Naliphi na ibhinqa lifuna ubomi bakhe bonke ukuba lihlale linye, bathandekayo kwaye lifunwa yindoda yakhe, kodwa kungekhona wonke umntu ophumelelayo. Akunzima kakhulu ukunqoba intliziyo yendoda, zonke iziqulatho zinendlela ezininzi zokukhwela into eyenziwe kwiintanethi zazo. Kodwa ukugcina othandekayo kufuphi kwaye ube yindawo ephakathi kwendalo kunye nenjongo yobomi akuyena wonke umntu.
1. Indoda ngumzingeli, ibhinqa ligxobhozo
Akumangalisi ukuba besithi abafazi kunye namadoda abahlali beeplanethi ezahlukeneyo, ngokulandelanayo, banemibono eyahlukileyo ngokuphathelele ubudlelwane bokuthandana. Ibhinqa lifuna ukukhuselwa, ukuzinza nokuzithemba kumntu akhethiweyo, kodwa kumlingane wakhe, umbandela ubaluleke ngakumbi, ungabonakali. Khumbula indlela ozizwa ngayo. Uyazi omnye nomnye, iimvakalelo ezintsha zithandwa, zavuya kwaye zavusa umdla. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, waqala ukubuthathaka. Kutheni? Le ndoda ifinyelele injongo yakhe kwaye iyancipha, sele uyisiteyiphu kuye. Awuzange ulibale ukuba lo mntu ungumzingeli?
Kodwa ama-trophies angaba nesimo sengqondo esahlukileyo. I-pheasant enezixhobo ezichithwayo zingasebenzisa iminyaka iqokelela uthuli kwikhemitha, kwaye uya kuziqhayisa kubahlobo bakhe ngaso sonke ixesha ngefihla elimnandi. Awuzange ucinge, kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Ukuze ufumane i-pheasant, indoda ayifuni ukubeka umgudu omkhulu, ongenakuthiwa ngokuzingela ibhere. Lapha wamangaliswa ukuthenga isibhamu esixabisekileyo kunye neempawu ezikhethekileyo, uye kwi-taiga, ulandelele irhamncwa kwaye uphume wedwa kunye naye ekulweni. Ngaba uziva umehluko? Ngenxa yoko isigqibo esilandelayo sibonisa ukuba: liba lixhoba elixabisekileyo nelithandekayo lomntu, ekulungele ukuchitha ixesha kunye nemali. Ungalokothi ubize kuqala kwaye ungathathi ifowuni emva kokuqala, uhanjiso lweentlanganiso, udlala ngothando, ufune ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo, ungayeki izipho kunye nemiqondiso yokuqwalasela. Ngokwenza njalo, kufuneka uhloniphe iqabane lakho, ungahlazisi isidima sakho. Umzingeli wangempela akanakukunceda ukuxhoba okunjalo.
2. Indoda ngumntwana, umfazi ungumfundisi oyingqondi
Amadoda angabantwana abakhulu, oku kufuneka kuhlale kukhunjulwa. Kwaye uthini uthisha onolwazi kwi-kindergarten xa abantwana bekhathazekile nangayiphi na imisebenzi? Ngokuchanekileyo, batshintshe ingqalelo kwenye into. Ngoko ke, ukuze atshale indoda kwaye agcine inzala kuye, umfazi kufuneka ngokwakhe abe ngumntu onelungelo kunye noluntu.
Khumbula, isangqa sesithakazelo sakho asikwazi kwaye asimele silinganiselwe kuphela kukhethiweyo wakho. Phila ubomi obupheleleyo, umsebenzi, ukudala, ukufunda, ukuhamba, ukufumana ihlabathi kunye nokwabelana ngolwazi lwakho kunye nemvakalelo yakho nentanda yakho. Indoda kufuneka ibone kwaye iyayiqonda ukuba ayikho indawo yendalo yonke kunye nokubonakala kwayo iqabane lingakulungele ukuguqula ngokupheleleyo indlela yokuphila kwaye ibeke kwisibingelelo sobudlelwane bokwentsapho.
3. Wonke umntu unesihlalo sakhe
Kubudlelwane kukho izihlalo ezimbini - indoda kunye nesetyhini, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhlale ukhumbule kwaye ungenzi into yokuba omnye umntu. Ukususela kwixesha elidala leTestamente kwakukholelwa ukuba indoda-i-getter, ibhinqa-umgcini we-hearth. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ixesha liye lazenza izilungiso zalo, kodwa i-essence iyahlala enye. Ngoko ke, unamathele kwiimbopheleleko zabantu, nokuba ziphantsi kwamandla akho. Kubalulekile ukuba sikwazi ukukhuthaza umntu kwaye simkhuthaze ngokufanelekileyo kumanyathelo nezenzo zomntu. Makhe kuthathe ixesha elide, kodwa uya kuqonda ukuba emva kwakho isithenda esithembekileyo esilungele ukuthatha uxanduva lwakho kwintsapho yakho.
