Ifowuni ithe cwaka - kwakhona andizange ndibize, kodwa ndathembisa. Kakade inyanga ayifuni kumaqela ethu aseLwesihlanu amaqanda e-favorite cafe, kodwa ukhawuleza emva komsebenzi ekhaya. Mbize ngobusuku - ukudumala okunye: le ngxubusho enokukhawuleza, ingxabano, njengomdlali ngaphambi kokuba ibhondi yebhanki. Amantombazana athi "silahlekelwe ...". Ngandlela-thile ibuhlungu kwaye ihlambalaza, nangona ufuna ukuvuya - kuba umhlobo unomntu ...
Ubulumko bendalo, kusinika amandla okuthandana, kusinike iindlela zokukhusela esi sivakalelo, ngoko xa umntu ebonakala ngokugqithiseleyo, abasetyhini abaninzi bayabhekana neengxaki zokuqulunqa izinto eziphambili: umhlobo okanye othandekayo. Kwaye ke jonga entliziyweni yakho kwaye uvume ngokunyanisekileyo kuwe - ngubani osondelene nawe?
Ndive sele ndivutha umsindo: "Akukho mntu akafanelekanga ukuphula kunye nabahlobo!". Yaye ukuba ngaba yi-FAVORITE kunye nomntu ONYE? Yileyo ndlela yayingomnye wabahlobo bam. Njengoko ndiyakhumbula, akukho neyodwa yokuhlala kwethu eqhutywe ngaphandle kwengxoxo yesihloko, ngubani osondeleyo-indoda okanye intombi, kunye noNatasha, ukugubha ukutshwenyeka kweenwele ezibomvu, uhlala ecinga ukuba ngabahlobo bakhe. Kwaye ke yintoni?
Wadibana noSashka waza "wahlabelela" ingoma ehluke kakhulu: "USasha uthe ... uSasha wam ... uSasha okhethekileyo ... sagqiba ..." Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokukhawuleza kwethu ukuhlanganisana kwethu kwasala ngaphandle kweenkokheli zabo, ngokukhawuleza wayeka ukuthatha inxaxheba nakusihlwa efuna ukuqokelela imini iindaba. Nantsi! Ubume bendalo buyinto yokuzingca, inzululwazi yethu yangaphambili ihlala iyanqoba, kwaye sikhetha ukuzonwabisa. Asiyi kubagweba amantombazana abakhetha umhlaba wabo omncinci ukuba abe nomdla omnye. Siza kuqonda ngokucacileyo iintlobo zee-shades zesisombululo.
Intombi okanye abathandanayo
Ngenye imini ndaya kumhlobo wam uNike. Ukuhlala ngetekitye ekhitshini nokuphikisana into ethile, asizange sikuve unina. Mna, uSvetlana Ivanovna uye waba ngumzekelo wendlela umfazi okufanele akhangele ngayo kumaqhosha akhe angamahlanu: uhlakaniphile, umomothekayo, ulungele kakuhle, unomdla ococekileyo, ulungelelaniso olufanelekileyo kunye neenwele. Kodwa ngeli xesha laphulwa ngokupheleleyo - wayenomdla onzima nomhlobo omdala. "Kubonakala ngathi baqhekeza ngonaphakade ..." Umyenikazi ukhanyiso wathi ngelizwi elithuthumelayo. "Bobabili sisodwa." Baxhasana, bancedwa kunokuba banako.
Kodwa kwiinyanga ezimbini ngoku, njengoko enganditshitshisiyo, akabizi, uyazilahla iintlanganiso ngezizathu ezingenangqondo. Ndagqiba kwelokuba ndathetha ekugqibeleni ... Kwavela ukuba wayenendoda. Ndacelwa ukuba ndingabathinteli kwakhona - bayakha indlu! Andiqondi isizathu sokuba Yintoni endiyenzile? "Umhlobo kaSvetlana Ivanovna - umfazi, ngokusemgangathweni, ulungile, kodwa ecaleni kwakhe
Siyabathanda abahlobo bethu kwaye sibaxabise, kodwa kwikhoneni elifihlakeleyo lolwazi siyazigcina sisilinganisi esilungileyo kunye nathi. Imilenze ka-Ani yinde, kwaye uVera uyisiphelo sokupheka, uNadyusha uhlala enhle ... Futhi xa ukungaqiniseki okanye amandla olwalamano nomntu kufinyelela kwisigxina sawo, sizama ukukhusela injabulo yethu kwingozi eyingozi: intombi ezithandekayo (ezithakazelisayo, ezithandwayo).
