Ubeka umgomo wokudala ubudlelwane nomntu? Emva koko kufuneka ucacise ukuba kuya kuba yintoni, kuba kuxhomekeka kuyo - ingaba iya kuhambelana nawe okanye cha. Ndicebisa ukuba uqhelane ne-psychoanalytic typology yemanyano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Ndicinga ukuba oku kuya kukwandisa iingcamango zakho nolwazi malunga nolwalamano ... Indlela ephakanyisiweyo yokumisela umanyano wakho ilula, ayifuni ukufundwa okuyinkimbinkimbi kwaye yenzelwe ukubonwa ngokubanzi kwintsebenziswano yolwalamano.
Imibutho yeParanoid
Ubudlelwane beParanoid bubonakaliswe ngummandla wokulawula ngokugqithiseleyo nokuqwalasela, okudala ukungathembeki kunye nokwesaba ukutshutshiswa.
Amandla, amaninzi amaninzi, agxininisa kwiqela elibambeneyo, kwaye, akudingeki ukuba abe ngumntu. Bobabini iqabane kunye nabo bonke abasondelene nabo basebenzisa kuphela ukuqokelela nokulungiselela ulwazi malunga neengozi zangaphakathi nangaphandle. Kwiimanyano, i-conservatism iyabusa, indawo leyo iyamoyika ukuba ibonakale ingenangqondo kunye neyokusebenza. Life credo: "Masiphume ngandlela-thile!".
Ukunciphisa umngcipheko okhoyo kule mibutho yoncedo kunceda ukwahlula phakathi kwazo zonke izenzo nezenzo. Imoya iyabanda kakhulu, ingqiqo kwaye ayinayo imfudumalo yomoya.
Ulwalamano lwe-Epileptoid
Umnqweno wokugqwesa kwiimeko ezinjalo aziyazi nje umda. Iimpazamo kunye nokungaqiniseki kufuneka kugwenywe yiyo yonke inyaniso kunye neenkwenkwezi. Apha kukho inkohliso yokucwangcisa kunye nomgaqo, kuba kukho ukwesaba ukuba izinto ezingalindelekanga ziphazamisa umsebenzi obalulekileyo wemanyano. Apha kukho konke kukho imigaqo, izimo zengqondo kunye nezikhokelo eziqokelelelwe kwiminyaka emide. Akukho nto eyenzeka ngethuba, ayikho into encinane. Ulwalamano olulolo hlobo luhlala lukhuselekileyo, alukwazi ukusabela ngokukhawuleza utshintsho olwenzeka kwindawo yangaphandle. Abalingani banamathele ngokukodwa kwixesha elivavanywayo, kwaye ngakumbi, izizukulwana zengqondo, iinjongo kunye nocwangciso lophuhliso.
Isisusa esiyinhloko somanyano we-epileptoid ukungafuni ukuxhomekeka kumntu okanye nantoni na. Amaqabane afuna ukuchaza yonke into ebomini bawo ngokwabo. Izigqibo zithathwa kanzima kakhulu kwaye, ukuba umbuzo awufundanga kakuhle, unokuhlehliswa ngokukhawuleza kwithuba elifanelekileyo.
Ingxaki eqhelekileyo yale mibutho yamanyano kukuba amaqabane angaboni emva kwemithi imithi ehleliyo yizilwanyana ezimbi.
Amanyathelo okuxhamla
Ukusebenzisana ngokuqhelekileyo kwimibutho yama-hysteroid kuya kuba yimidlalo ephawulekayo kunye needatiyati. Inkqubo ibaluleke ngakumbi kuneyona nto. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kukho ukungahambi kakuhle, ishishini, ukunyanzelisa nokuphucula. Ingozi, isibindi nokuzimela ekuthathweni kwezigqibo ziyisiseko sendlela yokuziphatha ngayo inkokheli. Okokuqala kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo, udinga iqabane ukuba liqinise ukuzimela kwakhe. Kuye, nayiphina indawo (nokuba yindlu okanye indawo engcono yoluntu) yindawo apho unokuzibonakalisa khona kwaye ubonise "izibongo" zakho nezisisombululo.
Akukho ndawo yokunxibelelana ngokuqhelekileyo kwiimanyano. Zonke ngokukhawuleza. Akukho sikhokelo. Akunakwenzeka ukwenza izicwangciso, kunye nexesha elifutshane. I-containment kunye neendlela zokulawula azisebenzi.
Ifilosofi yombonisi: "Ndifuna ukuba nenjongo, ndifuna ukwenza ingqiqo."
Izivumelwano ezidityanisiweyo
Unxulumano olunjalo aluhambelani. Abalingani abaqinisekanga ngokupheleleyo ngamakhono abo, abayiboni intsingiselo nenjongo yobomi babo bobabini. Ubomi babo buzaliswe yinkqubo yemivuzo kunye neenkqubo, akukho mnqweno wokutshintsha nantoni ebomini babo. Ubuhlobo obunjalo abukho, kodwa bukhona.
Eentloko - i-vacuum. Ukwesaba ukwenza iipazamo kukhulu kangangokuba amaqabane azama ukuhlala kulobu bomi kuphela ngoncedo lwezakhono nezindlovu zezolo. Ukungakhuselekanga nokuxinezeleka kwenkokeli kuboniswa kwizikhalazo kunye nokukhangela izizathu zangaphandle zokungaphumeleli kwazo.
Yonke into igcwele ingxaki. Bonke bayademokelwa kwaye bahlaziywa. Isiqubulo sabo sithi: "Uhamba ngokuthula - uya kuqhubeka" okanye "Umzi wam osuka kumgca".
Amanyano kaSchizoid
Ezijikelezileyo zibona ezinjalo iimanyano ezibandayo, zihlanjululwe, zihoxiswe kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ziyingozi.
Inkokheli kwintsebenziswano isoloko isingenisekanga, ingenakunceda kwimicimbi yobuqhetseba, inqatshelwe oonxibelelwano abanobungane kunye nabangacwangciswanga, abazami ukuveza ngokucacileyo isikhundla sakhe kunye nembono. Ubunye benkqubo yezobuqu kunye nezoshishino luphulwa, okukhokelela ekunciphiseni kwimisebenzi yomanyano.
Ngokuqhelekileyo loo mbini inokungcola kolwazi. Inomdla oyintloko ye nkokheli, njengomthetho, kwezinye izinto ezinqwenelekayo, ezinxulumene nenqweno okanye ubuchule bomnye umntu owaziwayo. Ukuseka umda wangaphakathi nangaphandle luhlobo lokhuselo lwento esezantsi.
Imibutho endiyichazeyo, yinyani, i-pathological. Kodwa ukuba ukhangelelene kunye nawe kunye neminye imibutho eyaziwa kuwe, uya kukwazi ukubona ezinye iindlela eziza kukunceda ukufumanisa iingxaki ezikhulayo okanye ezivele zizalwe.
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