Ewe, wadibana nothando. Kodwa, ukuba ufuna ukuba lobu budlelwane bungapheli, xa iilazi ezinemibala ephakamileyo, zifuna ukwazi ukufunda ukwakha ubudlelwane. Le nkqubo yinkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi kunye nexesha elidinga umonde kunye nemigudu evela kuwe.
Ewe, ukuqala ubudlelwane akusiyo ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuqonda: kutheni abantu bephula.
Izizathu zokuhlukana:
Ukhohlakele. Esi sizathu esibalulekileyo. Kodwa, kulungele ukuqonda ukuba kutheni wena okanye iqabane lakho utshintshile nomnye umntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukungcatsha kubangelwa ukungaboni kakuhle kwintsapho, ukungathembeki, ukungabi nentswelo yeziqhelo, ukunganeliseki embhedeni.
Ingxabano. Infinite kunye nokungapheli - bulala zonke iimvakalelo ezintle kunye nomnqweno wokuba kunye.
Abalingani bakhathele omnye nomnye. Ewe, nje ukhathele .... Uphelisana kakhulu ukuba ulungele ukuqhuba ukusuka kumlingane wakho ukuya ekupheleni kwehlabathi. Yonke into iqala ukucaphukisa kuye - into encinane.
Iingxaki zezindlu. Akukho nto abantu abathi: "Inqanawa yentsapho yaqhekeka ubomi."
Iingxaki zemali. Namhlanje abantu abahlali ndawonye kunye nomgaqo: "ngeparadesi enhle nakwindlu." Ngoku omnye umthetho usebenza: "Uthando uluthando ... kwaye uhlala ufuna ukudla!".
Indlela yokwakha ubudlelwane obude.
Kodwa ndicinga ukuba kulufanelekile ukuba ufunde indlela yokufunda indlela yokwakha ubudlelane ngokuchanekileyo ukwenzela ukuba ngaba babini bayavuya kwaye bathandwa, kwaye umanyano wakho uya kuma ukuvavanya ixesha.
Kukho amaxesha apho uya kuziva ukuba awusayithandi. Kodwa, mhlawumbi kufuneka ukuba utshintshe imeko: nokuba uhamba ngeeyure ezimbalwa kunye neentombi zakho zihamba, okanye kunye neqabane lakho ukwenza into entsha. Ndiqinisekile ukuba uya kukhangeleka ngamehlo amnandi kwinqununu yakho, kwaye ubuye wathandane naye kwakhona.
Ukuthembana kunye nokwabelana ngokusondelene kakhulu-idibanisa ngokupheleleyo kwaye idibanisa abantu. Kodwa, akusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuxelela yonke into. Ukuba niba nomnye kunye noodade - akunakuzuzisa ulwalamano lwakho.
Zonke izithandane zixabana - oku kuyinto engokwemvelo. Into ephambili kukuzama ukuzibamba, kuba "ilizwi alilona intlunkulu". Futhi ungacingi ukuba, xa uxabana, kufuneka uhambe ngokukhawuleza.
Funda ukuthetha kunye nokuva iqabane lakho. Ukungaqondi kakuhle kukutshabalala kobudlelwane obuqilileyo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.
Ngamanye amaxesha kubalulekile ukuchitha ixesha kude nesiqingatha sakho sesibini. Zama ukungabi nexhala, kodwa kunokuba ubangele ubumnandi kunye nemvakalelo emihle.
Amantombazana, musa ukukhanyela amadoda enu othandana nothando. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuya kumkhwaza.
Sebenza kwiibhugi.
Makhe sijonge iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo kwaye sizame ukuziphepha kwixesha elizayo. Khumbula ukuba kaninzi kangakanani kwidilesi yomntu owaphosa amabinzana:
Ucinga ntoni ngo ....
Zingaphi ndihlandlo ndiza kukuxelela ....
Ndakuxelela ...
Utshintshile ... .. (Kakade, ucinga ukuba okubi kakhulu)
Unomama wakho (udade, udade, unina, umakhulukazi) ....
Zama ukungavumeli amagama anjalo, ngaphandle koko uya kulahlwa ngumhlobo wakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo udumise indoda yakho, mnike iindumiso (ngendlela, bathi abantu bathanda kakhulu xa beyanconywa).
Ukuba kumbuzo: "Indlela yokufunda ukwakha ubudlelwane?", Ukuphendula ngendlela elula, ndinokuthi njalo - Thanda indoda yakho kwaye wenze naye njengoko ufuna ukuba aziphathe ngayo.