Sebenza ngemikhwa emibi


Sebenza ngemikhwa emibi, niyilwe nobuvila, funani izinto ezintsha, nandipha imihla ngemihla!
Ngaba uye wakha wacinga ukuba abantwana bethu besengqiqweni esona siyikrini? Unokukhalaza ngokungapheliyo ngenkani okanye inzondo yonyana wakho okanye intombi yakho, kodwa ngokuthe rhoqo ukuba loo nto ingabonakaliyo kunye neentlanzi ezinqabileyo ezinqatshelwe i-oat porridge efanelekileyo okanye ifuna ukuba umkhokele ekuhambeni ukuya kwi-sandbox ede kakhulu "ifotshwe" nje kuwe. Ewe, unokuqwalasela le ngqalelo kwaye uqhubeke ulwa nemikhwa emibi yabantwana bakho.Kodwa ngaba kulula ukuzakhela ngokwakho ukuze isibuko esikhanyayo sibonakalise umfanekiso omhle kakhulu? IsiPhawul ifundeka ngolu hlobo: "Maxa wambi, umntwana wakho uya kulandela umzekelo yakho nemikhwa, hayi icebiso lakho." Ngoko, siyaqhubeka nokucwangcisa nokusebenza nzima!

Jonga intetho
Ungasebenzisi ukuhlambalaza kwaye ubeke umlinganiselo kwimiboniso yebhokhwe ejikelezileyo abantu. Hamba phambili - ungayi kumgangatho onobuqili, obunokudala oqhagamshelwano. Ngokuqhelekileyo uzibeke engqondweni kwindawo yomntwana wakho. Ngaba ungathanda ukuba umntu osondeleyo agubungele ngentloko: "Ndathi kumntu: vala iibhotole uze uhlambe izandla zakho ngokukhawuleza - sidle etafileni!" Umkhwa wokumemeza ngokungalunganga awunakongeza kwimfudumalo. Ukukhulisa umntu ohloniphekileyo nobukhali ohlonipha yena kunye nabanye abantu Bathetha "amagama omlingo", kubandakanywa xa ucela umntwana ukuba enze into ethile ("nceda, thabatha indebe egumbini") okanye umbulele isicelo esenziwe ("siyabonga, Andiyi kukhawuleza ngaphandle kwakho! "). Yithi kubamelwane bakho, bahloniphe kwaye baqikelele kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke, nokuba ngaba udibene ne-tram hub yangempela. Abantwana akudingeki ukuba babone indlela olahlekelwa ngumsindo wakho.

Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, gcina ubuso bakho kwaye usebenze kwimikhwa emibi yakho. Ungamangaleli umntwana kubantu ababaziyo - mhlawumbi, qi niqiniseke ukuba umama-mkhwenkwe uya kuqonda into ocingayo ukuba yomelele engqondweni.

Ukutya ngokuchanekileyo
Ukubonakala komntwana yinto engavumelekanga yintsapho yonke ukuqala ukutya ukutya okunempilo, okuhlukeneyo kunye nokulinganisela. Ukuba awufuni ukuba unqabile ngaphambi kwexesha elifanelekileyo ukuba ube nomdla kwiiyiphu e-quality ephantsi eziphantsi kwexabiso, ubhiya, iifips, i-noodle esheshayo kunye nokutya okudakisayo - ungagcini into enjengale ndlu. Umntwana ukhubekile, ukuba akavumelekanga ukuba azame into eyenziwa ngabazali ngokuzonwabisa okubonakalayo. Ukucacisa ukuba kutheni umama nobawo badla iichips, kwaye iVanya ayikwazi, ayiyi kusebenza ngaphandle kokulala. Kodwa sikhumbula isibuko kwaye asifuni ukuba umququze ufumane umzekelo wokukhohlisa kubantu abangenalo ngokungathembekiyo. Kwaye xa umntwana ebona isikhangiso se dessert ephantsi, kuya kuba lula kuye ukuba avume ukungenakwenzeka kokutya esi sidlo esikhulu, ukuba uthethi nje: "Asiyidli." Qinisekisa ukuba uhlala ulungelelanisa yakho.Ukuba ufuna ukusela itiye kunye nekiki ebhedeni kwigumbi lokuhlala phambi kweTV, akunangqiqo ukuba ungavumeli ukutsala ukutya ekamelweni, ukulibala malunga nale mkhuba. Ngoko ke uthathe ama-tea-party akho ekhitshini, okanye ubeke iimvuthu kwiphephethi.

