Iphutha kumsebenzi womfazi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abatshatileyo banamahloni ukuxelela abahlobo okanye oogxa malunga nabo ukuba isebenza nini kwisiqingatha sabo sesibini. Ukuba umyeni uhlala kwindawo ehamba phambili, kwakungenakukhusela ukuba abe nomthengisi womfazi. Kancinci, indoda iqala ukuhlakulela kunye nokucaphuka komfazi wayo - "ulahlekile". Kwaye abafazi bayahlupheka. Ngaba buhlungu ukuba kweli lizwe lethu kubafazi abaninzi kangaka bazibeka "ngasemva", banika inxaxheba yokuqala kumyeni wakhe. Ngaba buhlungu abafazi baseRussia abangazange bafunde ukuzithandayo. Kwaye bayayinyamezela le mpawu yabantu.
Ukuba imeko enjalo ivele kwintsapho yakho, akukho mzekelo eyenza "ukukhahlela" phantsi komyeni wakhe ngakumbi. Oku akuyi kunceda! Kunoko, ngokuchasene noko, kuya kuvelisa umntu oza kutshatyalaliswa ngokukhawuleza nangakumbi.
Ngale ndlela, umyeni ubonisa ukuba imeko yangoku ayihambelani. Nguye kuphela ongenakukwazi ukuba uyazihlazo ngumsebenzi wakhe womfazi okanye "akayiyo" i-blonde kunye nesihlanu sesifuba, njengoIvan Ivanovich evela kwinkampani encedisayo. "
Ngaphinda ndifuna ukugxininisa ukuba xa uqala ngakumbi "nceda ujonge intanda yakho", yile yindlela echanekileyo yokuqhawula umtshato. Makhe sibone ukuba kutheni.
Okokuqala, kufuneka uqonde ukuba xa umntu esitshintshile isimo sakhe, imeko yendalo iyatshintshwa. Ngoku kufuneka ahambisane nemithetho emitsha kwinkampani. Ukuba awukwazi ukutshintsha kwaye "ulungelelanise" kule meko, ngoko ke, mhlawumbi, umyeni wakho uza kuzifumana "ngumfazi ngesimo." Kwaye kuya kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza. "Abazingeli belizwe" ngexesha lethu kakhulu.
Ukuziphatha kwakho "ukuguqa" kuya kukhawulezisa inkqubo yokufumana umfazi omtsha. Enyanisweni, sele sele ekubonayo njengomkhonzi. Ukuba uziva ukuba unyuke kule mihlathi, lixesha lokuphuma kuwo. Awuyena umkhonzi, kodwa umfazi!
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo.
Ukuqala, kufuneka uqonde kwaye uqaphele ukuba ngoku umyeni wakho ubaluleke kakhulu kwaye unomntu onzulu. Kwaye wena, njengomfazi, kufuneka uhambisane nalo. Ngoko ke, lixesha lokutshintsha kwaye libe "yimoya yowesifazane" efanayo kumyeni wakho ukuze angenayo, akafuni ukukhangela entsha.
Khumbula ukuba awukho umkhonzi, ilungu elilinganayo lentsapho. Ngaphezu koko, nguwe ukumkanikazi wokumkani wakho. Musa ukuya kwi-tiptoe kwaye ungathi "ewe, othandekayo, olungileyo, othandekayo." Vumela indoda ikuphathe njengangaphambili. Emva kwakho konke, nguwe owayenaye kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu.
Jonga ngokwakho kwisibuko, jonga ekhaya lakho elihle, kubantwana abathandekayo. Umfazi ombi angayilungisa njani le nto? Ubaluleke kakhulu kumyeni wakho! Zithande kwakhona!
Ukulungele ukuphakamisa ukuzithemba kukuhamba, ukuxoxa neentombi, ukudlala imidlalo kunye nabantwana kunye nayo yonke into eyenza ujabule. Yisebenzise yonke imini kunye nawe, kuphela ukwenza izinto ezimnandi.
Tshintsha ukubonakala kwakho, utshintshe ikhabethe. Ekubeni ngoku ungumfazi womntu onempumelelo, kufuneka ukhangele ngathi unjalo. Ngaphandle koko, yintoni enokuba yinto enqabileyo ngaphezu komhla wonke ochithelwa kwi-salon ehle, xa abaphathi abaningana bexhamla? Okanye uthengisa kwiindawo ezininzi ezitolo? Ndiqinisekile ukuba umyeni wam uya kuvuyela ukunika imali enkulu "yakho yokuzalwa kwakhona".
Unokuzibandakanya kumsebenzi omkhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umsebenzi osebenzayo womfazi, uya kuphakamisa ukuzithemba kwaye enze indoda yakhe ihloniphe umsebenzi wakhe. Ngaba ngaba abantwana baya kushiya ekunyamekeleni kwamannies abahluphekayo kule meko?
Ungavumeli umyeni wakho akucaphukise! Ungamcaphukisi. Musa ukuphikisana kwaye ungafumani ubuhlobo, ngobushushu bomsindo ungatshelana izinto ezininzi ezingcolileyo.
Ukuphakanyiswa kwendoda yakho kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa kuya kufuneka usebenze nzima kuwe nangaphezu kobudlelwane bakho ukuba ufuna ukugcina intsapho kwaye uphile ubomi bakho bonke