Kungakhathaliseki isizathu, ukunyanzela ibhinqa ukufikelela eziphakamileyo zomsebenzi, impumelelo yakhe ayibalulekanga kunokuba yimpumelelo yabantu. Kunokwenzeka ukunikela imizekelo yabogqirha besetyhini, ezopolitiko, abantu abashishini abaye baninzi baninzi kulo mzabalazo. Kodwa akusoloko uphumelele kwimisebenzi yilingana nempumelelo ebomini bentsapho.
Imeko namhlanje
Namhlanje ebomini bowesifazane wesimanje, njengomgaqo, kukho imfundo ephakamileyo, intsapho, umsebenzi ophezulu. Kodwa ukunyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi kwintokazi kuhlala kunzima. Kwimilinganiselo yakhe ebuthakathaka umthwalo wesibini - ukubonelelwa kobomi bentsapho kunye nomsebenzi. Kodwa kuzo zombini iimeko, kumfazi waseRashiya, into ephambili kukuzimelela, ukukhula komntu kunye nokufezekiswa kweenjongo ezibekwe yiyo. Nangona kunjalo, kuyafaneleka ukuvuma ukuba umfazi osebenzayo uhlala ehluleka okuthile kwintsapho yakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuqesha umfana, umgcini wendlu, kodwa oku akuyi kubakho ubomi bentsapho apho umama ekhulisa abantwana, kungekhona umntu ongaphandle. Ukongezelela, ibhinqa idibana nemithintelo emininzi emsebenzini, kaninzi ayinakuncedwa, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, idatha yangaphandle kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kuphazamisa. Abayeni bavavanya nje ngokuba "inxinano ebuthakathaka", kwaye kuthatha umzamo omkhulu wokubonakalisa ngenye indlela.
Imisebenzi yentlalo kunye nempumelelo yabasetyhini
Kakade ke, kukho iintsapho apho imisebenzi esekwe yoluntu yamadoda nabasetyhini iguqukile. Kule meko, ibhinqa liyakwazi ukuzinikezela ngokwenza umsebenzi, isebenze umyeni wayo. Emva koko indima yayo ebalulekileyo ithathwa ngokungenanto, kwaye akukho zimpikiswano kwintsapho okanye emsebenzini.
Kodwa nangayiphi na imeko, impumelelo yowesifazane isoloko ivivinywa ngamandla olwalamano lwentsapho. Akumangalisi ukuba i-sociologists iqaphele ukuba abafazi abaphumeleleyo baninzi phakathi kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga. Akuyena wonke umntu onokukwazi ukunyamezela eceleni kwakhe umfazi weshishini eliphumelelayo elinomntu onamandla kwaye onamandla.
Ngelishwa, izinto ezingokoqobo kwimihla ngemihla zifana nelokuba iqhoqhokazi liphoqeleka ukuba lisebenze ukuqinisekisa ukukholiswa koxolo kwintsapho yayo (kuphela ipesenti yabasetyhini ikhetha umsebenzi wokuphela kwenjongo yokuzizalisekisa). Kule meko, ukuphumelela impumelelo kulo msebenzi kubalulekile, kodwa igawula inkazana evela kwintsapho. Kwaye abantwana abahlali baqonda isenzo somama wabo. Kwaye, emva kokufikelela eziphakamileyo ezithile, lo mfazi uqala ukungathandabuzeki nokuba izenzo zakhe zilungelekile, njengoko kwakubonakala ngathi?
Umtshato kunye nomsebenzi
Abanye besetyhini bemi phakathi kokukhethwa "kwentsapho kunye nemisebenzi" ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukileyo. Umtshato kunye nokuzalwa kwabantwana kubangenisa uvuyo lokuqala kunye nolungileyo kwimpilo. Kodwa ke i-monotony kunye nomda wokunyanzeliswa koqhagamshelwano kubangela ukuba imisebenzi yasekhaya kunye nokuphila kwansuku zonke kuya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo. Emva koko umfazi ucinga ukuba isisombululo kwiingxaki zakhe kukukhula komsebenzi. Ufumana umsebenzi okanye uya esikolweni, aqhubeke nokuzalisekisa uxanduva lweentsapho. Kodwa ke akuyi kumela uxinzelelo, ukufundisisa kunye nomsebenzi kube yinto efanayo njengoko intsapho iyasetyenziswa. Impumelelo kwimisebenzi ayigcinwanga, intsapho iyahlukana kwaye into emele ikulindeleke kule meko ixinzelelo kunye nokukhathala ebomini. Kuhle, ukuba kukho umntu onobuqili nothando obusondeleyo kuwe onokuxhasa nokukhupha isisombululo esicacileyo senkqubela ngexesha: vumela umsebenzi ube uhlobo lwentengiso, indlela yokuzifeza ngokwabo, ngokuqhelekileyo ukuzonwabisa, ethathwa kwinqanaba lobugcisa. Ngaloo ndlela ke unako ukuxhomekeka ekuvuyiseni kwakhe kunye nokuqonda ngokuvisanayo kwintsapho.
