Indaba yothando kaFrank Sinatra noAva Gardner

UFrank Sinatra ngenye yeemvumi ezidumileyo zaseMelika. Xa wayehlabelela, wonke umfazi ehholo wacinga ukuba le ngoma ayinikezele kuye, ngelo xesha i-American enothando yaseNtaliyane yayifuna umfazi owayeza kuchitha ubusuku obubodwa.
UFrank, njengokuthanda kwakhe kuphela kwintlalo ebomini, uAva Gardner, ufezekisile konke. Watshata ngokokuqala ngqa kwiminyaka engama-23, kwaye nangenxa yokunyanzela unina, ngenxa yokuba wayefuna ukuba unyana wakhe omncinane ahlale phantsi aze ayeke ukukholisa ubomi obundlobongela nobukrakra, kodwa ke, umfazi okanye intombi yokuqala ayitshintshile ubomi bomntu omncinane nomthembisayo umculi. Emva kokuba ethandwayo, wayenoluhlu lwazo zobuhle bokuqala baseMelika, owamngenisa embhede kancane.

Ngelo xesha, umfazi wakhe wokuqala wayelindele, kwaye ngezinye iinkhathi wakhulelwa, ngenxa yomfazi wakhe wokuqala eSinatra wazalelwa abantwana abathathu. Ixesha lidlulileyo kwaye uSinatra wuleza wanquma ukuqhawula umfazi wakhe wokuqala, kuba ngowokuqala nangokugqibela ebomini bakhe wayemthanda kakhulu inkwenkwezi yaseAva Gardner.

Kwakuyiveli ebulalayo eyahlala iminyaka engama-6. Kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba u-Ava wathola ngaphezu kwendoda yakhe, wahola indlela yokuphila yasemhlabeni kwaye xa wayenethuba lokwenza umtshato omtsha, akazange aphuthe, ngakho yena noFrank bahlukana.

I-brunette yokuqala yaseHollywood, uAvu Gardner, yabona ekubonisweni kwefilimu, waza wathandana neendlebe. Ngalesi sikhathi, emva kwamagxa akhe kwakunemiqulu emininzi, udumo, imali, uAva wayenomdla wexesha elide, wayenakho konke. Wayengakaze acingwe njengomdlali obalaseleyo, kodwa wayelungileyo kwaye wakwazi ukudlala iindima zakhe kakuhle, kodwa kwakulungile, kungekho nto. Ngethuba lakhe lomsebenzi wayengenanto ephakamileyo kakhulu.

Wayengomnye wabasetyhini abangenakucingelwa njengomama wentsapho kunye nomfazi omhle. Kulo lonke ubomi bakhe, wayenemiveli emininzi (eyaziwayo - noWoward Hughes, owambuza nje iigugu zakhe kangangokuba wayekwazi ukuvula i-store yakhe yezinto zokugqoka ngokulula), imitshato emininzi, kodwa akazange abe ngumama. Mhlawumbi, kwakunzima u-Ava ngokwakhe, kuba wakhula kwintsapho enkulu yabalimi.

Kwiiveki ezimbalwa emva kokwazisa, baqala ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye. Kungekudala yonke iMelika yafunda ngeveli yabo. U-Ava kuwo wonke umntu waba ngu-razluchnitsu kunye ne-libertine, kwaye umfazi wokuqala weSinatra akazange afune ukunika umtshato (kuba wayecinga ukuba iinjongo ezithandekayo zomyeni wakhe azibi kwaye zihamba, uza kubuya kwintsapho). Le ncwadana yonakalise i-Gardner neSinatra, bonke bafuna ukuba bahlule. Emva kwenyanga yokukholisa, umfazi kaSinatra wasayina amaxwebhu okuqhawula umtshato, kwaye uluntu luyafana neempembelelo zokuqhuma kwebhombisi, kuba ngaphambi kokuba, uFrank wayebhekwa njengomzekelo wentsapho.

