Ekugqibeleni, kunokwenzeka ukuba uziphoqe ukuba uchaze uphawu olungenanto, nangona iqheleke abantu abazange bacinge malunga nesimo seentshe zabo, izihlunu zamabunzi abo, imilomo, iinkozo, abazikhathaleli ngokuzithandela xa bethetha ngethuba le ngxoxo, abazigxininisi kwisikhundla somzimba womntu, ukulawula okuncinci kwezwi lakhe kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zezinto. Kutheni? Ngenxa yezi zizathu ezilandelayo, ukuguqulwa okungagqithwanga ngamazwi, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuthathwa njengongezwa kwendalo ngokwezandi, nangona kungathethi nto ecacileyo, kodwa imfihlo. Ukuze ufunde ukufunda izikhala ezingezo izithethe ezithetha ngentsilelo kwidilesi yakho, okanye isimo sengqondo kwimicimbi ebalulekileyo, kufuneka ukhumbule impawu elandelayo oyithandayo ibhinqa.
Ukuhamba kwemimiselo yomlomo, kubonisa uvelwano kwinto yesifundo
Ubuso obuncinane bukhululekile, nangona umlomo uvulekile, amazinyo aphezulu ayabonakala. Udlala neepongi: uyazibuyisela, uzibambe, uthinte ulwimi lwakhe. Iminwe, ichukumisa ngokuchukumisa umlomo wakhe, ukuba ineminwe ende, ibathinta amazinyo akhe. Ezi zinto zibonakala ngathi zichaphazela ngengozi, nangona zinika into oyithandayo njengowesifazane kunye nomnqweno wokuba nomdla.
Khangela kwaye uhambise amehlo.
Ubona ummeli onomdla wobuthathaka obuthathaka, kunye nabafundi bakhe banwetshwa ngexesha elinye. Esi senzo sezinto eziphilayo - asikwazi ukulawulwa okanye ukudlalwa. Ukuxhaswa kweengqondo kubangela ukuba umfundi akwandise. Ezinye iingcali zengqondo zithi kwimeko ethile (xa kungekho mvelaphi yokwesaba, amava kunye nokuxhalaba), abafundi bawandisa kuphela xa bekhangelelana nomnxibelelwano omnandi, onovelwano. Izwi elithi "Amehlo - isibuko somphefumlo" sifanelana nale nqaku. Ngexesha le ncoko, kungekhona nje ukukhangela kwintombazana encinci, kodwa bonke ubuso bayo. Iimvumba ziphakama ngezikhathi ezithile, zenza ubuso bunzima kwaye banomdla kumagama omnxibelelwano. Isihloko sokuqhayisa ngamantombazana amancinci yi-cilia yabo, abangenakwazi, banokuthi baxakeke, bathetha nommeli omhle wesini, ukuze abafazi abancinci babonise ubuhle be-eyelashes kunye namaqabane abo. Kanti uvelwano oluvela kwintombazana lunikeza amehlo angonwabileyo. Oku kwenzeka xa ibhinqa kunye nommeli wesini oqinileyo kunokude kwaye banethuba lokuzivumela ukuba badibane kuphela ngoncedo lokujonga. Le ntokazi ibheka kwaye iguqulela ngokugqithiseleyo ingqwalasela yayo, iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphindwe, njengokungathi ukufihla, nangona kunjalo, ukubonakalisa uvelwano lwakhe kummeli wesini esomeleleyo.
Ukudibanisa neenwele.
Yaye isondo esilungileyo siyaziqhayisa ngeenwele zabo, ngenxa yale nto bahlala bebathintela ngexesha loqhagamshelwano kunye nesondo esomeleleyo, bengabathethi ngokuthetha kwabo ngovelwano lwabo. Uqhagamshelwano neenwele lubukeka nje njengesenzo sengozi. Inenekazi inamandla okuwagxotha emagxeni akhe, ukuwaqondisa, ugijime iminwe yakhe kwizinwele zakhe ...
Unyango olungabonakaliyo ngoncedo lwentsika kunye nokunyakaza komzimba.
Into yokuqala enika kummeli wesini obuthakathaka ngumnqweno wakhe wokutsala ummeli wesini esomeleleyo - ukunyanzeliswa kwesisu kunye nemisipha enzima emva. Kwimeko yomculo edlala egumbini, le ntokazi inqabile ngokukhawuleza, ibonisa ukunyaniseka komzimba wakhe. Imilenze yakhe ivulekile, kwaye xa uwela, umlenze ophezulu ukhona ukuze ubonise umlenze. Ngethuba le ncoko, imilenze ixubana omnye nomnye okanye ngomlenze wetafile, usihlalo. Ukutshatyalaliswa yile iqabane, le ntombazana ikhuphe ngokungazi kakuhle i-posture, isenzo, isimo somzimba. Xa ubona ukuba iqabane elithile kwimizimba ethile kunye ne-pantomime ikuxelisa, yazi ukuba inxalenye yalobu bungqina bobunkokheli bakho.
Ukuhambelana kwezandla kuthathwa njengento ebalulekileyo. Xa ibhinqa ngethuba le ncoko, ukutshintshisa, kuphendulela izandla kuye, qinisekisa ukuba umbiza ngokuthi uyamthemba. Mayelana nokuvuleka kunye novelwano kwesi sikhundla sezandla sithetha: umlenze uhlala entendeni, nasentendeni, isandla esifanayo siphendukele phezulu. Ukubetha isandla sakho, isondo esilungileyo sinika umchasi umlutha.
Ukubonakalisa ukuchukumisa amaqhosha ebuso ngezandla zakho, ukubetha izihlathi zakho nemilomo. Isimboli sengqondo sokungabonisi ngomlomo kwidilesi yomnxibelelwano kuthathwa njengengxaki yommeli obuthathaka kwezambatho zabo, izinto eziseduze, iinxalenye ezincinci zokuzihombisa.
Kwaye, ke, ilizwi lelo mbazana lidlala indima ebalulekileyo.
Kuzo uzama ukuthobela ingqalelo, ukuthabatha, ukukhunjulwa. Ngaba amagama angundoqo kuwo onke? Ewe! Nangona ulwazi olungengomlomo luphawuleka kakhulu. Ukugxininisa kuwe, ummeli wesini esibuthakathaka uya kuthetha kwimiqulu efanayo nawe. Xa izitatimenti zakho zilula kwaye zithule - uya kunika impendulo efanayo, akayi kuzama ukuphulaphula ukuvumelanisa, kwaye xa uthetha ngokukhawuleza - uya kuthetha kwakhona ngeetoni ezongeziweyo. Ngokukhawuleza kwentetho kwenzeka ngendlela efanayo. Kwaye abafazi bayaqonda ukuba abemi beplanethi yethu bahlanganiswe ukuhleka kunye nokubonga kuye bazama ukuqhagamshelana nommeli onamandla onamandla.