Amadoda amaninzi ayithandi ukuthetha kakhulu, bahlala becinga ngento ethile. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ezininzi iingcamango zabo ziya kuhlala ziyimfihlelo, kodwa zikhona iimfihlakalo ezimbalwa abazitshilo madoda.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, oko kuya kuxutyushwa akusebenzi kubo bonke abantu, kodwa olu pho nonongo luqhutywe phakathi kwamadoda athile abameli beendlela ezahlukeneyo zoluntu kunye nomgangatho wokuphila.
- Indoda ayisoze yamkela ukuba wayilungile, kwaye esinye isiqingatha sikhe. Le mfihlelo, kuba bonke abantu bahamba ngeenkokheli zabo zendalo kwaye baqaphele ukuba bahluke.
- Akalokothi avume ukuba unesiva sovelwano okanye into engakumbi kwiintombi zakhe zangaphambili okanye umfazi. Oku kuyinto engokwemvelo, kuba ngubani ofuna iimpawu zesikhwele kunye nomfazi othandekayo. Ngako oko, uya kucingisisa ngethuba elithile ngethuba elithile, kodwa ngokukhawuleza amantombazana angaphambili ayalibala kwaye ayabalulekanga.
- Kukho phambi kwakho indoda ayifumkeli ubulili beentombi yakho.
- Indoda eqhelekileyo ayifuni isithandwa sayo ukuba ikhwebe imilenze, ngokukhawuleza ingathuli malunga nokucoceka kwakho. Kodwa kwakukho ukungafani kwaye ezininzi zaze zaphulwa ngenxa yeengcebiso kunye neziphakamiso.
- Indoda ayiqapheli ukuba intombi yakho imnandi kwaye mhlawumbi ingcono kunawe.
- Umzuzu onzima xa ubelana nothando oluthandayo kunye nokukhalaza ngabantu, ubomi, isimo sezulu, nokuba yintoni, indoda ayiyi kubonisa ukuba ayikhathalele ngokukhenkceza, kwaye ubuso bakhe abuyi kubonakalisa ukuba okwamanje ingoma yakhe ayithandayo idlala entloko yakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha amabhinqa asebenzisa amadoda njengendlebe zamahhala, kodwa akukho mntu othanda ukuthetha. Yonke into ifanele ibe ngokumodareyitha kwaye uzame ukuqhuba intetho, kungekhona i-monologue.
- Indoda ayibonakali indlela engayithandi inja yakho kwaye ukuba nayiphi na ithuba elifanelekileyo unqotshwa ngumnqweno wokumbulala. Ukuba uhlala udumisa isilwanyana sakho - umntu uyacaphukisa kwaye uzimisele ngokumbulala. Zama ukunika ixesha elingaphantsi kwezilwanyana, kunye nokunye okuthandayo.
- Indoda eyaneleyo ayiyi kukuxelela ngesisindo esingaphezu kwesisindo okanye i-pop pop, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuthula ethule aze anikele ukuqhuba ekuseni okanye ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca kunye. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukutyelela isikhungo sempilo, ungabona imibhangqwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, lo ngumzekelo wokuba enye yezithandani ifuna ukunciphisa umzimba.
- Kwakhona, indoda ayisoze ikuxelele: "kutheni unqabile ukuba undenzele," yinto indima yowesifazane ukuba afune ukunakwa. Zama ukubiza okanye ukuthumela umyalezo wakho umhlobo wakho rhoqo.
- Abameli bobulili obuqinileyo banqabile ukuba babonise umona kubathandekayo babo kwaye ngoko umona wobukhwele uqhubeka.
- Umfana ongeke akubonise ukuba akanalo imali eyaneleyo yokutya, mhlawumbi, emva kokutya, uya kuba "ukuhamba ngomtshato" kuba ayinayo imali eyaneleyo iteksi.
- Indoda ayizange ivume kuwe ukuba ayikwazi ukumelana nomsindo, ngokuqhelekileyo iyona nto iyinyani, intanda ethandekayo ayithandi uninazala, ngakumbi uya kuba nomdla ebomini bakhe aze azame ukumnceda ngazo zonke iindlela.
- Ukuba umthandi wakho uthetha ukuba uyakuthanda kwaye uyakuxabisa, ukuba ungowomntu obaluleke kakhulu emhlabeni, unokukuthanda kakhulu kwaye ukulungele konke ukwenza ukuba uyintanda yakhe, kodwa kwakhona, amadoda ayedla ngokukhawuleza athi, bonisa uthando ngezenzo.
- Ukongezelela, amadoda ayidla ngokukhawuleza ukuba afuna uncedo. Landela ukulungiswa komntu othandekayo, mhlawumbi, ngamanye amaxesha kulungele ukunika uncedo.
- Nangona kunjalo, indoda ayiboni ukuba ilawulwa ngokupheleleyo yintanda yakhe. Uyakukubonisa ngokuziphatha kunye nezenzo zakhe.
Ungalokothi ulibale! Amadoda isithembu, kwaye abafazi bodwa! Ngoko ke, qaphela amadoda akho.