Iingcebiso kumantombazana. Akukho siqinisekiso sokuba wena ngokwakho awuyi kufumana imeko efanayo. Nceda intombi yakho: yiba nesineke, mnike ixesha lokuqinisa ubudlelwane kunye nendoda yakhe, kucacise ukuba uyonwabile ngokwenene uvuyo lwakhe, kwaye musa ukubeka ityala lokusuka kuwe. Vula ukuba udibanise, kodwa ungathandi. Emva kwexesha, uya kuqonda ukuchaneka kwakho.
IBhunga lomthandi. Yeka ukuzithemba! Uhlukile! Yaye ukuba umntu uyamthanda, ngoko akayidingi mntu ngaphandle kwakho. Khangela amantombazana akho njengolu vavanyo lomntu othandekayo, njengabalingani bakho nabahlolisayo. Yaye ukuba uyakwazi ukululahla ngokulula, ngoko kutheni ufuna umntu onje?
Umhlobo wam othandekayo
Amadoda angabantwana abakhulu! Zifuna ukuba zihlale ziziqwalasela kwaye zibuyele ngokugcwele. Banobukhwele kwaye banomdla, beva ukuba kukho omnye umntu ebomini babo kubomi babo. Ukukhwelelwa ngumthandana kwiintombi zeentombi kungesinye sezizathu zokulahla iqela elihlangeneyo labantu abafanayo. Ukongezelela, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bathini amadoda, ngokuzikhukhumeza ukukhupha isifuba kunye namavili abo, kodwa elowo kubo ngezikhathi ezithile, ukwesaba malunga nokuba umntu ophumelelayo nangomntu onobubele uyakhokelela njani yedwa kunye nentanda yakhe ngamazwi athi "Ndiza kukunika inkwenkwezi!" .
Akumangalisi ukuba ukusuka kwinqinzana ethi "Ukuncedisa, sineqela elincinane kunye namantombazana. Ndiza kukhawuleza, ungakhathazeki! "Kulo ntloko yale" mthandi "uzitshintsha ngokuzenzekelayo indlela yokuzikhusela, ekhuthazwa yindalo yezilwanyana. Kwaye uqala ukwakha izicwangciso ezikhohlakeleyo zokunciphisa ukuhlanganisana okunjalo. Uze ucinezele, uzenza ngathi uyagula, unesizungu, udiniwe. Okanye iimvakalelo - zenzeke. Okanye uthi: "Unam, kwaye uya kuba ngabahlobo bam bahlobo bam!" Kwaye kwakuye kumhlobo wam Oksana. Xa edibana noDima omuhle, ngokukhawuleza wafuna ukutshintsha abahlobo bakhe kwinkampani yakhe. Sadibana kwiintsuku ezinqabileyo zeentlanganiso zakhe ezigqityiweyo kwaye phantsi kwetampu yokufihla.
Akumangalisi kukuba, amadoda aseDininsky athetha ukunciphisa uxhulumaniso phakathi kwintanda kunye neentombi, besaba "ibhunga elinobulumko." Emva kwakho konke, uyaqonda ukuba zonke iimpazamo zakhe, egxininiswa nokuziphatha okunjalo, phambi kwabahlobo bakhe - njengentendelezo yesandla sakho. Kwaye baya kubonisa kuye ngelinye ilanga ukuba akayena mkhethe.
