Iingcamango ezinxulumene nobuthathaka besifazane

Abasetyhini, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile abanakukwazi ukulungisa ubomi babo kwaye baphoqeleke ukuba baphile ngobomi bodwa, akunjalo. Uluntu aluzange luvila kakhulu ukuqonda izizathu zolu hlobo kwaye zazama nokuzichaza. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo zonke iinguqulelo eziphambili ziyizinto ezikhohlisayo kunye neengcamango ezingekho nyaniso. Makhe sizame (ngoncedo lwabafundi bezengqondo) ukugxotha iingcamango eziqhelekanga ngokuphathelele uluntu lwabesetyhini. Inkolelo eyodwa: abafazi baphoqeleka ukuba bahlale bodwa ngenxa yokubonakala kwabo okungaxhamli
Ekuqalekeni, yonke into iyabonakala: ukuba imvelo "iqhubekile" ngokubonakala kwintombazana, okanye ingamvumeli ukuba aqonde ubuhle bayo, emfihla phantsi kwe-wardrobe engenasiphelo, amathuba okuthabatha isondo esahlukileyo ahlala enzima.

Ngokweengcali, inyaniso kule nkcazo ikhoyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukubonakala akuyona into ebalulekileyo. Kwaye umzekelo wale nto ubuninzi bezimpahla ezigqoke kakuhle, ezizilungele kakuhle, abasetyhini abahlala bengatshatanga okanye abanalo iqabane elizinzile. Ngelishwa, awazi okanye ayikhohliwe ukuba amadoda afunanga nje kuphela amahle, kodwa nabo nabo baya kukhululeka. Ngoko ke, intombikazi nemikhwa "yeendlovukazikazi zeqhwa" inemivuzo embalwa yokulinda, ubuncinci kude kube ngumhlalaphantsi, inkosana inokukwazi ukunyibilikisa iqhwa lomphefumlo wayo.

Ngokwenza oko, amaxesha amaninzi "ama-superwomen" awanakho ukuphucula izakhono zokuqala zonxibelelwano kunye nesini esahlukileyo. Zichitha zonke izixhobo zabo (zombini kunye nezinto eziphathekayo) ukuqinisekisa ukuba imbonakalo yazo ifana nomfanekiso ofanelekileyo awakhele wona. Ngoko ke, ukudala ubudlelwane nomntu abanakho amandla aseleyo, kodwa ukuze bafumane, kubalulekile ukusebenza nzima! Kwiimeko ezininzi, njengelinye iqabane ebomini, umntu uya kukhetha intombazana enombonakalo ongatshintshiyo, kodwa uzama ukumnika oko akufunayo, ukumnika ubushushu nokuthuthuzela. Kwaye iindawo ezintle ezingenakufikeleleka, i-alas, zihlala "kwindawo ephukileyo".

Iingcali ezimbini: ukungabikho kwezakhono zoqoqosho
Kukholelwa ukuba enye yemisebenzi ephambili yomama kukufundisa intombi yakhe ukuba ihlangabezane nemisebenzi yasekhaya. Ukwesalisa isizukulwana esakhulayo sisinyanzelo sokuba ukungabikho kokuphathwa kakubi kuya kuthusa bonke abaqeqeshi, abaninakhulu kunye noomama baqinisekise iindlalifa zabo ukuba bakwazi ukupheka, isinyithi, ukugcina indlu icocekile kwaye ihlambuluke imeko ebaluleke kakhulu yokubonakala kwindoda ezayo ekugqibeleni kwabesifazane kwi-extradition. Ukongezelela, le yinye yeendlela zokugcina umntu ngaphandle kwakho.

Nangona kunjalo, izazi zengqondo zithi ubutyebi bowesifazane aluyena mfihlelo kuphela wobomi bomntu obusisiseko. Akunabo bonke abantu abafanayo. Iziganeko xa "umpheki ovela kuThixo" okanye umntu ophethe izandla kuzo zonke iinqanawa zasekhaya - imoto nenqwelo encinci. Kwaye konke ngenxa yokuba umntu akwanele ukuba abe nomfazi onjalo-ntokazi, uyamkhathaza, ngoko uyamthanda kumntu ongenalo uphuhliso lwezakhono zezoqoqosho, kodwa unomdla kunye neempawu zakhe. Ngoko ke, ngokubhekiselele kwikhono lokugcina indlu yakho ihlambulukile kwaye iyancwina, kukude kakhulu ukuba uhlale usebenza ngokwakho ngokubhekiselele kuphuhliso lwengqondo, okumele luqondwe kungekuphela kokufunda iimagazini zamabhinqa. Emva koko, akukho mntu ufuna ukujika kumfazi othandekayo abe ngumgcini wendlu olula, kwaye ininzi amadoda ayifuni ukubona i-metamorphosis engaphezulu ....