Kufuneka umkhumbuze rhoqo ukuba uyona mhle kwaye awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwakhe. Musa ukumbonga kunye nokubulela umthandayo, uqhathanise nabanye (ngokuthanda kwakhe, ngokuqinisekileyo), makangathi azibaluleka kwaye angenakudalwa. Jonga ngokugqithiseleyo indlela amadoda omphefumlo angayi kunqula ngayo kwiintombi zawo ezincinci. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba aba bafazi abancinci, ngenqanaba lezendalo zendalo bayamhlonela ooyise, ngokuqinisekileyo bacinga ukuba bangcono kwihlabathi. Khumbula ukuba akukho mntu mkhulu uza kuphumelela ngaphandle kokuba nombolo yowesifazane owamphefumlela.
4. Hayi, ngesondo, wena unguMoya!
Ukwabelana ngesondo - into ebalulekileyo ebomini phakathi kwamadoda nabasetyhini, ngoko ke lo mmandla wobomi kufuneka unikwe ukubaluleka okukhulu. Ukuba nemihlali yezinto eziphathekayo ayizange ibe yinto eqhelekileyo, kubalulekile ukwenza umgudu omkhulu. Khumbula indlela ohamba ngayo ngosuku ekuhloleni kobudlelwane bakho, indlela okhethwe ngayo ikhabethe kunye nokuphonononga ngokucokisekileyo ukubonakalisa kwabo kwisibuko. Zithathele ezi ziluleko ezilula, kodwa ezibalulekileyo:- bembatha iilwimi ezintle kunye nezobugcisa. Yiya ekhaya ngeengubo ezidlalayo, ulungele nanoma yimuphi umzuzwana ukuba ususe umzimba wakho. Ukulinga iifutshana ezimfutshane nazo aziyi kushiya lakho iqabane elingathandekiyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unzima kangakanani usuku lwakhe. Mcele ukuba alethe ithawula kunye ne-slippers kwindawo yokuhlambela kwaye ungathandabuzeki ukuba uya kulala etaweni zakhe aze amshiye yedwa.
- Beka umzimba wakho ngendlela. Ukunciphisa umzimba, ukungena kwimidlalo okanye ukudansa, ukufezekisa ulusu kunye neenwele. Nangona umzimba wakho awunayo imodeli yemodeli, kufuneka ube yintsha, ihlambulukile kwaye ilungile ukuvumba. Yintoni enokuba yinto enomtsalane ngakumbi kunesikhumba esincinci se-female silk kunye neninzi evumba elincinci, eseluncinane emva kweenwele zokugeza!
- Ningabi ngabahanahanisi kwaye ninganqikazi ukuzama ukulala. Jonga kunye namafilimu eononografi, yenza imidlalo yokudlala indima, ulale ngesondo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, ungaphelelanga ngaphandle kombhede. Vumela iqabane lakho livuke kusasa akusilo isandi se-alarm clock, kodwa i-caresses yakho yomlomo. Ndikholelwe, uya kukukhumbula oku yonke imini kwaye uza kukuhlawula ngokufanelekileyo ngokuhlwa!
5.Pravilno ukondla umntu wakho
Wonke umntu uyazi umzekeliso ngendlela eya entliziyweni yomntu ngesisu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani, kodwa kunentsingiselo ecacileyo ebangelwa yinto ekhethekileyo ye-physiology yamadoda. Vumela isidlo sesintu siphendule isibini sakho kwisithethe esithile. Ukuba indoda ebudeni bobudlelwane yayilethe isidlo sakusasa kwisibhedlele, ungalilahli elo lungelo kwixesha elizayo. Mxelele ukuba ngenxa yale nto uya kumbulela ngokumangazela okunomdla, into enhle kunye nesidlo sothando.
Nangona awuzange upheke nantoni na enkulu, sebenzela kakuhle ityeyibhile, unike iqabane lokutya, unike i-napkin, i-salt shaker, isonka, isongezo. Qiniseka ukuba uhlale naye etafileni, nangona isidlo sakusihlwa siphelile kwaye ngeli xesha awusadli. Musa ukuqalisa iingxoxo eziqinileyo kude kube yindoda eyanelisekile indlala.
Siyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso zilula ziya kukunceda ube ngowona mfazi onqwenelayo kunye nomfazi kuphela oyintanda yakho.