Indlela yokuchonga ukuba umntwana wakho ungumntwana osebenzayo okanye umntwana wakho uhlasele? Ingumntwana onjalo ohlala ehamba, ephonsa into ethile, ebamba, ehla, egijima, ayikwazi ukulala, akayi kugxininisa nantoni na. Uqala ukudlala kwaye emva kwemizuzu embalwa ulahlekelwe ngumdla. Akakwazi ukulawula, kuba akukho migaqo yokunxibelelana, ukuziphatha, akukho nto inqatshelwe. Umntwana onjalo usebenza yonke indawo. Kodwa unako ukubona kuwo amahlangothi amnandi.
Aba bantwana banokuhlakulela amakhono okudala, nokuba i-sculpting, drawing. Banobuchule obungqondo obuphezulu kunabanye abantwana, kodwa ukuziphatha kwabo okubi akuvumeli ootitshala, ootitshala, abazali ukuba babone iitalente kuwo. Siza kunika iingcebiso kubazali bomntwana osengozini.
Iingcebiso kubazali kwimfundo yomntwana ongcolileyo
- Ngokudumisa umntwana. Ukumelana nomgaqo onjalo, ukuba wabuhlungu, emva kwezihlandlo ezisixhenxe udumisa.
- Ukuba unayo, zama ukuzisa isifundo ekupheleni. Nangona uchitha umsebenzi onjalo kwiindawo ezininzi. Umzekelo, uqale ukupenda umfanekiso kunye naye, kodwa umntwana ulahlekelwe ngumdla, ngoko buyele kule sifundo kamva.
- Hlangana nomntwana rhoqo imihla ngemizuzu eyi-10, okanye yonke imihla. Ukuqhuba iiklasi kwindawo ekhululekile kunye nefom edlala.
- Yenza umsebenzi wesikolo sakho nomntwana wakho. Makhe aqoke egumbini, aqoke amathoyizi, abeke izinto ndawonye kunye njalo njalo. Into ephambili kukuba uza kwenza konke kunye naye.
- Kuthetha ukuba uyamthanda, phulaphulaphula, umxube. Aba bantwana banesidima esincinane. Ukuvavanya isenzo sakhe, ungatsho ukuba ungumntwana ongeyomntwana, kodwa nje ulungise umsebenzi wakhe.
- Yenza umgangatho wosuku kwaye unamathele kuyo. Oku akuwona msebenzi olula kokubili kunye nosana lwakho. Bobabini kumntwana, kwaye kubazali kuya kuba kuyo kuphela kulunge. Uya kukhumbula ukulandelelana kwazo zonke izenzo, uya kuba neentsimbi ezingaphantsi. Ukucwangcisa ixesha lokutya, iiklasi, uhamba, uya kwenza inceba yakho.
- Ukuthintela ngokuthe ngqo akusizi apha. Kufuneka utsho oko ufuna ukufumana ngenxa yoko. Ungatsho ukuba kukho ukungcola okukhulu kwigumbi. Kwaye sinokuthi namhlanje ngumjikelo womntwana wokuhlambulula igumbi. Ngale ndlela, abazali bajolise kwizinto abazifunayo kumntwana kunye noko umntwana akufanele azi.
- Zama ukusebenzisa kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba inqabana "ayikho" kwintetho yakho. Ukuba umntwana ulwa, gxila kwizinto ozilindele kuye. Umzekelo, ufuna ukuba adlale nomntakwabo omncinane okanye adlale nabanye abantwana. Thetha ngale nto kumntwana.
- Thatha ngoncedo lwe-neurologist kunye neengqondo zengqondo, ngaphambili uyenzayo, inzuzo ngakumbi iya kunika umntwana wakho nawe. Funda i-psychology yokunxibelelana. Kukho iinkqubo ezinciphisa ukwesaba, umzekelo, ukwamkelwa kwamanzi eetyuwa, i-electros sleep.
- Ukuqhagamshelana nomntwana, hlalisa phantsi ukuba ube naye kwinqanaba elifanayo. Ukuqhagamshelana kwamehlo. Okanye sebenzisa ezinye iimpawu zesimo-intetho ephakathi, ubeka isandla sakho esifubeni sakho. Ezi zenzo zenza kwi-subconscious.
- Jabulela kwimpumelelo yomntwana.
- Imidlalo yasekhompyutheni kunye nokubukela kwe-TV kunceda ekuboniseni ukunyanzeliswa komzimba, baqhekeza inkqubo ye-nervous child. Gwema ukutshintsha ngokukhawuleza ukuze ungaqhubeki umntwana. Ukuvimbela umonakalo kuya kunceda i-lavender, i-fennel, i-stort John, i-mint, i-motherwort.
- Qiniseka kwaye ukuba ngesizathu esithile unqabe umntwana ukuba abukele iibhotole, ke ungatshintshi isigqibo sakho.
- Kuhle, ukuba umntwana wakho uza kutyelela iindidi, apho abazali kunye nomntwana basebenza kunye. Oku kunceda umntwana ukuba afunde iincwadi kwaye avelise umntwana kunye nabazali kufuphi.
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuba unjani, ufanele ufunde iincwadi kubantwana. Ukufunda kufuneka kufundiswe kwasebuncinaneni. Funda iindaba zeenkcukacha, funda i-poteshki, kwisenzo ngasinye ufundisa imirhumo encinci. Ngaphambi kokuba ulale embhedeni, qala ukufunda iincwadi ezili-10 imizuzu. Nangona umntwana ekwazi ukufunda, musa ukulibala malunga nalo msebenzi.
Siyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso kubazali bomntwana oswelekileyo ziya kunceda ekukhuliseni kwakhe. Sifune wena impumelelo!