Nawuphi na umfazi uthanda ukuba phakathi kwenkalo yomntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo uzama ukumbamba ngoncedo lwabahlaziyi. Omnye wabalinganiswa abaqhelekileyo besetyhini. Kubasetyhini, kuxhaphake kakhulu kunabantu. Bayijonga isizathu sokuba imeko yabo ibe yilabo abajikelezayo abaqhuba ukuziphatha kwabo.
Abafazi abanjalo babonakala ngokubonakalisa ngokucacileyo iimvakalelo zabo. Abamkeli ukuthula kunye nokuthula. Ukuqonda le nkalo yomgca inokwenzeka kuphela kwinkqubo yoqhagamshelwano. Ingabonakali ngokukhawuleza. Kubalulekile ekudibaneni nohlobo olunomdla kufuneka kubekho ukukhupha kunye nokuvakalelwa.Izizathu zokukhathazeka
Izizathu zokuvela kweempawu ze-hysterical zihlukile. Kubalulekile ukuzimisela ukwenzela ukujongana nale ngxaki. I-Hysteria ingaba ngumphumo wezixhobo ezingenasici.
Kule meko, ingqondo ayikwazi ukulawula ngokupheleleyo ukuziphatha kwaye ihlangabezane ngokwaneleyo neemeko ezithile. Impembelelo ekuphuhliseni ukunyanzelisa uxinzelelo, ukusetyenziswa okungalawulwayo kwamachiza athile. Kwakhona, isizathu salokhu imfundo engafanelekanga, xa ubomi bebukho, akukho nto yachithwa. Kubaluleke kakhulu iminyaka engama-4-7 kwimfundo yentombi yakhe. Udlala indima ebalulekileyo kwimpilo kamva kunye nobudlelwane namadoda. Kwengqondo yeli xesha libizwa ngokuba yi-oedipal. Okubaluleke kakhulu ulwalamano noyise. Umntu wokuqala ebomini intombazana nguyise wakhe. Kuninzi kuxhomekeke ekunyeleni kwakhe nokuziphatha. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uxhasa ubufazi besisu, kodwa akaxininisi ukuqonda kweminye imiba esondeleyo. Maxa wambi oobawo ngokwabo babangela iingxaki ezininzi kwiintombazana. Engacacanga, bayakwazi ukuthwala umntwana umnqweno ongenakuzaliseka. Ukuziphatha okungafanelekanga, okubonakaliswe ngokuzithobela yonke iminqweno kunye nokuxubusha kunokuchaphazela kakubi. Ingakumbi ukuba idibene nokungakhathaleli umfazi nonina womntwana. Ngamanye amaxesha kwimpilo kamva, umfazi wabo bonke abancinci bakhe bafanisa noyise. Oku akufanelekanga ukuyenza, ngokukodwa ngokuzwakalayo. Kubalulekile ukuxabisa abantu ngabanye, akukho bantu abafanayo.
I-hysteria eqhelekileyo ibhinqa ababenenkathazo noyise kwimpilo yabo. Kwinqanaba elithile, wamngcatsha okanye walahla uthando lwakhe. Amadoda amaninzi ahlala ephila ngokubhekiselele kubantwana babo. Abathembekile kwaye banokuphuma kwintsapho, sebenze nzima okanye bafe. Ukuthembela kumadoda kubhujiswa kwisigaba sokuqala. Zonke iinkqubo azikwazi kwaye azikwazi ukuzilawula ngokuzimeleyo. Ibhinqa liqala ukudiliza phakathi kwothando olunzulu ngoyise kunye nenzondo yakhe.
Isimo esinyanzelisayo kubahlaziyiyo kubakho babaphulaphuli. Ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka kubekho abantu ababalekele kulo mgaqo. Xa wedwa, akukho ndawo ekuboniseni uhlaziyo lwakho.
Abafazi be-hysterical baxhomekeke ngokungaqhelekanga kwiminqweno yabo. Oku kunokukhokelela kwizenzo ezingenanto zokungahambi. Akakhathalele konke malunga nemiphumo yezenzo zakhe. Iyakwazi ukufezekisa ezinye iinjongo zobuqhetseba.
Yonke imbonakalo yombonakalo we-hysterical ingahlukaniswa ngamaqela amabini amakhulu. Bangakwazi ukuthula okanye ukukhala. Kwimeko yokuqala akukho ukukrokra, kodwa kukho ukuhlambalaza emehlweni, ukuthula kwaye konke kuhloswe ukuchaphazela isazela somntu osondeleyo. Ngokukhawuleza kunye nomfazi onjalo, indoda iyaziva ingakhululeki kakhulu, iya kuqonda imeko yakhe kunye nomoya. Ukuba kukho ukuqhuma okukhulu, ukubetha izitsha, ukucacisa ubudlelwane emigxeni ephezulu kunye nokulila. Kulo rhulumente, liyakwazi ukusebenzisa amandla omzimba kunye namazwi.
