Kuyaziwa ukuba ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo ophuhliso, abantwana banamathoyizi ahlukeneyo. Kwiinyanga eziliqela umntwana angakwazi ukuqokelela iipuzzle, aze aguqule ngokukhawuleza kwiitys ezithambileyo. Iintsuku ezimbalwa ziya kudlula kwaye uya kukhunjulwa ngomqambi wakhe othandekayo, oye waqokelela uthuli phantsi kombhede.
Amathoyizi kwiintsana ezininzi anokuthelekiswa neencwadi. Bathanda kakhulu ukufunda iincwadi kunye nonina kunye nokujonga imifanekiso kubo. Akukho nto inomdla ekubonayo, equka iindlela ezininzi zokusebenzisana. Umntwana unokuzidweba, unina unako ukuthabatha naye imam inokukrazula enye. Le mi sebenzi iphakamisa inzala kwaye incedo ekuphuhliseni umntwana. Ukongezelela, xa abantwana befunda iincwadi, bahlakulela ukucinga kwabo kwaye bafunde ukuthetha ngomlomo.
Abanye abantwana banokudlala kunye naluphi na amathoyizi, abanye bakhethe omnye umphefumlo. Abantwana abanjalo banomdla kwiimidlalo ezimbalwa kunye nokushiya umsebenzi wabo, kuba akukho nto inomdla wokuthatha umdla, kwaye inzala iyaphela. Ukuba awufuni ukuchitha imali enkulu yokuthengwa kwemali, unike umntwana ithuba lokuba akhethe umdlalo oyithandayo. Kungenzeka ukuba kule meko uza kudlala ixesha elide.
Ziziphi iimathoyizo ezifanele zibe ngumyalelo womntwana?
Qiniseka ukuthenga imidlalo ephuhlisayo efana nomntwana wengane. Ucebise ukuzithengela kwangaphambili kwaye unikezele njengoko umntwana ekhula, ukugqiba ixesha awayeza kuba lilungele ngayo. Ukuba umntwana ubonisa ukungavumi komdlalo, ungazami ukumkhohlisa, nangona sele sele esele idoros. Konke uhlambulule ekhoneni elimnyama kwithuba elithile.
Ngokuqinisekileyo wonk 'ubani uya kuvuma ukuba abaqulunqi bomsebenzi baqhubela phambili. Abaqulunqi benza abantwana baphuhlise ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ubungcali bezandla zezandla, ukucinga ezintathu-ntambo, imbali enkulu ... Umdlalo kunye nomklami uqulethe izinto ze-algebra yesikolo kunye nejometri kwaye unceda ukuphuhlisa iimvakalelo ze-aesthetics.
Namhlanje, izitolo zinika uluhlu olubanzi lwabaqulunqi. Kwieshelulo, unokufumana iindidi ezahlukeneyo ze gostoprugrasta, ukususela kunyaka owodwa. E-Russia, kwakhona, kukho umyili - enye indlela eya kumda phantsi kwegama eliziqhenkcezayo. Ungathenga ii-cubes zobunzima obuhlukeneyo kunye nobukhulu, ukuthengwa kweeseti zokwakha izakhiwo. Kubantwana abadala, ungathenga abathengi, apho oomatshini kunye neezindiza ziqokelelwa khona. Ukuba umntwana unengqondo engabonakaliyo, unokuthenga iinkcukacha ngendlela yeenkwenkwezi kunye neentyantyambo ezintle ezixhunyiwe kunye nazo zonke iindlela.
Akukho luncedo olungaphantsi kweetayipi ezithambileyo, kuba zihlakulela ukucinga, ukucinga kunye nothando kubathandekayo. Abazali bafanele bakhuthaze imidlalo enjalo kwaye bathathe inxaxheba kwinkqubo, bathetha nomntwana egameni leethayi, ngelixa beguqule ilizwi kunye nomlingane webhere ethandekayo.