UFrank waxoshwa emsebenzini wakhe, oko kwakuthetha ukuba akuyi kuphinda kubekho iingoma kunye namafilimu ngokuthatha inxaxheba. Kungekudala wathenga indandatho ngedayimani enkulu, okwenyaniso, ngemali yothando lwakhe lwesikhathi esizayo, ekubeni wayengenalo eyakhe. Kungekudala wamenza isibonelelo sikawonkewonke waza wavuma. UAva utshele abaphephandaba ngemicimbi yakhe yomtshato, ukuba abazalwana bakhetha i-blondes, baze batshate ama-brunettes. Ngendlela, yayingumtshato wakhe wesithathu.

Batshatile, ubomi buhamba njengesiqhelo: iindawo zokutya, ukudansa, kumnandi, kodwa kamva kwisikripthi apho uAva esebenze ngaphambi kokuba ashade neSinatra, waqonda ukuba ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiifilimi kusoloko kuthetha impumelelo ye-100% kwifilimu. ezininzi iifilimu. UAva, onke amaxesha awachitha kunye noFrank, wazama ukulawula yonke into, kwaye wayiphenduka, xa into engazange iphumelele kuye, yaqalisa intlonelo encinci, naye wayethandana naye ngqo kwii-galls. Iimali zakhe zakhula, kodwa uSinat akazange akwazi ukukhuphisana no-Elvis Presley kunye namaBeatles, wayengenakuphikiswa.

Abaphulaphuli bebalandeli baseSinatra behla, amantombazana athande ezinye iifoto. Kungekudala walahlekelwa ngumlomo wakhe wemilingo. UFrank wahamba ngokugqithiseleyo, kwaye uAva, ngokuchaseneyo, wathola ukuthandwa, waza wanikwa umdlalo wokudlala, kodwa ukudubula kwakufuneka kwenzeke e-Afrika, uSinatra akafuni ukuvumela umfazi wakhe onothando ukuba aye kude kakhulu, kodwa u-Ava wahamba ngokukrakra ukudubula.

UFrank ngeli xesha usela, yonke imihla wayibiza umfazi wakhe, wavuma uthando lwakhe, kunye nemizuzu embalwa abizwayo. ISinatra yaqesha umcebisi ukuba abike kubo bonke abaphathi be-Ava, kwaye emva kokufowunelwa wathi wayekhatywe ngumtshato onjalo waza waya kwiphatha kwintliziyo eSpeyin ngaphandle komyeni wakhe.

Ukuphindezela kwakhe kwaqala ukuguqula iincwadi zentshakazi yaseHollywood, waphilisa ilizwi waza waqalisa ukucula kwakhona. E-Spain I-Ava yayithandana nenkunzi yenkomo, kwaye xa uSinat wambiza ukuba aziqhayise ngokurekhoda i-albhamu entsha, wamxelela ukuba unalo uthando olutsha, kwaye uyayiphonsa.

UFrank ubonisa inkontileka enenzuzo kakhulu, ufumana uthando olutsha kwaye uye kwifilimu eSpeyin ngencwadi entsha esele isithandweni sakhe esitsha. Ngeli xesha, u-Ava wadimazeka ngamehlo aseSpain kwaye xa efumanisa umyeni wakhe omtsha, wayexinezelekile, kuba wavuma ukubuyela kumyeni wakhe, kuba ngokusemthethweni abazange baqhawule.

Nangona kunjalo, wayengowokuqala ukufaka isicelo sokuqhawula umtshato, ekubeni uSinat ucele le nto kwaye kungekudala watshata nomdlali weqhawe owayengumncinci kuye iminyaka emininzi. Ngaphambi komtshato uSinat wabiza uGardner waza wamkela ukuba wayekhona kwaye uhlala ethandana lwakhe kuphela, nangona baqhawule umtshato.

Ku-80's Ava wagula, kwaye uSinatra wanikela ngamanyathelo angamawaka iziza kunyango, kodwa ke, ngo-1990, u-Ava wafa, uSinatra waya kumngcwabo wakhe, wasinda iminyaka eyi-8.