Kuzo zombini iimeko, ezi zenzo ziya kuqhubeka zize zikhangele ingqalelo. Umntu oku kuye konke oku kuhloswe ngaye, kufuneka ukuba aqale ukuhlaziya aze afake yonke imicimbi yakhe ngaphandle. Kunzima kakhulu ukuba amadoda abe nomfazi onamaqhinga. Indlela echanekileyo yokusinda yindlela yokuthula kunye nokuzola. Unokuzama ukumbamba okanye ukuzola. Kubalulekile ukuba ulungele ukuba lo mfazi akayikuzilawula kwaye uyakwazi ukuphosa nayiphi na into nayiphi na ixesha. Ukuba oku kwenzeka njalo kwaye isiqingatha sesibini asifuni ukutshintsha, ngoko kungcono ukuba ushiye. Ngamanye amaxesha indoda ukunika ibhinqa isihawu imenza i-slap ebusweni. Le ndlela ayibonakaliyo ngokukhawuleza. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukhokelela ekubhekiseleleni kwimpumelelo.
Ubungqina bendalo buyacetyiswa kakhulu. Oku kudla ngokukhokelela ekudumeni okukhulu. Abanelisekanga ngobomi babo, bonke bahlala bephosakele. Nangona abathandekayo bazama ukumkholisa njengoko kunokwenzeka, oku akuyi kubangela nantoni na. Ngokuphambene noko, uya kuqalisa ukucinga kunye nokufuna oko akusikhoyo. Ngokusoloko kubonakala kuye ukuba ubomi abufanelekanga nantoni na evuyayo.
Ukuziphatha ngokwesondo "
Abafazi be-Hysterical besondo. Emva kwesiqubuthelo somfazi obulalayo bafihla ezininzi iingxaki. Abafazi abanjalo baninzi kakhulu ukwesaba. Bakhathazeke ngokukodwa ngeminyaka yabo. Sekuyiminyaka eyi-25 baqala ukucinga ngokuguga. I-30let kubo iphantse ekupheleni kobomi. Kunzima ukuba bazibonele. Ibhinqa elinomdla we-hysterical ayimelanga nonke, ukuhlala kunye ne-cellulite, imibimbi kunye nezinye iinguqu ezinxulumene neminyaka.
I-Hysteria yinkqubo engaziwayo, kodwa ngokuthe kancinci umfazi angayiqonda yonke imiba emihle yolu rhulumente aze abe ngumxhomekeke kuye.
Umfazi ohlakaniphile uyayiqonda kakuhle imeko yakhe yokuzihlaziya kwaye uzama ukuhlangabezana nayo yonke indlela.
Okokuqala, kufuneka uhlaziye kwaye uyeke, mhlawumbi ube yedwa. Kubalulekile ukufumana indlela ekhuselekileyo yeemvakalelo zakho ezintle. Kungaba yimidlalo, ukuphuhlisa umsebenzi okanye umsebenzi onzima womzimba. Mhlawumbi, utshintshe uqeqesho kwaye wenze ishishini, apho loo ntokazi iya kuhlala iphakathi kwenkalo. Kufuneka ukwazi ukuphumla kwaye ungafaki iinjongo ezingafumanekiyo. Ukuba i-hysteria idibaniswe neetalente, oku kungaba sisiseko esihle kakhulu sokufikelela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo. Ubume bunyanzeliswe ukuba bamncede kwaye bamxhase. Ibhinqa kufuneka ihlole ngokuchanekileyo into ayifunayo abantu. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba umntu ngamnye ngumntu kwaye akadingi ukutshintsha iinjongo zabo.
Ukuba awukwazi ukujamelana nawe ngokwakho, ungajika kwiindlela zamanje zonyango olunikezwa ngamayeza. Oku kungaba yindlela yokwenza i-psychotherapy, ngamanye amaxesha kunye ne-hypnosis. Mhlawumbi kusetyenziswe amayeza okanye ngamanye amaxesha kwaneyonyango yokuqeshwa kwabasebenzi. Unyango oluchanekileyo nolungangoko lunokumiselwa ngu-psychoanalyst. Kodwa oomama abanesifo esiyingozi, abanqabile kuye.
Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba i-hysteria ingakhokelela kwizifo zenyama yangempela. Yibangela i-headballs, spasms, ukulahlekelwa kwintlungu kunye nokuba yimfama. Ngoko ke, kunye nempawu zokuqala zendalo, kubalulekile ukuba uqale umsebenzi onzima.