Ummeli ngemfundo, umbonisi wezevolontiya ngokuzimela kunye nomfazi weshishini ngokwempawu zomsebenzi oyintloko, uTatyana Vedeneeva waphumelela kwiGITIS, wabonakala kwiifilimu ezininzi, waza wenza umsebenzi kwi-TV yeSoviet, kwaye emva kwexeshana wagqiba ekubeni aqale i-tkemali sauces. Nangona kunjalo, i-fate yalela ukuba iTatiana iphinde ibuyele kwiskrini - kwisiteshini seTV "Ikhaya" wayefuna ukwenza inkqubo "Usuku lukaTatyana noTatiana Vedeneeva." Mhlawumbi, ii-initials ze-TV, ezinokuthi zibonwe ngokuthi "umabonwakude", iinkwenkwezi zamnika isisusa esiphezulu. U-Tatyana Vedeneeva ohamba phambili, uqobo lwakhe kunye nobomi bakhe bodwa sele bebanomdla kubaphulaphuli. Ngako oko, ekubeni le nto isaziwayo, sinika ulwazi olunomdla kuyo ukusuka kumlomo wokuqala.
Ukuchazwa ngokuzenzekelayo: ubomi bufana neenganekwane.
Inkcazo yinto yokuba yonke into eyenziwa ngengozi yomjiki wemilingo. Okanye xa uCinderella ngokukhawuleza eba yinduna. Kwaye umama wandifundise yonke into ebuntwaneni bakhe: Ndiyazi ukupheka i-borsch, isinyithi, ukuthunga. Nangona kunjalo, andiyazi indlela yokudibanisa, njengomama, kwaye andingenaziingcali endlwini. Ubomi bam buyitshintshile amaninzi, kodwa akuzange kube njalo ukuba ndenzanga nto kwaye ndaphila, njengengxelo yamagama. Kwakuhlala kunomsebenzi omningi kunye nento yokufezekisa, mhlawumbi ingqungquthela yayiza kuqala ukuhlukana. Kubonakala kwenyama okanye ngokomoya, kubaluleke ngakumbi. Kodwa ezininzi ngezizathu ezithile zivakalelwa kukuba ndinezindlu kuwo onke amazwe, kwaye ndenza oko kuphela ngeempelaveki ndidla eParis.
Amahemuhemu ngokuphila kwamanye amazwe.
Andizange ndifune ukuhamba kweli lizwe, ndandifuna ukuhlala eMoscow. Nangona ithuba lokushiya liye. Ndiza kutshata nomfokazi, nangenxa yothando. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, kuye! Kodwa njengoko ndandicinga, ndiza kushiya yonke into ibe kwelinye ilizwe ... ndiza kutshata ndihlale eYiputa. Okwesibini - eTokyo. Kwaye okwesithathu - eLondon. Kodwa wayengafuni. Ngoku andinako ukuya naphi na, kuba ndinayo i-aether evekini ngeveki, ngaphandle kwebala ngqo! Ndisebenza emsebenzini lonke ixesha. Kwaye ngeveki ndidibana nabathengisi.
Umsebenzi weTV: buyela kwishishini lakho ozithandayo.
Qala ukwenza umsebenzi ebusheni, kwaye ndenze. Ndafika kwinqanaba elingentla apha ngasekuqaleni kweminyaka engama-90 kwakungenakwenzeka ukugxuma. Ukusebenzisa zonke iinkqubo - ukusuka kumculo, abantwana kunye nokuzonwabisa-ukuya kolwazi. Ndiyasebenza ngenxa yokuba ndinomdla.
Iyintoni imfihlelo yefom ephawulekayo: kubonga ukuhlala kusasazwa okanye kukho ukutya okumangalisayo?
Ndinezondlo endikuthobela kuyo yonke ebomini bam: andidli ukutya ezithile - iitatayi, i-mayonnaise kunye nebhotela. Kwaye kwimeko yamaSoviet, ndafunda inqaku elabhaliwe ngugqirha wesifazane. Yathi xa uthe wadla inyama, akuthethi ukuba isisu sakho siya kulukhupha ngosuku olulandelayo. Kungaba ngamathumbu ngeveki! Kwaye ngokubhekiselele kwiinkcukacha ezichazwe, ukuba kukho kunye nayo. Yaye ingcinga yam isebenza kakuhle! Ukususela ngoko nditya kuphela inkukhu, elula ngokulula. Ndivelisa i-tkemali sauce, equkethe izinto ze-pectin. I-molecule ye-pectin ayifuni ukuvelisa iinkqubo emzimbeni.
Ngolwazi oluncedo xesha lixesha lokubhala incwadi yokutya.
Okwangoku, enye indlu yokushicilela yandicela ukuba ndibhale incwadi yokupheka. Enyanisweni, bafuna ukuba ibe yindleko, mna, ngokuchasene noko, ukuba yinto enokuhlawulekayo, ngoko ke abaninzi baya kuba nako ukuwufumana. Yilapho ndiza kuxela ngamasiki am, kunye neengcinga zam ngokupheka. Ndingathini, kwimbono yam, ukuba ndidle ngokufanelekileyo, ukuze ningabi nantoni kwaye nibheke kakuhle. Emva koko, ukuba uthe wadla into engalunganga, ngokukhawuleza kubonakalisa ebusweni - kukho ukukhawuleza, iindawo ezibomvu ezimbi. Kwaye nangona usebenzisa i-cream nge-dollar ayikhulu, ayiyi kunceda.
Ndipheka ekhaya.
