Unyaka ngamnye sizama ukuzibekela iinjongo ezincinci, okukuthi, njengommiselo, azikhuthazi kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, "ngena kwimidlalo", "qalisa ukutya ngokufanelekileyo", "hlawula yonke imboleko."
Kuthekani kuthi xa sizibekela iinjongo zomhlaba wonke oza kutshabalalisa i-100%? Sithetha malunga nendlela yokubeka kunye nokongeza iinjongo ezibalaseleyo, ezivela kwiincwadi ezilungileyo kwi-self-development.
Qulunqa injongo
Ababhali be-bestseller abanamava amaninzi "Ubomi Bonke" baceba injongo yabo yehlabathi: "Tshintsha ihlabathi." Bathi ukuba nomsebenzi onjalo, bahamba ngokukhawuleza endleleni yabo. "Njengeli lizwe lisinceda," babhala.
Ngoko, ekucaciseni injongo yakho yehlabathi, kufuneka uqwalasele iingongoma ezintathu eziphambili. Okokuqala, ufuna iinjongo ukufanisa ubuchule bakho bemvelo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba awunawo amakhono, ke ixesha lokuba wenze yonke into ukuyiqonda. Isiqingatha impumelelo ekufezekiseni injongo kukukwenza oko kunikwe lula, kodwa yenza ngawo onke amandla akho. Okwesibini, qiniseka. Ukuze ufezekise injongo enenjongo, kufuneka uqeqeshe yonke imihla. Lungiselela ukuba impumelelo ayiyi-sprint, kodwa i-marathon. Uya kufuneka uzenzele iminyaka emininzi. Nsuku zonke. Okwesithathu, thobekile. Ungavumeli ukuba i-ego engafanelekanga ibe ngaphezu kwexabiso lakho. UMahatma Gandhi, uMama Teresa kunye namawaka abanye abantu abaye bakhumbula ihlabathi njengabantu abakhulu, abazange bacinge ngomvuzo, kodwa benza umsebenzi wabo.
Isikhumbuzi phambi kwamehlo
Igor Mann encwadini yakhe ethi "Indlela yokuba yiNombolo 1 kwinto oyenzayo" ibhala ukuba injongo efanelekileyo kufuneka ibe neempawu ezintathu. Okokuqala, kufuneka ibe nesifiso. Khumbula ibinzana elihle kakhulu: "I-Target kwiLanga - vele ufike enyangeni. Yaye uya kujolisa kwenyanga - awukwazi ukuhamba. " Okwesibini, kufikeleleke. Okwesithathu, rhoqo phambi kwamehlo akho. Abanye bafaka ikhadibhodi ngeenkcazo ngenjongo kwi-wallet. Omnye ubhala kwaye uxhoma phambi kwedeski. "Ndiyathanda ukubeka iinjongo njenge-screensaver kwi-iPhone. Njalo phambi kwakho, kwaye ubona ubuncinane ngamaxesha angama-100 ngosuku. Ukungahoyiki akunakwenzeka, "- kwaye le ndlela iyintandokazi yokukhumbuza injongo kaMan ngokwakhe. Yenza wonke umntu azi malunga nenjongo yakho. Ekugqibeleni, abantu abaninzi bayazi malunga nalo, amathuba amancinci okufuneka uphume kuwo.
Nxu lumisa
UDan Waldschmidt ubhala kwincwadi yakhe ethi, "YIBHONO YOKUPHAKATHI KWAMI", loo mandla amakhulu aya kufuneka ukuze afumane iinjongo ezibalaseleyo. Uthetha ngento enjengokuthi "ukuphelelisa". Kubantu bezemidlalo, umzuzu "wokunqongophala" ufika ngokuchanekileyo ngexesha lokugqibela, xa umzimba unikeza ubuninzi bezinto ezinokuthi, nangaphezulu. Le yinto ebizwa ngokuthi "iindlela ezingenasiphelo" xa kuphulwa i-micro-fiber break, kwaye ngoko imvelo iqala inkqubo "yongxowaniso" kwaye imisipha iqina. Ngeenjongo ngendlela efanayo - singakwazi ukufezekisa iinjongo ezibalaseleyo kuphela ngokusebenzisa umzamo we-100% nokuyibeka kwindawo ephezulu.
Amakethi kunye neenkcazo zokukhulisa
Ukuqagela ngubani oyena demotivator obaluleke kakhulu endleleni eya kwinjongo? Ewe, kunjalo-oko. Ngaphezu koko, uninzi lwethu sonke sizama ukuzibandakanya ngengxoxo engaphakathi. Ngokomzekelo, sihlala sithetha kuthi "Andiyi kuwufumana," "Andikwazi," "Ndihlala ndihamba okanye ndiphule ixesha elide." Zonke ezi zinto kufuneka zitshintshwe ngokukhulisa iingxelo. Umzekelo, "Ndiza kuphumelela", "Ndingumntu ongatshatanga!", "Ndiyomelele!". Oku kubhaliwe kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Ngaphandle kokuzichukumisa", umqeqeshi owaziwayo waseNorway wengqondo, kunye no-Eric Larssen. Ukwacebisa rhoqo ukuba uzibuze imibuzo-makakishi. Ndiya kuphi na? Ingaba i-100% ibhalwe namhlanje? Ndingaba njani ngempumelelo ngakumbi ukuze ndifezekise iinjongo ngokukhawuleza?
Isisombululo sekhaya
UBarbara Sher - uMqeqeshi woBomi owaziwayo, owathi wafezekisa iinjongo zakhe zehlabathi, ukuba ngumama ongatshatanga nabantwana ababini ezandleni zakhe, encwadini yakhe ethi "Ukunqabela ukukhetha" unikeza ezininzi izixazululo "zemihla ngemihla". Ngokomzekelo, ukunciphisa ngesibindi uluhlu lwamatyala. Akukho nto eyokwenzekayo ukuba namhlanje ungenayo ixesha, yithi, ukuya esitolo uze uthenge ukutya. Kusadingeka ukhumbule rhoqo ukuba ubulumko obukhulu buzaliswe ngamazwi avela kumyalelo wokhuseleko kwinqwelo, ethi: "Okokuqala faka isicaka sakho, uze ufike kumntwana." Khumbula ukuba ebomini. Ukuba asinalo ixesha lokwenza oko kubaluleke kakhulu kuthi, ngoko siyaba nolonwabo. Kwaye aba bazali abadingi abantwana. Okokuqala, xa ufika ekhaya uvela emsebenzini, unakekele izinto zakho, uze emva kwazo zonke ezinye. Ngaphantsi kweshishini, akuthethi ukuba uthethe ngezonxibelelwano zentlalo kunye nabahlobo okanye ukubukelelwa kweTV, kodwa ezo zinto ezikusondeza kwiinjongo zakho.