Njani ebomini ukufumana uvuyo?

Mhlawumbi uqaphele ukuba xa unesimo esihle, yonke into iyajika ibe lula kwaye kulula, yonke into iyahamba kakuhle. Yaye xa iimeko zitshintsha, kubonakala ngathi ihlabathi lonke lichasene nawe kwaye kufuneka uzisole ngeminyaka edlulayo. Kodwa nawuphi na umntu emhlabeni ufuna ukuvuya kwaye akafuni ukuva ubunzima. Yonwabile, kuba izitshixo zentlalo zisesandleni sethu. Xa uziva ulungile, uyamomotheka, kodwa makhe sisebenzise lo mgaqo kuyo yonke into, siya kumncuma xa kulungile, kwaye xa kukubi. Emva koko umzimba wakho uya kulungelelanisa kwaye uyenze le myalelo, uya kugcina ikhosi ukuze ube nomoya omhle. Masisebenzise lo mgaqo kuyo yonke into. Njani ebomini ukufumana uvuyo?

Xa uvuka ekuseni, thuzela. Ngelo xesha, yithetha namhlanje into enhle iya kwenzeka. Emva koko uye kwisibuko uze uncumo kwakhona, nangona ukubonakalisa kwisibuko kukuphikisana nomgangatho wokuhle, usho ukuba uyona mhle kakhulu. Kulula ukuba udandatheke kwaye uthuthuke kunokufumana uvuyo. Kodwa ukhetho olwenzela uvuyo luya kukuvumela ukuba uthi yonke iminithi kwixesha elidlulileyo lalihlala lilize. Smile xa ucinga. Siyakuvuyela ngosuku olutsha kwaye uzitsho ukuba uza kuyisebenzisa ngenzuzo.

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Qinisekisa ukuba awucaphukisi mntu. Ukukwazi kwakhe ukuqinisa inkxaso yokufunda ama-humorists anamhlanje kunye nezinye iiklasi. Jonga amafilimu amahle kunye nama-comedies.

Zama ukuhlala namhlanje, ujabulele yonke iminithi, kunye neengxaki zehlabathi, xa ukuphela kwehlabathi kuya kuba, nokuba ngaba kuya kuthi kubekho omnye ongagqibekanga, nokuba ngaba kuya kubakho ixesha elide amanzi asemanzini emhlabeni wonke, ukushiya kwabanye.

Ukukhanyisa inkqubo yemihla ngemihla kunye nokuqhelekileyo ngokuvakashela iziganeko ezithakazelisayo, ukuzonwabisa okuthakazelisayo, ukunyuka, ukuhamba.

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Khangela injabulo kwimihla ngemihla, ungalibali ixesha elizayo. Ubomi bomntu bukhoyo okwangoku, kuba idlulileyo sele idlulile, kwaye ikusasa alifi. Kwimizuzu yonke yobomi, zivale kuyo. Xa usela indebe yekhofi, cima iingcamango zakho kwaye uzive uxolo kunye noxolo ngaphakathi, ujabulele iphunga elifudumeleyo, nokuba kukho ingxolo ejikelezayo. Kwaye emva kokuthula kwangaphakathi uvakalelo lwenenelo nolonwabo luya kuthululwa. Nangona abantu bakufumanisa ukuba bahlaziye, bhakraza phakathi kwesihlwele esibuhlungu. Ngale ndlela uza kubonakalisa uqobo lwakho.

Ukuba ufuna ukuvuka ngendlela efanelekileyo, khumbuze kwakhona ngokuhlwa. Fumana isimo sengqondo ngendlela efanelekileyo, njengewashi ye-alamu. Zama amaxesha amaninzi, ngoko umkhwa uphuhliswa. Yintoni engcono ngakumbi kunomkhwa wenkohliso?