Ngoko ukuba xa nibona nibhalaza: "Ewe oku kufanayo ..." Ngoko ke, sibaxolela izithixo zethu, abazithandayo udumo. Kwaye ngandlela-thile sithatha inqabileyo ngolwazi malunga nendlela umdlali weqhawe elidumiweyo eliphantse ludutshulwa ngumtshatshazi okanye umgcini ozinikezele ... Nangona sithatha isiqhamo sehlabathi, kodwa iqela elincinane, idumela elihle liba ngumthwalo onzima. Okokuqala, ugxininiso oluhlala lugxininiswe ngokubanzi, olungakuvumeli ukuba uphumule kwaye ube nguwe. Okwesibini, uhlala ufuna ukulinganisa ibha esithathiweyo kunye nomfanekiso owenziweyo. Isinyathelo ukuya ngakwesokunene okanye ngakwesobunxele-kwaye unqulo luya kutshintshwa ngokudumala. Okwesithathu, nangemizamo eqhubekayo, udumo ludlulayo - nje ngezikhathi ezithile. Abantu banomlutha kwenye into kwaye bayalibala iintando zabo zangaphambili. Kwaye kunokuba bahlale bezolile bathukuthele ...
Igama elibi kunye nokuthandwa
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uzame ukuthandwa ngumntu othile - ngaba kukuhle okanye kubi kumntu ngamnye? Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukho ukuphazamiseka ukuhlala "kwihlabathi". Kubonakala kuwe ukuba ukuba i-masterpieces yakho eyaziwayo kuphela kwisangqa encinci ibona imijikelezo ebanzi, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kulwa neentyatyambo kunye nolwandle lolwandle? Hayi, kufuneka uhlale ukulungele utamatisi we-stale. Yaye kungekhona ngenxa yokuba wawungaphelelekanga, kwaye kungenjalo nangona kunjalo kuba abantu abakujikeleze banamathandabuzo ahlukeneyo. Kuvela ukuba umntu ngokuzithandela abe ngujolise kuyo. Kwiindawo ezihlala ngaphantsi kwaye kukho umnqweno wokuphonsa kuyo into ethile. La maqabane abiza i-studio kwintetho yeentetho, kuphela ekuthiwa ngabantu abadumileyo: "Kwaye ndicinga ukuba unobungcali!" Ngoko bazive benokuzithemba nangokuzimeleyo. Oku, kunjalo, kunengxaki enkulu kuneyakho. Kodwa ekungalindelekanga, kungekhona nje isimo sengqondo, kodwa ukuzithemba kungonakalisa kakubi kakhulu.
I-PS Oku ngasentla ayithethi ukuba sibiza ukugcinwa kwesinye kwiseli ehlukile - kwaye singabonakali! Sithetha nje ukuba, ngokufuna ngentshiseko into ethile, sisoloko sibona umfanekiso ococekileyo - kodwa kungeyona imiphumo yangempela yokuzalwa. Ngoko, de kube ufumene ifowuni evela eHollywood, ixesha lokuzibonakalisa ukuzithemba nokuzithemba! Ukuzukisa ngeendleko zobuqili babo kunye nomona - ngaba kuhle okanye kubi, ucinga?
Ewe, oku kubi kwaye kubi
Isimo sokuthanda. Kukho omnye umphumo wecala lokwakha. Kulo nto ngokwayo, le nto ihlala isenza njengeziyobisi, ukudala ukuxhomekeka. Kwaye ke "iinkwenkwezi", ekuthethwa ngodliwano-ntliziyo ngalunye, ukuba zihlaselwa kwaye aziphilisi ngabangabongiyo kunye nabangenayo kwintatheli, bekunolwazi lwangaphandle, ngokukhawuleza baqala ukukrakra baze baxineke. Enyanisweni, bafuna ukukhuselwa ekudluleni. Ngokumalunga nendlela abahlali beempawu ezixhalabisa ngayo ngengxolo kunye nesihlwele, kodwa, xa befikelela edolophini yesithili sephondo, baziva bengakhululekile kwaye balwela "isiqu".
Oku kwenzeka ntoni? Intshisekelo ephakanyisiweyo kwimpumelelo ineempawu eziliqela. Ukubaluleka kukuhle okanye akunjalo, kuba asikwazi ukuhlola ngokuchanekileyo into eyenziwa ngumntu kunye nokulahleka kwindlela yokunqoba. Iingcamango ezizibambileyo ngezinye iinkcukacha ziyaqhekeka kwiinkxalabo zasekhaya. Kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo baphinda baphinde baphile ubomi, bathathelwe abantwana. Qaphela! Olunye uhlobo lobungqina bokubaluleka komntu kunye nokuthandwa kwakhe akunakuphumelela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, kodwa uyaziqonda "isangqa sonyulwa." "Izifo zobugcisa" abantu abanomdla - ukuhlasela kwentliziyo, izilonda kunye nezinye izifo ezichaphazelekayo. Ukuze uziphephe, umntu makakhumbule ukuba indima ethandekayo neyithandwayo "yindwendwe" inendima nje.