Ndipheka ekhaya, kodwa ndizama ukupheka yonke into elula kakhulu. Kule nto ndiqhelekile kunye nentsapho yam yonke. Ukuloba inyama okanye intlanzi, ixesha elingafunekayo. Ndiyazi, umzekelo, iresiphi eyaziwayo yaseFransi: iintlanzi zifakwe ngetyuwa. Intlanzi ayifuni ukuba ihlambuluke, kuphela ukususa i-insides. Ulala ngesidumbu ngetyuwa uze ufake efubeni i-25 imizuzu. Emva koko uyaphula le setyuwa uze uyisuse ngesikhumba - kuya kuba yinto enhle kakhulu, kuba intlanzi izaliswe ngumso wayo.
Ngaba iphupha lomyeni-iGeorgia kunye nabantwana abathandathu bazaliseka.
Ewe, indoda yazaliseka. Ewe, nguArmenian, kodwa wazalwa eGeorgia. Kodwa abantwana abathandathu - akuzange kwenzeke. Ndikunye unyana, uDmitry. Senza into enye, kodwa awukwazi ngokwenene ukuba ubomi bakho buya kuvela njani. Ngenye imini, ngo-1993, omnye umhlobo wandinika i-horoscope. Umqondiso wam we-Zodiac yiCarcer. Ngoko, kubhaliwe khona ukuba kulo nyaka, xa "umhlaza kwintonga yeentaba," iCancer iya kuqonda onke amaphupha abo. Kodwa kuphela abo baKhansela abakulungele oku. Yathi, mhlawumbi, indawo yokuhlala iya kutshintsha kwiRakov, kuya kuba nelinye indlu, mhlawumbi nakwezinye ilizwe kunye nokusebenza. Ndafunda ndacinga ukuba: "UThixo wam, uhlobo oluthile lokungabi nantloni!" Khawucinge, ngokucacileyo, ndingomnye walabo baKhasela ababekulungele ukutshintsha ubomi. Kuba ngokoqobo malunga neenyanga ezintathu ndashiya iTV, ndatshata waza ndahamba kwelinye ilizwe.
Umphathi uTatyana Vedeneeva ungumzekelo wonyana wakhe.
Uyazi, kukho ibinzana elinjalo: isizukulwana ngasinye sikholelwa ukuba siyinto enobulumko kuneyokudlulileyo, kodwa sisilumko kunesilandelayo. Bonke abantu abatsha bacinga ukuba banobulumko ngaphezu kwabazali babo. Ewe, unyana wam uDima uyaqonda ukuba ndinamava amaninzi. Kodwa ucinga nje ngokuba ngumntu wamanje kuqala. Kwaye uhlala esithi: "Ewe, mhlawumbi ndenza into engalunganga, kodwa ndifunda kwiimpazamo zam." Ngoko ufunda. Ngoku uDmitry uneminyaka engama-26 ubudala. Ngesinye isikhathi wayesebenza kwi-radio Force ye-Air Force eNgilani, ngoku eshukuthela eMoscow, esebenza kwinkampani yaseMelika ejongene neengxoxo kunye ne-PR. Ubhala, iguqulela, ijongene neeprojekthi ezinkulu.
Ndichasene nabantu abatshatileyo ngaphambi kokutshata. Ihlabathi litshintshile - imitshato yokuqala, njengomthetho, iphelela ekuhlulekeni. Umntu kufuneka abe neengqondo eziqhelekileyo. Andifuni ukuba atshate, aze ahlukanise nomfazi wakhe. Nangona banabantwana, oko kukuthi, abazukulu bam, kwaye kuya kundonwabisa, andisayi kufuna. Yintoni umntu angayinika umfazi kwiminyaka engama-23, ngaphandle kwesondo? Emva koko, ibhinqa yinto ehleliweyo yokunyamekela isidleke sakhe. Kwaye le ndoda okwangoku ikhona inomoya entloko.
Malunga nomtshato.
Andizange nditshatile ixesha elide. Nangona kunjalo, kwezinye izizathu. Ngomyeni wam wokuqala, sahlala ixesha elide emtshatweni womtshato, kodwa nangaloo mihla ehotele "abafazi" abazange bahlale kwelinye igumbi. Kwaye ngoku-nceda. Unothando, kakuhle, uhlala kunye. Abantwana kuphela abayidingi ukuqala de uqiniseke ukuba unesiseko, ukuba unako ukufumana abantwana kwaye uqeshe umntwana ukuba umfazi ufuna ukusebenza. Ukuba intombazana efundele ukuqala ukuhlala ekhaya, njengomthetho, iphelile kakubi. Kukho, ewe, abafazi abayichitha kumntu, kwintsapho, kwaye bayothuka xa indoda imxelela ngokukhawuleza ukuba iyincwadi yokufunda, kunye namacembe. Kutheni oku kuyimfuneko?
Ngaba kunzima ukwenza ishishini, ukuhlala ngumfazi?
Konke kuxhomekeke kwishishini. Kwabanye, kunzima, kuba kufuneka ube nesimo esiqinileyo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kwishishini kukuba sikwazi ukwenza izigqibo xa unesimo esibi. Kukho nawuphi na, kwibhizinisi lokuqala lihlala likhulu kakhulu. Kwaye kufuneka anikezwe ngokupheleleyo, engathembeli kwabanye, de kube yinto yonke iphakame kwiinyawo zakhe. Ndiyakholwa ukuba kufuneka wenze konke kakuhle, okanye ungenzi nto. Kuphela ke kuya kuphuma into.
Mhlawumbi icebiso lenkxaso yeTatiana Vedeneeva, umzekelo kunye nomzekelo wakhe wodwa uya kunceda amantombazana amantombazana ukuba akholelwe ngokwabo aze afumane into ebalulekileyo ebomini. Kwaye akufuneki ukuba ishishini okanye umsebenzi. Mhlawumbi, iya kuba yintsapho enobuhlobo obunomdla kunye nomntu othandekayo kunye nezingane. Njengoko bathetha, ngamnye unalo.