Umntwana uthetha ephupheni

Phantse bonke abazali banokubona indlela umntwana wabo ehleka ngayo iphupha, okanye uthi into engacaciswanga. Ziziphi izizathu apho umntwana ekhuluma ephupheni, kwaye ngaba abazali kufuneka bakhathazeke ngale nto?

Kubonakala kubabanye abazali ukuba ukuba umntwana uthetha ngexesha lokulala, kuthetha ukuba oku akuqhelekanga, kwaye kunoko kumkhokelela kwiingcali. Kodwa akudingeki ukuba wenze izigqibo ngokukhawuleza. Ucwaningo oluninzi lwezonyango luye lwafakazela ukuba umntu onamashumi amabini anakho ukuthetha ephupheni, kwaye phakathi kwabantwana abancinci kwenzeka njalo. Le ngxaki inokucaciswa kukuba kubantwana abantwana abanesistim, kodwa kubantu abadala bazinzile.

Ngokomxholo, intetho ephupheni ayikwazi ukwenza ingozi kwimpilo, kwaye, nangona kunjalo, inceda ukulungelelanisa imo. Yonke into eqokelelwe kwingqondo yengqondo yengqondo yomntwana, amava, abe yimpembelelo ekhethekileyo. Kwaye konke oku kubonakaliswa kwiphupha ngendlela engabonakaliyo, kuba ingqondo ebantwaneni abancinci ayikhuhlisi ngokupheleleyo. I-Somnilokvia-ngoko kuthiwa ngokwesayensi ebizwa ngokuba ngumsebenzi wenkulumo ephupheni.

Ziziphi izizathu ukuba umntwana akhulume ngephupha?

Imiba ebomvu.

Isizathu esibalulekileyo esenza ukuba umntwana akhulume ngephupha kuthathwa njengengcinezelo yosuku. Kule meko, ukuxinezeleka akuyona into ephambili. Ezi zinokuba yimvakalelo ecacileyo okanye iimpendulo kwiziganeko ezahlukeneyo. Yaye ukuba akukho nto yendalo eyenzekayo, ngoko akukho mfuneko yokukhathazeka, nangona kunjalo, akukho mfuneko yokubonisana nodokotela. Kwakhona, akudingeki ukuba unikeze imithi yakho yonyango okanye ukumisela ngamachiza omzimba. Ukuba umntwana uthatha imishanguzo yonyango, oku kufuneka kube yinkqubo yokonyango phantsi kolawulo lweengcali.

Xa umntwana engabonakali iimpawu ze-neurotic kwaye unokubona ukuba uvele nje ephupha, akafanele athathwe. Kodwa kufuneka uhlawule imigaqo ethile:

Yaye ukuba umntwana usabela ngokungafanelekanga ukukhala okanye ukukhala, ngoko unokubonisana nodokotela. I-neurologist iya kunika ikhosi yeyeza unyango kunye nemveliso yonyango engenayo i-nootropic okanye imiphumo ye-metabolic. Bathuthuzela ukulala nokuziphatha komntwana, ukuphucula ukujikeleza kwegazi kwingqondo.

Utshintsho phakathi kwezigaba zokulala.

Ingxoxo kwiphupha kubantwana isacaciswa ngenguqu ukusuka kwesinye isigaba sokulala kwesinye, kuba le nkqubo ayisekwanga kumzimba ongafundile. Izigaba zobuthongo babantu zihlukaniswe ngokukhawuleza kwaye ziphuculwa, eziye zatshintshana ngezikhathi ezithile eminye imizuzu engama-90-120. Ngokutsho kweziphumo zokungathandabuzeki, izazinzulu zikholelwa ukuba incoko iyenzeka ngexesha lesigxina sokulala, ukulala ngokwaneleyo, ngexesha lokulala, xa umntu esabela kwizandi ezahlukeneyo. Umsebenzi weNtetho uvela kwisigaba sokulala ngokukhawuleza, ngexesha apho kukho amaphupha, izitho zithuthumela kwaye kukho ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwamehlo. Ngexesha apho umntwana engaphephile, emva kokuthetha amagama ambalwa, ukulala okungakumbi, abazali abadingeki bakhathazeke. Kwanele nje ukunyamezela umntwana kwaye ulawule ngamazwi ahlabayo.

Ukufumana ulwazi olutsha.

Abantwana abancinane kakhulu, abangayazi ukuthetha, nabo banalo "iphupha". Lawa magama okanye amabinzana athi umntwana uthe ephupheni yiphumo lolwazi olufunyenweyo kwimini edlulileyo. Ukubhengezwa amagama amatsha ngexesha lokulala, abantwana abancinane sele bephindaphindiwe ngokunyanisekileyo. Ngoko ke, abazali banokuvuya, kwaye bangakhathazeki, njengoko umntwana eqala ukuphuhlisa aze azalise imithwalo yakhe yamagama nolwazi.

Ukukhathazeka kwamathambo.

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ukuba intetho yentsana ngexesha lokulala ihamba kunye nezinto ezixhalabisayo-kunokwenzeka ukuba ezi zibonakaliso zentsholongwane yeentlungu. Ngokuzimeleyo unokwazi ukuchonga iingxaki kwinkqubo yesantya kubantwana ngezinye iimpawu. Le yimiqondiso enje, ngokomzekelo, ngethuba le ngxoxo ephupheni umntwana uya kugubungelwa ngesithukuthezi esincinci, ekhwaza ephupheni, ekhupha kakubi, ebona ubusuku obunjalo ephupheni, angabonisa iimpawu zokulala, ukuxubha, xa evuka, akayiqondi apho ekhona. Zingachaza isifo sengqondo. Kwaye apha kule meko isele imfuneko ukujongana neengcali-kwi-neurologist, isazi sezengqondo, isazi somnzululwazi, kwaye, kungekudala. Kodwa ngaphambili, ngaphambi kokuya kugqirha, kubalulekile ukufumanisa kumntwana oko kukukhathazayo, mhlawumbi ukwesaba into ethile. Oku kufuneka kuncede ekumiseni ukuxilongwa ngokuchanekileyo.