleni zethu.
Ukuqatshelwa kweyona ndoda endiyithandayo kuyayilungiswa yedwa. Kukho inani elikhulu leendlela zokuthetha ngothando lwakho. Kuyaziwa ukuba umfazi uthanda indlebe, kodwa amadoda alindele izenzo ezithile kubasetyhini. Ngoko ke, ukuvuma ngothando ngaphandle kokuqinisekiswa kwizenzo nje akuyi kubangela ukuba umntu abe nemvakalelo. Khumbula, umntu uthanda amehlo kuqala.
Ukuba unqwenela ukunqoba umntu wakho othandekayo ngokuqaphela uthando, ngoko uya phambili. Kuhlwa. Amakhandlela. Itafile ehleliweyo kunye nezitya. Kodwa khumbula, kufuneka upheke into onayo. Ukuba ukhonza isitya esiyingozi, yonke imisebenzi yakho iya kuhamba "ngomsila" kwaye isidlo sakusihlwa siya kuchithwa ngokuchanekileyo. Ewe, kungcono kakhulu, kodwa ngokwenene, ngaphandle kwamehlo, indoda isisu, kwaye mhlawumbi ukhumbule ilizwi lesibini "indlela eya entliziyweni yomntu elele esiswini". Kwaye oku kunjalo. Kodwa ungagqithisi, kungenjalo emva kwesidlo esinomdla wena kunye nomthandayo ongeke abe nantoni na into enokuyenza, njengokuthanda ukulala kwicala lokulala nokubukela iTV, kwaye ufumana impendulo eyahlukileyo.
Indoda ngokwemvelo inomdla kwaye inithanda inkokheli, ayikho imfihlo. Zama ukwanelisa ukuthanda kwakhe. Dlala naye kwimidlalo yakhe eyintandokazi, umzekelo weebhilididi, nokuba ngaba ungumdlali onamandla - ulahlekelwe kuye kwaye umxelele ukuba ngubani umdlali onamandla kwaye onamandla. Ukubethekisa ngokulula akusilo siphene, kodwa kunoko isicatshulwa sokunqoba.
Indoda yakho ithanda ngokuthe tye kwaye ayithandi ukuhamba "malunga nehlathi"? Emva koko isaziso esihle kakhulu sokuthandana nendoda ethandekayo, ewe, mhlawumbi, eyona nto ibhetele, iya kumxelela ngqo ebunzini ukuba uyona mntu uyigugu kakhulu emhlabeni, ukuba uthando lwakho ngaye aluyinto nje, kwaye uyathemba kuye iimvakalelo ezifanayo.
Ngothando akukho mithetho efunekayo ukuba ilandelwe, njengoko kungekho nqatshelwe. Iimpawu ezintle kakhulu zinokulula kwaye zingenakunzima, kodwa ezo ziyakhunjulwa ngumthandwa wakho ebomini, oya kuzikhumbuza kude kube ngumdala. Yaye ke amadoda makomelele ngomlinganiso, kwisitya asuke esengozini kakhulu, ngoko ukuvakalisa kwakho ngokunyanisekileyo uthando akuyi kushiya indoda yakho ethandekayo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukunyaniseka, musa ukunyaniseka (kunye nathi - ngamabhinqa ngamanye amaxesha athambekele kule nto), yiba nguwe. Umntu wakho uya kukuxabisa ngakumbi ukuba ungumntu oqhelekileyo, kunokuba uya kumlungelelanisa imihla ngemihla. Kwenzekile ukuba indoda idinga ukuzinza nokuthula endlwini. Kwaye umdali woxolo nguwe.
Ukuba ungumpheki oqeqeshiweyo, kutheni ungavumeli umntu wakho othandekayo ngendlela yekhekhe, ikhekhe okanye ezinye "izinto ezihamba phambili"? Amadoda, njengabo bonke abantu, bathanda iilekese, ezinye izinto, ezinye zingaphantsi. Kodwa, ndikuqinisekisa ukuba, ukuba udlule ngokulungelelaniswa nomntu kuphela ehlabathini (oko kukuthi, kuye, intandokazi), akukho mntu uyakwazi!
