Ubudlelwane buyahlukahluka-buphumelele kwaye abude bude kwaye bufutshane, njengobusuku busika. Ngamanye amaxesha ngisho nokucinga - ukutshatyalaliswa "okuthandana" kunye nomntu osebenza naye okanye inkwenkwezi yeTV ihlala iminyaka.
Kwakhona, ukuba isibini esingazange sisebenze, emva kokuphuka, amaninzi amantombazana nabasetyhini bakhumbula "ngaye" ixesha elide. "Uthiwa" unobungqina obucatshulwayo, bakhumbula izinto ezilungileyo kuphela ... Kodwa ubomi buqhubeka, oko kuthetha ukuba lixesha lokucinga ngendlela yokuphosa iingcinga "malunga naye."
Ubomi buntsha
Nakuphi na ubudlelwane, abafazi batyala umphefumlo wabo. "Kanye nje ngesondo" okanye "nje ukudibana, ukudibana, nokuhlukana" akunzeki. Yaye indlela yokuphosa iingcamango zakhe ekhanda lakhe, ukuba izinto ezininzi zinxulumene naye, bathandekayo kwaye bathandekayo, kokubili kokulungileyo nokubi?
Ngoko kuvela ukuba kukho ezininzi iinkalo zobomi-umsebenzi, umsebenzi, abahlobo, izinto zokuzilibazisa, izihlobo - kodwa zonke iingcinga entlokweni yam ziphela kuphela, ezazisithandwa ngaphambili. Akunjalo "ukukhupha" - le "baobab" ayivumelekanga ingcola ingcambu kumphefumlo wesifazane obuhlungu.
Ukuhlala ngokutsha, ngaphandle kwayo kuya kufuneka ufunde, mhlawumbi - ubuhlungu kunye nexesha elide. Yaye indlela yokuphosa iingcamango zakhe ekhanda lakhe, isayithi iya kuxela.
"Iifolo", apho sibambelele khona
Abasetyhini abayithandani kuphela uthando, kodwa nesiphumo sayo. Amagama athetha ngexesha "elifanayo", "iintsuku ezikhethekileyo", ezikhunjulwa ngokukrakra nangeminyaka kamva. Umculo owawuphulaphula ndawonye, indawo oya kuyo. Konke oku akunjalo kodwa kubangela ukuba zikhumbuze iinkumbulo. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba ubalekele ngaye, kufuneka uqaphele "ukucoca jikelele".
Emva kwesigaba sokuqala sokulila - ukulahleka kunye nokunyanzelwa kwayo - kuya kudlula, qalisa ukucinga ngokucothayo, ukukhumbula. Ungafaki kwiintliziyweni zetyhefu elimnandi - vele uphephe entloko yakho konke njengoko kwakunjalo. Baphi bahamba phi, bathetha ntoni. Kancinci uza kuqala ukuqaphela i-subtexts ezintsha, intsingiselo, imibala. Uya kuqonda oko kwashukumisa le ndoda. Yintoni eyenzekayo xa uthanda ukuthandana.
Ubungqina obuninzi bendlela yokuphumelela kweli nqanaba kukuzola, nokuba nesimo sengqondo "kwingoma yakho", apho udansa khona. Awusayi kuphuma kwiintlungu ezibuhlungu, ukutyelela indawo apho uchithe ixesha.
Ukubuya kwethu
Ekuqaleni, inothando ("i-candy-bouquet") kwinqanaba lobudlelwane, ngelixa isibini esingazange sibhekane nobunzima kunye nokuphikisana, okhethiweyo ubonakala efanelekileyo ngathi. Kwaye siyavuya ngokukhululekileyo kule ndawo-siyazilahleka. Yingakho ukucamngca, indlela yokuphosa iingcamango zakhe ngaphandle kwentloko, kuba buhlungu.
Khawuzikhumbuze ukuba emva kweyunivesithi elumnandi kunompheme omkhulu.
Buyela kwiminqweno yakho endala, ufunde okanye ufumane ezintsha.
Buyela ngokukhawuleza-ngokwakho. Funda iimfuno zakho, imikhwa, iinkcukacha. Ukhetha ntoni - iHockey okanye ibhallet? Iingoma zomculo okanye iqela langaphandle? Uyisela ntoni kusasa - itiye okanye ikhofi? Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, unyawo luni olukhethayo ukuvuka ekuseni?
"Izinto ezincinci", eziyimpawu zethu ezintle, ziyakwazi ukusibuyisela kwivakalelo zethu, ukubuyela kwixabiso lentlobo yethu ekhethekileyo neyodwa.
Ukuba uqhubeka nokuthelekisa, ke le nqanaba ifana nokuyila kwendlu yakho okanye indlu. Oko kufanelekile, indlela okhetha ukuhlala ngayo, oko uza kwenza ngeendonga ezine kuxhomekeke kuwe.
Ziziphi - iingcamango ngaye?
Emva kokubuya kwamalungelo kwi-identity yakho, qaphela isigaba sokugqibela "sokucoca". Ukuze uqiniseke ukuba awulahli into ebalulekileyo, kubalulekile, kufuneka uqwalasele ngokucokisekileyo kwaye, mhlawumbi, ukukhupha i-"intambo yengqondo" ejected.
- Phonsa ubunzima obunzima - ingcamango yokuba mhlawumbi awufanelekanga kuye. Okanye ukuba ulwalamano lwakho, ngokomzekelo, lunokwenziwa ngcono. Ukuba awuzange ube nesineke ngokwaneleyo okanye akanakulungele. Ukuba uphoswa zonke iintlobo eziza kufumana naye. Baphosa ngaphandle kokuzisola - kodwa okokuqala qinisekisa ukuba akukho nto.
- Cinga yonke ingcamango . Ndikhumbule into (ukugubha, ukuphefumlelwa ngothando lomculo) - musa ukuqhuba le ngcamango. Ube nguwe waza waba namandla. Ngoku unokujamelana nenyaniso.
Kodwa le nyaniso yiyo.
Yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bakho kunye "ngesizathu esithile". Yonke yayingenanto. Kwakukho uvuyo, uvuyo, ukunwabalala - mbulela. Kwakuyintlungu, kwakunzima - kubulela kwakhona. Ukukhulula imeko. Uze ucinge ngale nto.
Nangona kunjalo ukuba ukhumbule, unengqondo kuphela - uluvo lwesinye icala. Ngelixa uhamba ezulwini uqala ukumanga okanye ukhanyisa ukusuka kumgca, umthandi wakho wayenokucinga nge pizza okanye malunga nokuhamba nabangani kwi-bar ukuze ubukele ukusasazwa kwebhola. Okanye ngokuthe xa kunjalo - xa usitshisa ngomsindo, wahlushwa ngenxa yokungaxhatshazi kwaye ukholelwa ukuba "uyakwenza ngenjongo" - lo mntu ukholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba uyakhathalela kwaye uyanyamekela iimvakalelo zakho.
Awukwazi ukuphikisa ukuba iinjongo zakhe kunye neengcamango zakhe zifana neendlela ozicingayo.
Kwaye emva kokuhlalutya ngokucopheleleyo nangokucopheleleyo, ekugqibeleni kukuhlukana kunye "naye", unokukhululeka okwenene. Ngoku awudingi ukuhlaziya "iingcinga malunga nalo." Ukongezelela - mhlawumbi ngeke uyithande.
Xa ubuyela ehlabathini lenene!