Kwaye ekubeni siphila nabo, kungekubi ukuba sizikhusele kwiimvakalelo ezimbi kwaye uzame kuqala ukuqonda oko amadoda angakuthandiyo kwabasetyhini, kwaye kutheni abangaboni ngathi sikulungele.
Siza kuqwalasela umntu oqhelekileyo, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwizinto azikhethayo. Ngako oko, kuya kuba luncedo ukuxoxa ngokucacileyo ukuba indoda yakho, mhlawumbi, ayiyi kuba njengomlingiswa wethu. Ngoko, makhe siqale ukuqwalasela oko amadoda angakuthandi ngabafazi.
Kubonakala.
Njengoko siyazi "yonke into ifaneleke kumntu", kodwa ukubonakala xa uthetha nomntu ngokukodwa. Kakade ke, ukuthanda izinto ezinxulumene ne-punk yakhe ukusuka kwiArbat kunye ne-majeure kunye neRublevki zihluke kakhulu, kodwa kusekho okuqhelekileyo. Okokuqala, kukuba amadoda onke awakuthandi abafazi abancinci kakhulu, kwaye asikhulumi ngamapounds angaphezu kwe-2-5, sithetha malunga no-10-15, siyavuma, okwesibini okucacileyo. Okwesibini, amadoda awayithandi xa umfazi engazi indlela yokusebenzisa iifom, apha kuya kuphawulwa ukuba imigaqo iya kuba eyahlukileyo kumaqela ahlukeneyo amadoda, kodwa yonke into kunjalo. Ewe, ekugqibeleni, ubuso, amadoda awayithandi ubuso obubi, njengoko kunzima ukuqiqa, kodwa ngelo xesha, ibhinqa elijongene noothixokazi linokubangela ukucasula, kuba indoda ingabonakali ibonakala ingakumbi.
Iqondo lobuchule, i-erudition.
Musa ukukholelwa abo bathi indoda ithanda i-pupae isicupulu ngobuso obunemibala, akunjalo, loo nto intombazana inokuyiphumelela, kodwa kuphela kwimida emfutshane. Ukuba ubuhlobo bexesha elide, indoda iya kukhetha umfazi onobuqili, onobuqili, onengqiqo. Ngenxa yokuba, ukunyaniseka kobuhle kudlulayo ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukuba akukho nto yokuthetha ngayo nomntu, ngaphandle kweemfesimfashini zefashini kwaye inkampani ihlazekile ngamazwi akhe, oko akunako ukukhupha. Ewe, nantsi enye ikrele elijikelezileyo, kuba, i-intellektualok engqongqo yinto engathandekiyo ukuba yintoni umntu oqhelekileyo angakwazi ukuzinzela ixesha elide. Ngoko ke, ukucaphulwa okuqhubekayo kukaHomer noSchiller kwindoda yokuqala akuthandi okufanayo.
Imilinganiselo yokuziphatha.
Kule candelo, asiyi kuthetha ngezinto ezinqabileyo ezifana nobuqhetseba, amanga, kunye nokunye. Njengoko kulula ukuqonda, la madoda angabesifazane abasithandi. Kwaye siyaqaphela oku kulandelayo, yintoni umgangatho wobuntu njengobuncwane, ngobuninzi obuninzi, amadoda ayithandi into efanayo, kodwa emancinci amancinci ayamdumisa, aqondakaliyo. Amadoda akholelwa ukuba i-drop of bitchiness inika umfazi into enomdla kunye nokuqonda okunzulu ulwalamano naye. Ngako oko, qaphela kwaye ungayithandi.
Ubomi, uqoqosho.
Enye into ebalulekileyo abantu abangayithandiyo kwabasetyhini kukuba bangakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Asiyi kuxubusha apha ukuba bachanekile okanye cha, kwaye bathi kule nqanaba lama-21 ibhinqa linelungelo lokusebenza kwaye kungekhona nje ukuma ngesitofu. Siyaphinda nje ukuba amadoda ayithandi xa umfazi engenzi nto ekhaya, akupheki ukupheka, kodwa ukucoca kunye nokucoca. Nangona kunjalo, ebomini bentsapho yakho, akufuneki ukuba uyenze njalo, kodwa umntu kufuneka azi (kakuhle, okanye ubuncinci) ukuba uyazi njani. Emva koko, njengoko besithi, uthando luya kwaye luya, kodwa uhlala ufuna ukudla!
Nantsi mhlawumbi uluhlu olungumzekelo wendoda enomlinganiselo ongathandanga kumfazi. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, ndiphinda kwakhona kwakhona ukuba ezi ntetho azikho yonke indawo, yindlela nje, kuba akunakwenzeka ukuseka iphethini epheleleyo kunye nechanekileyo.