Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba intombi iphinda ihlahlo lomama. Ewe, ukuba uphumelele. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo? Ziziphi iintlobo phakathi kweentombi ezidala kunye noomama, olwalamano oluhle kangaka? Yaye yintoni imfazwe yabo engunaphakade?
I-Roller coaster
Ininzi idla ilifa ngendlela yokuziphatha komama ngokumalunga noyise. Ukuba igunya likapapapa liphezulu ngokwaneleyo, intombazana, ekubeni ngumdala, iya kukhangela umntu onokuhlonishwa. Akasongeli ukuba athande notywala, umlutha weziyobisi okanye umdlali. Kuye, abayindoda, ababuthathaka,
izidalwa ezingabalulekanga. Intombazana iya kufuna umntu ofanelekileyo.
Kodwa ukuba wakhulelwa kwintsapho apho uyise wayethanda i-vodka kuwo wonke uvuyo lobomi, kwaye umama wayehlushwa yilo, ngoko mhlawumbi naye uza kutshata nomntu onengxaki efanayo notywala. Intombazana yafunda kusuka ebuntwaneni: ukuthetha kakuhle kuthetha ukuhlupheka njengomama. Abantu abancinci abaqhelekileyo baya kubonakala bethandeka, abayi kunika i-adrenaline enjalo, njengoko upapa, owathi "oboshwe" ngotywala, wabuya wahlamba kwakhona.
"Umonakalo" womama
Indlela yesibini yokuhambisa i-destiny yakho kwintombi yakho ukuyiqhuba, ihlala iphakamisa ukuba uya kuba nobomi obufanayo. Kuhle ukuba umama uzama ukudlulisela iimpawu zakhe ezintle kuye. Masithi: "Konke kum! Kuze ifikelele kwindawo leyo, ayiyi kukhawuleza! "Intombazana ifunda ukuba ukuze ibe yinto enhle, umntu kufuneka afunde ngokucophelele le ngxaki.
Kodwa sivame ukugxininisa ukusilela kwethu ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokuphumelela. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba oomama bazalise iintombi zabo ngokungazi kakuhle - bexoxa ngeengxaki zabo kunye nabahlobo: "Uya kuba novuyo nje ngokuba mna." Okubizwa ngokuba "ukuhlaselwa" kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla kukungeniswa kwezixhobo ezibhubhisayo kwi-subconscious yomntwana.
Intombazana ikhangele uyise
Utata intombazana yindoda yokuqala eyakhayo ubudlelwane beengqondo. Kwaye ukuba ngenxa yezizathu ezithile baqhekeza: uyise wasweleka kusasa, washiya intsapho okanye wayesebenzela kuphela - unako konke ubomi bakhe befuna umntu oya kufana naye. Intombazana ibalulekile ukuzalisa ubudlelwane naye: ukwenza uthando, zibophezele. Amadoda ayedla ngokubonakala ngathi nguyisezala. Ewe, ukuba umyeni ufana noyise, ke intlekele yentombi endala iya kufana neyomama.
Umdlalo wothando
Mhlawumbi imeko ephawulekayo yokuphindaphinda kwexesha lokubeleka linxulumene nothando olungenammangaliso lwenkosazana kumama. Masithi intombazana iyamthanda unina - isosayensi, umdlali weqhawe okanye ngumfazi oqinileyo. Banobuhlobo obuhle. Ukuze simfanele, kufuneka sifezekise ngaphezu kwakhe. Ewe, ukuba ibali lobomi bomama lihle. Makhe intombazana ingabi ngugqirha wezesayensi, njengomama, kodwa iya kuba nenjongo ebomini bayo bonke, ukuba ngubani omele alwele.
Kodwa ukuba intombazana imthanda unina kakhulu, kwaye engonwabanga, ngoko uya kwenza konke ukunyaniseka. Oku kudla ngokucacileyo ukufa kwangaphambili kwabafazi, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana, ukugula okubi, ubunzima. Masithi umama owabeletha intombazana engenabo utata uhlala echaza ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuba akhule. Intombi iyaqonda ukuba le feat ayiyi kuhlawulwa nayiphi na into. Kuphela ukuba uyayiphinda. Kananjalo uba ngumama ongatshatanga, kwaye ubulungisa buyaphumelela. Ngoko kukho iindibano ezipheleleyo zamabhinqa angatshatanga nabantwana.
Utitshala oqinileyo
Nangona kunjalo, ukuphindaphinda kwexesha lokubeleka akuyona indlela ebulalayo. Uninzi lweentombi ezindala kunye noomama bakhela ubudlelwane babo ngokwezicwangciso zabo. Nawuphi na umntu unokukhumbula iziganeko ezivela kwiintsapho ezingasebenziyo eziphuma kubantu abafanelekileyo. Kwaye ngokuthe ngqo. Kule meko, abantwana baphuhliswa ngokubhekiselele kwimeko: bebaxolela oomama bazinikela isifungo sokwakha ubomi babo ngokwahlukileyo. Kwaye baphumelela.
Kodwa ukuba intombi ihlambalaza oomama abanobugwenxa okanye abangenalusizo, ngokobomi ubomi buyanciphisa aba bafana abancinci. Kwaye baphinda baphinde baphinde bahlaselwe ngumama wabo. Ukucacisa ukuba kutheni oku kwenzekayo kunzima. Omnye unokugcina kuphela oku ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye enze isigqibo sokuba akukho mntu kufuneka agwetyelwe kwaye akafanele alahle nayiphi na into ...
Yintoni endiyenzayo?
Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba uphinda umbele wakho womama kwaye awuyithandi, kufuneka uqhube nomsebenzi wengqondo. Okokuqala, simele simxolele umama ngendlela awazidala ngayo. Wonke umntu unelungelo lokulahla i-destiny yakhe ngale ndlela. njengoko ebona kufanelekile.
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