Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezivela kule meko.
Indlela yokuqala.
Mhlawumbi ukuziphatha okusemgangathweni kakhulu kuya kuba oku kulandelayo. Ungayigodli umyeni wakho, ungamxhasi ngesihloko sokufumana umsebenzi omtsha, ushiye yonke into. Yonke imvuzo oyifumanayo ukuchitha kuphela kwizona zinto ziyimfuneko: wena, umntwana, iimpahla, ihambo kunye neekhemikhali zendlu, ukuhlawula izibonelelo.
Tshela umyeni wakho ukuba unqumle umvuzo emsebenzini, kwaye iimveliso ezitolo ziba kubi kakhulu. Kungekudala okanye "umyeni" wakho kunye "nentloko yentsapho" uya kuvuka kumntu wakho kwaye uya kufumana umsebenzi. Ingqiqo yemfanelo iya kumshukumisela kwisenzo. Ukuba oku kungenzeki, ke unayo "indoda enobuqili" oye, ngelishwa, awukwazi ukuyilungisa. Unokumncedisa ukuba asebenze kwinkampani kubahlobo, izalamane.
Kule meko, akufanele uthuthuke, kuba, unokuzibonela wena kunye nomntwana wakho, kwaye kumyeni kulo mzekelo akukho nto ingayi kuba nayo.
Indlela yesibini.
Cinga ngokuphindaphinda indima. Ukuba uhlakulela umsebenzi kumsebenzi, ukuba ungumkhokeli ngokwemvelo nakwiofisi, phakathi "neengcinga kunye neengcinga" uziva "njengeentlanzi emanzini," mhlawumbi kufuneka uthathe indima yomfazi wendlu - indoda? Kwaye uhlala ungumthombo oyintloko wemali engenayo kwintsapho?
Kubaluleke ukuba le meko ihambelane nomyeni wakho. Hayi wonke umntu uyavuma ukuhlala ekhaya, aphakamise umntwana aze apheke ukudla. Ukuba ubona intshiseko emehlweni kwesiqingatha sakho, ngoko uhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo!
Olu khetho luza kusombulula ngokukhawuleza ingxaki. Ukuba usalindela ukuhlala ekhaya kwaye ukhathala ngumsebenzi wakho ohlawula phezulu, ungadlala "encinane" nomyeni wakho. Cela isidlo sakusihlwa emva komsebenzi, ukuze indlu ihlambuluke, ukuba izinto zihlanjwe, izifundo zomntwana zenziwa, zihlambulukileyo. Kungenzeka ukuba indima "yamabhinqa" ayiyi kukukholisa umyeni wayo kwaye uya kufumana umsebenzi aze abuyele kuye indima "yentloko yentsapho".
Indlela yesithathu.
Ukuba yonke imizamo yokufumana umsebenzi ngumyeni wayo ayiphumelelanga, kwaye wayenqwenela ukufumana umsebenzi oqhelekileyo, onomdla kunye ohloniphekileyo, kumnceda! Buza malunga nabahlobo, abahlobo, izalamane, mhlawumbi bafuna abasebenzi kwiinkampani zabo.
Akunjalo ukuba iposi iya kuba yinto enomdla kumyeni wakho, kodwa ekuqaleni ungavuma kunye nomsebenzi olula. Ngokuthe ngcembe, indoda iya "idityaniswa" kwi-regime yokusebenza kwaye ifumane isisombululo kwingxaki. Okanye uya kuhlala kule nkampani enethemba lokukhula komsebenzi kunye nomvuzo ophezulu.
Indlela yesine.
Ukuba zonke iinkolelo zakho, iinzame zokunceda azifumani impendulo ekuziphatheni komyeni wakhe, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenzise iindlela ezininzi. Mnike i-ultimatum: mhlawumbi ufumana umsebenzi, okanye uyamtshela. Awuyena ipaka yepakethi, ukuba uqhube wena kunye nomntwana kunye nomntu omdala.
Nangona umyeni ehlala engabonakaliyo kwaye engenzi lutho, ke uqoke izinto uze uhambe (okanye umthabathe ngaphandle). Wena ungumfazi wanamhlanje ophumelelayo onomsebenzi, umvuzo ongenayo kwaye uya kwenza kakuhle ngaphandle komyeni "onobuhle". Musa ukuqhawula umtshato, nje nje "nisongele" indoda. Mhlawumbi oku kuya kuba ngumtshukumisa ukuba athole umsebenzi.
Kungakhathaliseki indlela okhethayo, ebaluleke kakhulu, khumbula ukuba umyeni wakho ngumdala kwaye uyakwazi ukuzibonelela. Naluphi na uxinzelelo lweentsapho kunye neengxabano ezinokufumana, ukuba ngomonde nangokuqonda kubhekisela kwisiqingatha sesibini.