Intsomi yesithathu: impawu embi
Ukuba yintonga yindlela enye ekhokelela ekusululeni. Emva koko, kukho abantu abambalwa abafuna ukulwa nomhla ngamnye ngomntu oyisiphukuphuku neyengqondo.

Kulungile, kodwa kungekhona. Enyanisweni, ukucacisa ingoma eyaziwayo kanye, i-bitch ihluke ... Abasetyhini abaqhelaniswe ngento engenasiphelo, kodwa ngubani na okwazi ukunyamekela iqabane lakhe kwaye bahlangabezane neemfuno zakhe, banethuba elihle lokugcina indoda ecaleni kwayo iminyaka emininzi. Ukuba ke, nangona kunjalo, iingcinga zeli bhinqa zizungezile kuphela ngelizwe lakubo, kwaye umntu uya kuba yinto esetyenziswa kuyo ngokuqinisekileyo kwaye ufumana zonke iintlobo zeenzuzo, ngoko umntu unokuqiniseka ukuba olo dlelwane luya kukhawuleza.

Iingoma ezine: ebhedeni - "ubuhle bokulala"
Abameli abaninzi bezesondo ezifanelekileyo bayaqiniseka ukuba kumntu, okokuqala, isidima sesini somfazi sibalulekile. Kodwa izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ukulala ngesondo akuyona nto ephambili kwiintsebenziswano, ngoko akukho madoda amaninzi. Emva kwakho konke, ngexesha lexesha, ubomi besondo kunye nezibini ezingenangqiqo kwesi sicwangciso sitshintshiweyo, abafazi bafumana amava kunye nokulungelelanisa kwizinto ezikhethwayo omnye komnye. Ukuba umntu ofanayo uphelile ulwalamano kuphela ngenxa yokuba udidekile ngokulala naye kunye naye, ngaba unokulindela ukuba umntu ngezinto eziphambili ziza kuba ngumlingane ofanelekileyo wobomi?

Inkolelo-ntlanu: andithandi
Ngokuqinisekileyo abaninzi abantu bayazi ukuba, ukuzithanda, uya kwenza abanye bazithande. Nangona kunjalo, umntu akufanele athathe okoqobo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka uthande kwaye uzihloniphe, kodwa uwele umnqweno uze uzingca, ongenandaba neemfuno zabanye, kodwa akufanelekile, kuba ukunamathela kule migaqo yokuziphatha kulula kakhulu ukuhlukanisa abaqeqeshi abanezixhobo. Xa edibene nomntu onjalo, amadoda akhetha ukungaqhagamshelani naye, kuba bayaqiniseka ukuba ibhinqa, elungiselelwe impilo yakhe, alikwazi ukuchitha iimvakalelo zakhe komnye umntu.

Inthandathu yesithandathu: bonke amadoda afanelekileyo sele sele ehlangene
Esinye sezizathu zamabhinqa angatshatanga - onke amadoda afanelekileyo kwiqabane elithi "iqabane" sele libhubhile, kwaye bonke abo bahlala ngesizathu esithile abafanelekanga ukugqoka eli nqaku eliqhoshayo ...

Ngokuqinisekileyo, le nto iyinto engathandabuzekiyo, kuba kanye xa bonke abantu babengatshatanga, ngoko kutheni ukhetho lwabo lwawela kwabanye abafazi? Yaye indlela yokucacisa ukuba abanye abafazi kwiminyaka engama-50 yokufumana indoda akunzima, kodwa kumntu kunye neminyaka engama-25 ayiyinto engenakwenzeka ... Iingcebiso zeengqondo zeengqondo kule nto zilula: ingxaki kufuneka ifunwe kuwe, kungekhona kumadoda , ezikujikelezile.

Ukuba uwedwa, kuba bonke ubudlelwane namadoda emva kwexesha liphela nangento, ke ukuqiqa ukuba kutheni ukudibanisa okuhle nokuhle kubakho "iibhokhwe" akunakwenzeka ukuba uncede. Musa ukubuhlungu ngenxa ye karma yakho embi, funda iincwadi malunga 'nesithsaba sokunyumba' kunye nezinye iindawo. Zama ukufumana isizathu kuwe, utshintshe into yakho, kwaye mhlawumbi oku kuya kuba yinto yokuguquka ebomini bakho.