Sihlakulela ukuziphatha ngokwesini
Okokuqala, kuya kufuneka ukuba ufunde ukuba iimpahla ezivulekileyo, ubukhulu bomsebenzi obunjani, ubunjani bomzimba, ukuma kweminqweno, ubude bemilenze kunye nobulili asinanto efanayo. Unokuzixelisa ukuziphatha kunye nokugembula njengoko uthanda, kodwa ukuba akukho sibheno sokwabelana ngesondo, asiyi kuze kube lula ukuba amadoda abe mnandi. Ukuziphatha ngokwesini akunakwenzeka ukulinganisa, kodwa kunokuphuhliswa. Kodwa okokuqala kuya kufuneka ukhulule ngokwakho kwimigangatho ebekelwe uluntu kwaye ukhumbule ukuba:
- Isiqingatha esomeleleyo sobuntu asinyamezeli ubunzima bentombi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, thina asikwazi ukuqonda into kwaye yinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa asinalo ilungelo lokuba sisisidenge;
- Abaqhubi abanqwenela abafazi abahlonishwayo ngokubonakala kwabo. Bayabaxhasa kakhulu abafazi, abaqinileyo kunye nabasetyhini;
- Amadoda ayithandi abafazi abambelele kwiimimiselo zentlalo (yamabhinqa azama ukujonga kakuhle). Andikhathalele ngamadoda, kwaye ubulili abuyithandeki kum.
Ekuphuhlisweni kwesibheno sesondo sesimo, inqaku lokugqibela lidlala indima ebalulekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, imimiselo yoluntu yonke ixesha ibonisa ukuba kufuneka uziphathe ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye uzifihle ubulili bakho kuzo zonke iindlela ezinokwenzeka kwaye ezingenakwenzeka. Njengaye, into ephambili kwintombi ayikho umzimba. Ngokuqinisekileyo kunjalo, kodwa uhambo luyabonakalisa olunye. Ubumsulwa aluthethi ukungahloneli ngokupheleleyo ngokwesini. Ekubeni ukunyaniseka kwangempela kuyimfihlelo ethile yesondo ofuna ukuyivula. Ngaphezu koko, kuthethwa ngokuziphatha kwamantombazana into ethile, ukukwazi ukucinga nokusebenza ngabanye. Kwaye ukuba, xa uthe xa uthetha nomfana, intombazana enjalo iya kumxelela ukuba isifo somlilo siqhekekile, ngoko umfana akavuyi, ngokuba uya kuthanda naye. Okokuthi, isibheno sesini sisekelwe kwikhono lomfazi lokuziphatha ngendlela enjengokuthi indoda iyaqonda ukuba ibhinqa ilungele ukuphula imigangatho yoluntu. Oku kuyanconywa kakhulu ngamadoda.
Ukuze uhlakulele umgangatho onjalo ngokwakho kunokwenzeka ukuba ucinge, kodwa ngaba i-yasheby yayiyokhokelela njani kule meko, ukuba wayenesiqiniseko sokuthi akukho mntu uyazi malunga nalo myalelo? Kwaye kuza kuza ixesha apho sonke sigqibo sokuziphatha ngendlela efanayo. Kwaye ke akuyi kubakhathalela oko abantu bacinga, emva koko konke oku kubomi bethu kwaye ngubani owanakekelayo. Ewe, musa ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke kweso sitrato, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kugqitywa enkingeni. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuziphatha ngokugqithiseleyo, kutheni ungathathi ithuba? Ukuba umntu akayithandi, kakuhle, bakhathazekile, kufuneka sikhathazeke. Ngoko, sathetha malunga nophuhliso lwangaphakathi lwesini, ngoku siza kuthetha ngephandle kwaye sifunde indlela yokusebenzisa iindlela ezithile zokuba nesondo.
Ukuphuhlisa ukuziphatha ngokwesini
Icandelo lezenyama zesibheno sethu sesondo sesimo sentsingiselo kubonisa ubukho beepheromones ezifanelekileyo. I-Pheromones ivuselela izicathulo zesini, i-hambiso yayo ibanjwe ngummeli wesini esahlukileyo. Le phunga ayifanelekanga, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuyiqonda, ngokungafani nephunga elimnandi. Iipheromones zenza impembelelo yabo kwiingcamango zesini esahlukileyo. Umntu ngamnye uneenkcukacha zakhe, ezifana nolunye uhlobo lwesini esahlukileyo.
Ukuze i-pheromones isebenze nzima, cebisa:
- Ukukhululwa kwiimfumba eziphathekayo kunye nakwimvakalelo ngokuqeqeshwa kwengqondo;
- Njalo ube nesimo somzimba esikhulu, ngenxa yoko unokwenza nayiphi na uhlobo lwemidlalo;
- Kwaye, yidla ngokufanelekileyo.
Ngaphantsi kokutya okulungileyo kuthetha ukungahambi kwamadlelo okutya kunye nokungabikho kokutya ngokutya. Kwakhona, akubandakanyi izidlo ezinzima. Kule meko, ukulungelelanisa okufanelekileyo kuyafaneleka. Kulungile ukuba unayo imfuyo yezinto zokuzalwa ukuze ufumane ubunzima. Ukunciphisa iipounds ezimbalwa kwi-peak, kucetyiswa ukuba uphuze iglasi ye-kefir ukuze sidle.
Abafazi abapheleleyo abaneepheromones ezinamandla kumadoda abathandwa kakhulu kunabesifazane abancinci. Ngamanye amaxesha kubantombazana abancinci, isibheno sesondo sithandeka ngakumbi kunomfazi ohlala ephakamisa ukutya.
Ukwakhiwa kwezemidlalo kunamapheromones anamandla. Nangona kunjalo, akudingeki ukuba uzibeke phantsi kwengcinezelo engokwenyama, ngoko ungagxeki kwimidlalo. Eyaneleyo iya kuba i-aerobics, ukugijima, i-gymnastics.
Ukuba ngumfazi wesondo ufuna ukuba i-psychotraining yinto ebaluleke kakhulu. Umzekelo, ukucamngca, ukuphuhlisa ngokomoya, ukukwazi ukuguqula iimvakalelo ezimbi zibe namandla. Ukuba awukwazi ukuzinceda, tyelela i-psychoanalyst, unokuthandaza, ufunde iincwadi ezifanelekileyo. Konke oku kunokuthi kubangelwe kwi-psycho-hygiene, enika iziphumo ezingenakwenzeka.
I-psychotraining ye-Systematic inegalelo ekuphuculeni ubuchule bengqondo nangokwenyama, ithuthukise imemori kwaye ivelise intuition eya kusenza siphumelele ngakumbi, esiya kusinika ithemba. Ekuhambeni kuya kuba nobabalo, ukukhululeka, ukukhangeka ngokukhethekileyo, kwaye kwamehlo - ukukhanya. Uvuyo luya kubangela ukudabuka nokuxinezeleka. Isibheno sezesondo kunye neepheromones ziya kuqalisa ishishini labo kwaye emva koko ...