Ubomi Bentsapho
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngaba besifazane baphikisana njani, awukwazi ukuzinikela ngokupheleleyo ukusebenza ngaphandle kokulimaza intsapho. Yonke le ngqungquthela eyenziwe ngabasetyhini abanoyikayo ukuvuma ukuba izicwangciso zabo ziphumelele ngexesha elifanayo kumacala amabini ziye zawa. Ngokuqinisekileyo enye yamacandelo ebomi ihluphekayo, ukuba ngaba umgudu ophezulu usetyenziswa kwelinye icala. Ngoko ke, umfazi wesimanje ufuna ukubeka phambili phambili - into ebaluleke kakhulu, intsapho okanye umsebenzi. Kwaye ngokuhambelana nale nto fumana "intsingiselo yegolide" ethile, xa bobabini intsapho kunye nomsebenzi baya kuba novuyo. Abanye bafezekisa impumelelo yokuqala kwiklasi yobungcali kwaye emva koko bakha intsapho. Ewe, mhlawumbi le ndlela ifanelekile.
Kodwa ukuba kwenzeke ukuba ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo kufuneka udibanise intsapho kunye nomsebenzi, ngoko uzama ukulandela inani leengcebiso zeengqondo zengqondo.
Okokuqala , kwaye, mhlawumbi, into ephambili - ungalokothi uchasene nomsebenzi wentsapho kunye nangona kunjalo. Vumela le mibini imikhomo iphelelane ngokufanelekileyo.
Okwesibini - shiya ixesha lokusebenza lomsebenzi, kunye nexesha lokukhulula - kwintsapho. Sebenzisa ndawonye iiyure zentsasa zentsasa kunye neeveki, ixesha lokuhlwa kunye neeholide kunye nabantwana. Ingxaki zabo ezinzima kufuneka zifumane ukuqonda kwakho, thatha ixesha lokuphulaphula abantwana bakho. Bavumele bakuphulaphule kwaye baqonde ukuba kutheni unyanzelekile ukuba udibanise umsebenzi kunye nosapho.
Okwesithathu - unganqikazi ukutshintsha inxalenye yemisebenzi yasendlini kubathandekayo bakho. Ukucocwa kwexesha lokuhlamba kunye nokuhlamba ixesha apho abantwana bexakekile okanye belele okanye bawenza kunye nabantwana. Kungcono ukuba yinkosikazi embi kunomama nomfazi omubi. Kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, unokuqesha umgcini wendlu ongenayo.
Cinga kwakhona isimo sengqondo ngomsebenzi wakho, ngaba kufuneka ukuba usebenze ixesha elipheleleyo? Mhlawumbi kungcono ukuba uthathe umsebenzi wexeshana ekhaya?
Ngokukhawuleza ukuba utshintshe iingxaki eziphucukileyo kunye nokwahlukana kobomi bomntu zibe yimida emibini akulula, kodwa kunokwenzeka. Nicer enkulu, ukuba iingxaki ezinjalo azivuki. Ukuba ungomnye walabo bafazi abonwabileyo abangafuni nantoni na intsapho yabo kwaye baphumelele kwimisebenzi yabo - bayathokoza! Wena ungomnye wabambalwa. Kodwa ukuba kukho into engekusebenzelanga yona - ungaphelelwa yithemba, khumbula ukuba kukho iimeko eziphuma kuyo yonke imeko. Kufuneka utyumke uze ubone ihlabathi ukusuka kwindawo eyahlukileyo.