Nangona kunjalo, kwintlalo yethu okanye inxunguba, kukho enye indawo engazange iphumelele kwimpembelelo engonakaliyo yeendlela zanamhlanje: i-psychology. Kwaye ucinga ntoni, ngumuphi umbuzo? Imibono malunga nokwakhiwa kwentsapho.
Khumbula amagama ootatomkhulu wakho: ngesandla sakho sonke ubomi bakho, abantwana abahlanu. Ngaphambili, umtshato wahlanganiswa nokuzalwa kwangoku kwabantwana kwaye wakhonza ekuqondeni abantu njengendlela yokunikela ubomi kumntu omtsha. Abantu abaselula namhlanje abaphantsi kwala bantu abadala. Ewe, bambalwa abantwana namhlanje, bambalwa abantu abazalayo, kodwa nango ngumntwana wokuqala kunyaka wokuqala wobomi kunye-lula! Nangona kunjalo, loo mnqweno wokwakha intsapho eqinile ibe yintlekele kwezinye iimeko: iintsapho ziyahlukana, kwaye abantwana abashiyiweyo bahlala.
1.Hochetsya ngokukhawuleza ukuba unxibe ingubo yomtshato kunye ne-tuxedo efanelekileyo? Uya kuba nexesha, i-REGISTRY OFFICE kungekudala ayiyi kuphelisa.
2. Ngaba ufuna ukujonga ixesha elide oza kugcina izikhonkwane ezincanyeni kwi-dacha, ukuhlamba iisokisi kunye nokucoca izitya? Phila umtshato womtshato kwaye uzive ulungele ukuhlala kunye.
3. Ngaba ucinga ukuba lixesha lokuqalisa iintsana? Ngaba ucinga ukuba azinzima nakakhulu ukuzinyamekela ngaphezu kwekati yasekhaya, kwaye umntwana wakho uya kuhlala efana neemeko ezinjalo? Akunakwenzeka, sinokucebisa ukuba uyeke ukuxhoma emafini.
4. Ukuba ngaba ngenxa yesizathu esithile ungeke ube nabantwana? Ngaba le sizathu sokubulawa? Khumbula izibini ezingenabantwana abangenaso nantoni na ngenxa yolu bunzima obuphantsi.
Ucinga ntoni, bafazi abathandekayo, ngubani na obuza le mibuzo? Umbhali wenqaku? Hayi, amadoda.
Kutheni bebuza le mibuzo? Kukho izizathu ezininzi:
1. Okhethiweyo wakho usemncinci kwaye akafuni ukuxanduva lomtshato. Ukuba nawe usemncinci kwaye unethemba, ngoko ngokwenene, ungamgijimi umngane wakho omnandi. Indlela iya kukhula. Yaye ukuba sele usulungele ukuhlamba iisokisi uze ubelethe umntwana? Ndiya kufuneka ndikhokele umyeni kwiofisi yombhalisi.
2. Ungummeli. Ufuna indawo, kwaye ekuboneni kwintsimi yakhe, unokuphelelwa ngumsindo. Ukuzingca kunye ne-infantilism. Okanye mhlawumbi ufuna ukusela ubhiya kusihlwa okanye, zithi, unqume izikebhe ezivela emthini, kodwa uyazi ukuba uya kulwa nalo? Ngoko ke, ukhetha umtshato womtshato. Ufuna ukukukhangela.
3. Wayesele watshata. Okwesibini "ukuhamba" kude kube ngoku, amandla akwanele. Mhlawumbi umfazi wokuqala wayengesona isipho kwaye washaya "ikati" yakho nayiphi na inzala ukuya kwiofisi yokubhalisa kwakhona.
4. Akayithandi uxanduva. Ubomi bakhe obunobomi bumxhathisa ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye umtshato womtshato awunyanzelisi nantoni na, kuba akukho mqulu uqinisekisa ukuba "uya kuthandana nokuncedana ngokubuhlungu novuyo".
5. Abahlobo bakhe bazimisele ukumelana nomtshato. Uhlala uhleka kwaye uqinisekise ukuba emva kwesitampu kwipasipoti uya kuba yinto ekhutshiwe.
Izizathu zokuhlala umtshato womtshato wabantu zininzi kakhulu. Kubonakala kuthi kuthi umthombo oyintloko weengxaki zonke ukwesaba. Uloyiko lokuba uya kuncitshiswa ubhiya kwaye akayi kubukela ibhola, uloyiko lokuba uya kuba yinto ekhusekileyo, ukwesaba ukuba kuya kufuneka athathele uxanduva lwentsapho yonke.
Ladies, ukuba unomntu oyinkimbinkimbi, kufuneka ufumane indlela eya kuye kwaye umphilise ngcamango "yokutya ipasipoti."