Akukho ngcamango eyaneleyo? Qhagamshelana nenkampani ngenhlangano yeeholide. Kakade kukho izakhono zobuchule! Kukho unako ukufumana iibhaluni, i-serenades, kwaye uhamba nantoni na, ukuya kwiibhaluni, kunye nezidlo zothando kunye nohambo oza kunikwa ubuncinane ubuncinane. Kodwa, kubonakala kum ukuba kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi ukwenza yonke into yam, kwaye ke loo mntu uya kuqonda iimfuno zakho.
Ukuvuma kothando - into ebalulekileyo, ukungabi nokunyamezela ukudideka kunye nokugweba, kwaye, nangona kunjalo, ilizwi "khawuleza - abantu benza amahlaya" apha udlala indima ebalulekileyo. Naluphi na ukuqonda, naziphi na izenzo kufuneka zijonge ukuze umntu akakholelwe ukuba akayikucinga ukuba konke oku "kuqhutywe" kwaye kwenziwe "ngokukhawuleza" ukuze umfumane, umzekelo, imali yengubo yomntu omtsha! Ngoko musa ukukhawuleza kwizigqibo zakho. Khetha iindlela zokuthetha okanye ukuvuma ngokucokisekileyo. Cwangcisa yonke into kwiinkcukacha zokugqibela, ungafuni ukukhalisa iinyembezi ngenxa yokuhlwa okanye ukugqithisa, ubuhlobo obubi. Izibhengezo ezilungileyo kunye ezintle kakhulu zothando ziya kuvela kuwe xa ukholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo oko utshoyo. Kwaye kwandula ke kulula "Ndiyakuthanda!", Yathi kanye, kodwa ngokunyanisekileyo - iya kuzwakala njengomculo we-symphony lonwabo. Ungakulibali ukuba umntu, uyakuthanda amehlo akhe nesisu, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba uyisithulu. Uya kuziva uxoka ngentliziyo yakhe kwaye akayi kukukholwa. Kulula ukuzenza iimpazamo kunokuzilungisa.
Naluphi na umfowuni, i-valentine, iposikhadi, ileta, nasiphi na isipho esincinci siya kuba kubi kakhulu kwaye sihle kunokuba uthanda kunye nokutya. Iimeko ezinqabileyo xa umntu ethanda ukuba uvakaliswe kulo lonke ilizwe ngenxa yothando lwakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo baqhelaniswa. Kwaye ubuncinci, unobungozi obungabonakaliyo kwaye awufumani kuphela ukufumana impendulo efanele, ngoko kuya kuba mnandi kwihafu yesizwe ukuhleka kwiimvavanyo zakho. Kwaye abantu bethu banenkohlakalo. Ngaba kuyafaneleka ukwenza oko ungakwenza ngaphandle? Anditsho ukuba ukuba umntu wakho uthanda lolu hlobo-ungenzi! Ndiyathetha ngento yokuba ukuba awuqinisekanga ngale nyathelo, ke kungcono ukunqabela. Singabesifazana, sithandayo izenzo ezithandekayo kunye nokuziphendulela. Amadoda kule nkcazo ayanelisekile kwaye, ndimele ndivume, okwaneleyo.
Ukuba umntu wakho uthanda imvelo, uhamba epakini, imibuthano ejikeleze umlilo okanye umlambo, simemele ngesibindi kwipikiniki. Kodwa ke ipikiniki kufuneka ibe yinyani, kunye ne-shish kebabs, kunye nebhiya, kunye nexhala. Unako, umzekelo, ufunde iingoma ezimbalwa zegitare, ukuba, ngokwenene, unayo ingcamango encinane ngesi sixhobo. Ukuba ebuntwaneni kwiindlebe uthabatha ibhere, akufuneki ukuba uqale ukucula. Oku kuya kuthusa indoda kuphela. Indoda isidalwa esihlazileyo kulo mbandela. Ngoko ke, ukuba unqwenele ukuzinikezela kwiimvakalelo zakho, qwa lasela ukuba kulungile kwakhona? Ngokukhawuleza, akayiqondi le nto kwaye akayi kuthatha? Emva koko uza kuhlala wedwa kunye nemizwa yakho ephukile kunye nentlungu embi, kokubili kuye nakuwe. Yaye khumbula, iimbonakaliso ezintle kakhulu zothando zintetho ezithethwa ngexesha kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo! Ndiyakuthanda kunye nolonwabo!