Iingcebiso kumantombazana. Mema umngane kunye nomyeni wakhe kwisiganeko esivumelwaneni kunye nawe. Oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba ufumane ingcamango yakhe yesoka kunye nokuqonda kangangoko ukuba ufuna uncedo okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, nje umntu onamandla, onamandla - ufuna.
IBhunga lomthandi. Zama ukuqaphela isizathu sokuba umntu othandayo azame ukukukhusela kwiintombi zakho. Ukuba uyesaba impembelelo yabo, ngoko umxelele kubo, kwaye makavumele ukuba aqiniseke ngokuvuleka kwabo nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo. Uyanqabisa ukuba uyazi nabo ochitha nabo amaqela angamaqanda.
Inkosi yobukhosi
Ngandlela-thile emsebenzini kwindawo yamantombazana umhlobo wam u-Anya weva intetho phakathi kwabo babini ababengcono, njengoko wayecinga ngayo yonke loo minyaka, intombi: "Ndiyakuchukunyiswa kukumomotheka kwakhe xa ethetha naye kwifowuni. Andiqondi into ayifumene e-Anka? Apha silapha nawe-icacile, kwaye imouse! ". Ngaba ndifuna ukuchaza oko u-Anja ayenze ngeso xesha?
Le meko yinto engabonakaliyo, kodwa inokwenzeka. Ukunqaba kwabahlobo akuyena umntu, kunye neentombi zodwa-ngenxa nje yenzondelelo, ngenxa yokungakwazi ukudibanisa kunye nenyaniso yokuba omnye wabo unonwabo ngakumbi. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba bekungekho ubuhlobo bokwenene phakathi kwabasetyhini, kodwa ulwalamano olumanyeneyo olwakhiwe ngokuncedisana, iintlawulo okanye iimfuno eziqhelekileyo.
Ukwenqatshwa komhlobo kungaphinda kuvele kwimizi yamakhosikazi athatywayo, apho ubuhlobo obunzulu nomntu obuthatyathwa njengento engavumelekanga, kwaye intombi eguqule "ikhowudi yeengoma" ikhutshwa kuphela kwinkampani.
Iingcebiso kumantombazana. Ndiqinisekile ukuba abantu abaninzi baye bazibamba kule ntliziyo evelayo-umona. Ewe, kulula ukutshabalalisa umntu ongcono kunathi, kunokuba wenze imizamo kwaye ube ngcono kangako, onwabile ngakumbi!
IBhunga lomthandi. Kule meko, ndifuna ukuphindaphinda inkulumo eyaziwayo: "Ukuba iintombi zihamba kuwe, awaziwa ngubani onenhlanhla!". Ukuba kwenzeka ukuba inzondo ikwahlule kunye namanqwenkwe, ngokumomotheka-abazange baphumelele uvavanyo lwamandla olwalamano. Unomntu, kwaye ngoku ungumhlobo wakho omhle.
Xa indoda kunye nomfazi behlangana, akukho mntu kwaye akukho nto ijikeleze. Ihlabathi elikhulu kulowo nalowo lijoliswe kwiintanda. Yaye ukuba uyayazi le meko - unako ukubiza ukuba uyonwabile! Ngaphantsi kwefuthe lale mvakalelo, umntu akakwazi ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo izenzo zakhe ngokumalunga neentsapho, abo abenayo kunye kunye nezibophelelo ezithile. Umntakwethu, xa wadibana nomfazi wakhe wesikhathi esizayo, akazange andibize mna okanye abazali bakhe iintsuku. Xa ndizama ukuxoxa ngemiba yentsapho naye, wandijonga ngombonakalo ongabikho, ophihliweyo emafini. Ngendlela, umalokazana-mkhwenkwe wam liziphatha ngokufanayo: iifowuni ezingabonakaliyo zefowuni kubazali kunye nekhefu elipheleleyo kunye nabahlobo. Kodwa ke, ukuba ngabafazi abazizilumko, baqonda yonke into baze bavumela ukuba isibini sithande imiva yabo, sibheke amehlo kwaye sibone kuzo ihlabathi lonke.