Unokuthintela njani uxinzelelo?

Kwinqaku yam yangaphambili, ndakuxelele iindlela zokulwa noxinzelelo olukhoyo , apha ndiza kunika iingcebiso ezimbalwa ngokufanelekileyo.


Ngokuqhelekileyo, uxinzelelo lubangelwa kukuba ingqondo igxininiswe nomsebenzi kwaye asinaso ixesha lokuphumla. Ngaphezu koko, ukwabiwa ixesha lokuphumla akuyimfuneko xa sele sele uwele phantsi, kwaye phambi kwamehlo okuphindaphinda kabini, kuyinqweneleka ukushiya ixesha elincinci lweemiphefumlo. Njengoko zangaphambili azizange zilayishwe, zama ukuphazanyiswa emsebenzini ukusuka kwiyure nganye, uchithe umsebenzi ongenakulungiselelwa ubuncinane imizuzu emi-5. Kodwa ukuba uzibeka ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-10, ayiyi kuphumla, kodwa ukuphepha emsebenzini.

Ikhefu elincinci linokuzaliswa ngcokola ngabasebenzi abasebenzisana nabo, ngelixa usela itiye entsha okanye ikhofi. Imizuzu emihlanu eyabelwe ukuphumla kwiyure nganye yokusebenza ayikude ibe yi-axiom, kwaye i-gap nganye iyahluka. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kufuneka uphumle kangakanani, qiniseka ukuba ushiye ikhefu ngexesha, ngaphandle kokulinda amaza okukhathala ukuza.

Ukuxazulula imeko yoxinzelelo kuya kunceda kunye nedayari apho uya kuchaza iingxaki ezikukhathazayo kwixesha elithile. Zama ukudlulisa emaphepheni onke amava akho, iimvakalelo ezibi kunye neengcamango. Apha ungaphinda uchaze iindlela ezenzekayo kule meko, ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuba umntu uza kukungabaza ubuchule bakho okanye uya kubuza imibuzo engadingekile. Khumbula ukuba iphepha liya kuqhubeka, kwaye uya kuziva ungcono.

Bhala phantsi ephepheni zonke iingxaki eziza kuphazamisa, kwaye uzama ukuzihlunga kwiintlobo ezimbini. Ekuqaleni kwabo kuya kuba neengxaki zokusombulula, kwisibini - ezo zigqibo ezizimeleyo kuwe. Kucacile ukuba ngemibuzo onokuyiqonda ngokuzimeleyo, ungathatha ngokukhawuleza, kodwa zonke ezinye iingxaki zizama ukuliphosa ngaphandle kwentloko yakho. Emva kokwenza oku kuluhlu olulula, uya kufumana i-buzz exinezelekayo xa ingazange idluliselwe kuzo zonke, ize ibuyeke.

Kanye emva kwexesha kwabonakaliswa ukuba xa umntu ejikelezwe ngumsebenzi, ngoko uxinzelelo kuye kuhanjelwa kangangoko. Ngako oko, ukuba awuhambisani nabathandi be-oda elungileyo, kufuneka uhlolisise nembono yakho, kwaye emva kwexesha uza kubona ukuba umyalelo kwimicimbi uhambelana ngqo nomyalelo entloko. Ukuba uqokelele iinqwelo ezingenasidingo kwindlu yakho, yabela usuku okanye ezimbini kwaye uchithe ngokucoca ngokubanzi. Kule meko kuphela, uvas uya kukhulula isikhala sezinto ezibaluleke ngokwenene, kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba ubomi buya kutshintshwa.

Ukuze uguqulele le ngcamango ukuyenza, kunokwenzeka ukuhlawula zonke iindleko ngolawulo ngaphandle kweyona nombolo ethile yenyanga nganye, ukubeka izinto kwindawo zazo, ukushiya kwindawo yokusebenzela ngokuzeleyo. Ukuba kaninzi ungakhumbuli ukuba ungayifaka njani izitshixo, ukhethe kuzo ishedyuli engaphantsi; ukuba uyayikhohlwa, xa kufuneka udlule ukuhlolwa kweemoto ezihleliweyo, yenza isikhumbuzo kwifowuni yakho yeselula kwaye emva kwexesha elifutshane uza kumangaliswa ukuba kulula kangakanani ukuxazulula iingxaki ezazikade zinzima kuwe.

Ukuphumla nokujongana noxinzelelo kunokuba kunye nokuncedwa kweziqhelo ezizodwa ezichaphazelayo emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Ukuzivocavoca okunjalo kubandakanya okubizwa ngokuba yi-palming. Izenzo zakho kufuneka zibe ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: kufuneka utyhobozele intende uze uzive ukuba ulusu lubafudumele. Kwinqanaba elilandelayo, izandla ezifudumeleyo kufuneka zisetyenziswe kwamehlo avaliweyo, kwaye uya kuziva indlela amandla ahamba ngayo. Njengoko ubona, lo msebenzi ulula kakhulu kwaye unokuyenza phantse naphi na.

Ukuqhawula kwaye unqobe uxinzelelo luya kunceda ukuhamba, ngeli xesha ungavumeli ukuba ucinge ngembi, zama ukulibala iingxaki. Ukubuyela ekhaya okanye kwiofisi uya kuziva ukuba umthwalo wemisebenzi ehlulekile ayikho into enhle.

Ukucinga ngeengxaki, zama ukunika iimvavanyo. Ngoko, ukuba awukwazi ukubona ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani kuwe okanye lo msebenzi, zama ukucinga ukuba uya kuzicingela ngeenyanga ezimbalwa. Kungenzeka ukuba inyanga okanye ezimbini ziya kudlula kwaye uya kulibala malunga noko kukubangela uxinzelelo lwakho kwangoku.

Ukuze ufunde ukuvavanya ngokucacileyo iingxaki, zama konke okukhathalelayo, bhala phantsi kwidayari kwaye ufunde kwakhona izandi zakho ngeveki okanye ezimbini. Uyavuma ukuba ininzi yemisebenzi yakho ayifanelekanga. Ngaba bekufanelekile ngenxa yokuba bakhathazeke?

Uyakhumbula into oyenzayo ixesha elide ebuntwaneni bakho? Ewe kunjalo, badlala! Ngoko kutheni ungazivuyo ukudlala imidlalo kumdala? Zama ukukhumbula ulutsha uze uye kwigalari yokudubula okanye udlala ibhola. Kodwa apha kukho umqobo: akukho mfuneko yokulwa noxinzelelo, ukuchitha iiyure kwimidlalo yekhompyutheni - ziyandisa nje imeko.

Yabelana ngeemvakalelo ezintle nabantu abasondeleyo. Ukhumbule xa uxelele umyeni wakho ukuba uyamthanda? Ngaba abantwana bakho bafumana ukutya ngokukhawuleza? Bamkele rhoqo, kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba zonke iingxaki kwiimeko ezinjalo ziphelela kwimvelaphi.