Ukuze uqonde ukuba kutheni abafana bathanda i-bitch, kufuneka ufune ukuqala ukuba ngubani, ngokuqinisekileyo, into enjalo.
Akukho mpendulo kulo mbuzo. Ngokuchanekileyo, kukho iimpendulo ezininzi kangangokuba akukho mbuzo wokungafani.
Iimbono ezimbini eziqhelekileyo ezibonakalayo:
Inombolo yombono 1. I-Bitch ayikho yonke isidalwa somntu, esichukumisa yonke into endleleni eya kwiindawo eziphakamileyo zomsebenzi wakhe okanye kwiinjongo ezithile zobomi. Lo ngumfazi oqhelekileyo, zeziphi izigidi. Akayi kuthi cwaka ekuphenduleni ububudenge bendoda, ukungcola, ukuhlambalaza. Kwaye akaze amnike kuye kwingxabano, ukuba uyaqiniseka ngokuthe tye. Ababukeli beli ngcamango basebenzise umxholo we "bitch" kungekhona njengesiqalekiso, kodwa njengenkcazo yowesifazane onomgca wokuziphatha, oko kukuthi, unokukwazi ukuphumelela naluphi na ukhuphiswano kwiinjongo zalo. Yiyo kuphela le ngcamango yembonakalo yinto eninzi yabasetyhini ngokwabo.
Inombolo yeBhunga 2. I-Bitch yintokazi ephosakeleyo yengqondo, ukuzonda wonke umntu kunye nayo yonke into. Ulawula, ukhohlakele, unganakulinganiswa, uzingca, ubanda kunye nokubala. Iimbono zamadoda ayithandayo. Yonke into kufuneka ibe yindlela efunayo. Ingqongileyo iphinda ikhutshwe yiyo imvakalelo embi. Ukuba kwenzeka into engaqhelekanga kwaye ibambelela kwi-hook, akukho ncoko yentswelo ejulile neyomeleleyo - ayikwazi ukukwazi ukuyenza. Ejongene nale ngcamango, unokuqiniseka: ukuba umnxibelelwano wakho ngumfazi - ngaba umqhubi ophumelelayo, ukuba umfana - phambi kwakho wayenqabile kwaye uyazikhukhumeza ngesilisa esivuthayo.
Unako, ngokuphuhlisa jikelele, jonga kwisichazizwi sikaDahl. Nangona kunjalo, ukwenza oku ngaphambi kokuba sidle isidlo asikhuthazwa.
Ngoko yintoni isizathu? Yisiphi into esingaqhelekanga yokuba abantu baxhamle? Yintoni ekhoyo kula ma bastards awunakufumaneka kwamanye amabhinqa? Ingaba kunjalo ngokwenene ubunjani obuhle kakhulu obuye buvuzwa ngobuhle obuhle?
Akunjalo. Phakathi kwabo bajongwa njenge-bastards, abaninzi abesifazana, ababonakalayo abaqhelekileyo. Kodwa bonke bayazi indlela yokuchaneka nokusetyenziswa kwemodareyitha yokusebenzisa imodyulo, banekhanda elicingayo, elibalaseleyo, abakhethileyo iimpahla kunye nezicathulo. Konke oku, kunye nomntu ongenakulinganiswa kunye nomfanekiso omangalisayo, "indalo" ebulala ixesha elininzi, iphunga elimnandi lokuqhumisa amafutha, linika iibhodi into ekhangayo, kwaye ibonakala ikhangeleka, ibangela abantu ukuba benze okuthile.
Kwaye mhlawumbi iphoso liziphatha ngokungcolileyo? Ukuba kukho umnxeba, umthombo wayo ubanda kakhulu. I-Bitch ayithandi ngothando nomfana. Kunoko, ngokuchaseneyo, ngokukhawuleza, kwindawo ethile nangona ngenyameko, iya kuthatha inxaxheba. Ayikwazi ukuza ngomhla, owathi wavumelana ngokufanelekileyo. Kulula, kwinto eqhelekileyo, ukucacisa ukuba izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu zokwenza.
Kodwa oku kuguquka ngokukrakra. Umntu, ukulibala ukuzingca kwakhe, ulungele ukuwa ezinyaweni zakhe. Uyaqonda ukuba uyayifuna le ntokazi. Yonke imikhosi, yonke ingqiqo eyinkimbinkimbi iyaxhomekeke kwelinye-ukuze iphumelele. Kwaye nayiphi na ukunqoba kwentetho ayikho into ebalulekileyo, kuba oku akunakwenzeka. Kuba i-bitch kufuneka iphumelele yonke iminithi.
I-Bitch ishushu kakhulu. Ukhululekile kakhulu kwaye unomdla wokulala. Yonke imini kunye naye yinto entsha, kuba i-bitch ayinakukwazi ukuqikelela. Kubafana, olu lamano lubi ngaphezu kwesilwanyana. Ngethuba lekhefu (kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, liya kuba ngumqali), lo mfana uya kuba ulungele ukufuna (angaphumeleli) ukuxolelwa kuzo zonke iindlela ezicingelwayo.