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Ngokuqhelekileyo, imbangela yokungahoywa yinto yokukhathala. Indoda ivela emsebenzini, ayifuni ukuthetha nabani na, akukho mntu ubhalayo, kwaye ngokubanzi, umnqweno wakhe kuphela ukuza phantsi kwengubo kwaye uzikhohlwe ngokulala. Kwaye ngeli xesha, biza, bhala, ukhathazeke kwaye ucinge: kutheni engakwazi ukuphendula, kuba le yimizuzu emihlanu, ndixhalabile. Mhlawumbi kule meko kukho izizathu ezifanelekileyo zokungayihoyi, into enqwenela ukuyibona. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu ubhala: "Ndikhaya, konke kulungile." Ndiya kulala, "uya kuqala ukumbuza eminye imibuzo eminye:" Kutheni uhlale ixesha elide? "," Ngaba uhambe ngokusemthethweni? "," Kutheni uhamba ngokukhawuleza? ", Njalo njalo. Ngamanye amaxesha asiqapheli nendlela esinokufumana ngayo umntu ngemibuzo enje engenazo zibalulekileyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba kwiimeko ezinjalo umntu akayithobeli, zama ukuhlalutya indlela oziphatha ngayo. Mhlawumbi, waphendula ngokuphindaphindiweyo, wagijima waya emininzi yemibuzo oyicelile kwisantya sompu. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba ukhubekiswe ngumntu, zama ukungazibali ukuba ukuxhalabisa kwethu akunjalo rhoqo. Ngokomzekelo, sinokuqonda ukuba umntu uphelele ekhaya kwaye konke kulungile naye, kodwa siyaqhubeka simphonsa ngemibuzo, simsola ngenxa yokukhathazeka ngathi, siyaqabula umphefumlo wakhe, kwaye akanandaba neengulube. Khumbula ukuba abantu abasondeleyo abasinakukunyanzela ngathi. Bakwenza ngesizathu esithile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, le nto ibangela ukuxhalaba nokugqithisa.
Yaochen ixakekile
Kutheni ke singakholelwa abantu abathi baxakeke kakhulu. Kubonakala kuthi kuthi unako ukuthabatha ifowuni, nangokwesibini, nokuba ukhona kwiofisi yompheki. Kodwa ukucinga okunjalo kuphela kulabo abangaziwayo kwiimeko ezifanayo. Omnye akufanele athethe ukuba umsebenzi uyisisombululo esifanayo. Ukuba umntu uxakeke kakhulu emsebenzini, ukuba usebenza kwishishini elithile okanye uchitha ixesha elide emva kwesondo, ngoko ukungahoywa kwakhe kulungile. Ngoko naluphi na umzekelo, musa ukumelana naye kwaye usenokusola ukuba awukwazi. Abasetyhini abaninzi banomdla wokwakha iziganeko ade umntu athathe ifowuni. Ngokwemvelo, ngelixa umfana ebuyayo, le ntombazana isele ibenobungozi kwaye iphosakele ukuba nayiphi na ibinzana kunye nayiphi na inkcazelo ibona njengento ehlekisayo. Yingakho kungenakuze kulungiswe unyango lomnye umntu ngokubandlulula. Nangona unento ephuthumayo kwaye ibalulekile, kuyafaneleka ukuba umthukuthelele kwaye umgwebe into ethile. Akayena i-telepath kwaye akakwazi ukufumana into eyenzekayo kuwe. Ngelishwa, a baninzi abafazi abakwazi ukuyiqonda nangayiphi na indlela, ekhokelela "ekulweni kwezesondo" rhoqo. Ngoko zama ukuhlakanipha. Ukuba uyazi ukuba ngexesha elithile uzakufuna ukucombulula ingxaki ebalulekileyo apho uncedo lwale mntu lufunekayo, ngoko umxelele kwangaphambili kwaye uyavumelana ngexesha.
Ukuzikhangela
Kukho abantu abafuna ukuhlala bodwa. Kwaye, ngenxa yoko, umntu onjalo ufuna iimfuno ezingaphezu kweyodwa, kodwa ngeveki, inyanga, okanye iimbalwa. Ewe, akunakukhunjulwa, lo mkhuba uyamangalisa, kodwa ngamnye wethu unempilo yakhe kunye nesimo sengqondo sakhe. Ngako oko, abantu abasondeleyo banokusihoxisa ngokupheleleyo ngenxa yokuzifuna. Kwaye ngathi ngathi asizange sibuhlungu kwaye sibuhlungu ngaphandle kwabo, musa ukugijimela abantu abanjalo ngokunyanisekileyo abayithandiyo kwaye abayikuxabisa. Inyaniso yokuba umntu udinga indawo yakhe yodwa ayihambelani ngokupheleleyo nothando, intlonipho kunye nezinye iimvakalelo. Ngaphezu koko, ngokuqhelekileyo ngaphambi kokungena kwisigxina, umntu uxwayisa ukuba ufuna ukuhlala enye. Kodwa asimphulaphuli nhlobo. Ukuba thina ngokwethu siyakhathazeka kwaye singanyanzelwanga ngumntu onjalo, kufuneka ahluke. Kodwa ukuba umntu uhlaziya ubomi, ngoko ukuphendula kwakhe kwiimeko kunokungafani ngokupheleleyo neyethu. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu omnye, ehamba ngentlungu, eya kwinkampani, omnye ke, ngokuchaseneyo, ucela ukuba bamshiye bodwa baze bacinge kwakhona imeko yonke. Ngoko musa ukwesaba ukunganyaniseki kwintetho yomntu othandekayo, makungabikho owamgwebayo. Wonke umntu unelungelo lokuphila njengoko efuna kwaye abe namava ezithile ezithile ngendlela ehamba ngayo. Ngoko ke, ukuba uyazi ukuba umhlobo wakho uyakukunyelisa ngenxa yesizathu sokuba kufuneka abe yedwa, ke ukholwe ukuba kunjalo ngokwenene. Kuyimfuneko ukuba aphile njengemida kuze kube ngumzuzwana othile, ade abe nesisombululo esithile kwaye akayi kufumana indlela yokuphuma kwimeko.