Abantwana banqwenela ukunyanzela izenzo zabantu abadala. Ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho unemidlalo kwi-arsenal yakhe, umntu omdala ubonakala njengabantu abadala. Amantombazana athetha ukuthenga isidlo, umshanelo okanye isinyithi. Kubafana, iifowuni okanye isethi yezixhobo. Kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kwiiseti zomgcini wezinwele.
Ukuphuhlisa izakhono zamashishini, kufuneka amathoyizi aqokeleleke kwaye adibaniswe kalula. Nangona kunjalo kulo mzekelo kuyimfuneko ukuba linyamekele. Ukuba umntwana ujwayele ukuzama zonke iizitshi ngezinyo, kubalulekile ukuyeka ukuthenga okunjalo. Kwaye nangona umntwana wakho sele ekhulile kwaye engenzi izinto ezinjalo, kungcono ukumjonga ngexesha lomdlalo. Izinto ezincinci umntwana angagwinya, ezingakhokelela kwimiphumo ebuhlungu.
Kunomdla kakhulu ukuba ne-arsenal yentsana ezininzi zamathoyizi eneemoto ezinamandla okanye ipaneli yokulawula ngokuzenzekelayo. Abantwana ababini okanye amabini anesiqingatha ubudala ubudala, bayavuya kukuba amathoyizi abo abathandayo abahambayo kwaye banokuthetha.
Akuyi kuba yinto engathandekiyo ukuthetha amagama ambalwa malunga neetayiti zokuhamba. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba inkwenkwe ichithe ixesha elifanelekileyo kwi-sandbox, kuya kufuneka ithenge ifosholo, isibini se-sovochki, ibhakethi kunye neengumbumba apho ziya kukhanda khona amanani. Eyathandwa kakhulu ngamaloli amancinci, apho ungathutha khona isihlabathi kunye namatye, kwaye ngexesha lobusika - iqhwa. I-Clippers kwintambo ikhula ukuhamba.
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Imidlalo kunye nezinto zekhaya
Ukongeza kwiimidlalo eziqhelekileyo, umntwana angavunyelwa ukudlala izinto zokuthengisa. Ndiyabulela kwiinkqubo ezinjalo, ubuchule bokusebenza ngokujikeleza indlu buya kukhula. Ukuba intombi yayifuna ukususa udoti ochithwa ngaphakathi kwegumbi, ngoko ulingisa unina, akufanele ukuba abe ngendlela yakhe, nokuba akayi kuyenza. Ulungele ukudumisa umntwana, uze umncede. Emva koko, akaze afunde ukutshabalalisa, ukuba akazami.
Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlahlele phantsi, asuse uthuli, uhlambe izitya ezingcolileyo. Abantwana abaninzi banomdla wokudlala ngefowuni, ivila, iwashi okanye i-headphones ukusuka kumdlali olalelwayo. Ukuba uqiniseke ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba izinto aziyi kuphuka, unokuvumela umntwana ukuba anelise iinqwenela zakho. Kwaye ke, akudingeki ukuba umthinte umntwana wakho ekudlalweni kunye nezifana ezinje: iigs, iipuni, iibhokisi zensimbi. Nangona kunjalo, ukunyamekela ngokufanelekileyo kubalulekile, kuba umntwana angakwazi ukuphawula ipoon kwiso lakhe.
Musa ukuphosa izinto ekubonweni kokuqala kubonakala kuyimfuneko. Ezi ziquka: ukukhupha kwiifotyi, amacandelo amancinci, amathikithi asetyenzisiweyo, ukuhlola emva kokuthenga kunye namakhadi eplastiki. Izinto ezinjalo ezingadingekile zihlakulela ingcinga yomntwana wakho. Izinto ezingabonakaliyo zinceda ukwenza izinto zangempela kwiingcinga zakhe. Ezi zinto ziquka izinto zikamama, ingubo apho abantwana bebopha "abantwana" babo.