Mhlawumbi awunayo umkhwa wokukhonza kakuhle itafile kuyo yonke intsapho. Qala ukwenza oko ngenxa yomntwana! Kwakhona, kukho inzuzo ephindwe kabini: i-gourmand encinci ifumana amava e-etiquette, kwaye uqeqesha ukusebenza kunye nokusika ukungazive unyanzelekile kwivenkile yokutyela.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, umkhwa wokuhlala kunye kunye etafileni kunye kwaye ungonwabele kuphela ukutya okuphekwe kakuhle, kodwa ekunxibelelaneni nomnye, njengento enye eyenza intsapho yakho ibe yinto enye. Omnye uza kuthetha ukuba nomntwana omncinci akuyona into yokugubungela etafileni - ngamanye amaxesha uyakunqumla ngosuku ngaphambi kokuba i-cutlet yeeyure isuke kwifriji engenakwenzeka. Ewe, kukho ixesha apho abantwana bengakuvumeli ukuba uphumule kwimizuzu. Akukhona into oyifunayo ngexesha elifutshane ukuba ube ngummamkeli olungeleyo kwaye rhoqo kusasa ukubhaka amabhisikidi amasha. Kodwa ukuqonda i-recipes, "ukukhawuleza" zokupheka kunokwenzeka nangona kupheka kakhulu, ingakumbi kuba isisombululo esikhulu sempahla yasendlini isetyenziselwa ukunceda umama. Ngokomzekelo, i-steamers zombane enexesha lexesha livumela ukuba ulungise ixesha lokupheka ukuze isidlo sasemini sisondele ngexesha lokubuya ukusuka ekuhambeni.

Khangela izigidi
Kukholelwa ukuba umntwana osanda kuzalwa akakhathaleli ukuba unjani umama wakhe. Kwibhokhwe akubalulekanga ngokwenene, nokuba kukho kuwe i-cellulitis, i-morshchinki ecaleni kwamehlo nokuba ngaba wenze i-manicure. Into ephambili yintsipho, ukufudumala, amagama amathenda kunye nenkxalabo. Kodwa ngezinye iinkcukacha i-crumb iya kuqala ukuba nomdla kwimibono yobuhle bomzimba. Nantoni na into ayithethayo, ukuzilungisa akuxhomekekanga kwimali nangethuba lokukhulula, kodwa ngomnqweno kunye nomkhwa. Intombazana, indlela umama onenkxala ngayo ngokubukeka kwayo iya kuba yinkomfa yokuhamba kwayo ibe yinto "eyona nto ibumnandi kakhulu kwaye inomtsalane." Kule nkwenkwe, umfanekiso womama unxulumene ngokungathandekiyo nomfanekiso wowesifazane ococekileyo, oya kumkhangela njengeqabane lakhe Zigcine umumo ukuze umntwana wakho athi ngokuziqhenya: "Umama unyanzelisayo!"

Umkhuba omubi
Ukuphindaphinda konke owenzayo. Ukuba utshaya, uya kuwubona ngokukhawuleza nge pencil emlonyeni wakho kwaye ukhanyise esandleni sakho. Emva koko, emehlweni omntwana konke uMama akwenzayo kulungile kwaye kulungile. Kakade ke, abantu abasemzini ongabheyiyo we-teetotalers abhalisiweyo bangakhula nemikhwa emibi. Kodwa lelinye ibali. Kwaye ngoku, ngokubonakala kwindlu encinci, ilungu lentsapho elincinci nelinenqabileyo, unesizathu esinzulu sokuphelisa ukuxhomekeka kwicuba ecocekileyo.

Musa uvila
Ukuziqhelanisa ukusukela ebuntwaneni ukuba uthathe inxaxheba ekuxazululeni imiba yezoqoqosho, uya kunika inzala yakho inceba enkulu. Umkhwa wococeko kunye nolawulo lubekelwe iminyaka emithathu, sebenzisa eli xesha ukuba ungabi nje umphoqele umntwana ukuba ahlambulule amathoyizi abo, kodwa ukuba afundise ukuba banandiphe ukulungiswa kwendlu. Ukuba ukhona, oko kubizwa, uhlobo lokudala kunye nobuchule bokuthakazelisa ukudala udibaniso kuwe kunye neengxabano, sebenza kuwe! Kungenzeka ukuba uya kufunda izinto ezisisiseko zeFeng Shui - ubugcisa beTshayina bendawo yokuhlala indawo. I-Masters yeFeng Shui ithi xa indlu ingcolile, ngoko intloko nentliziyo yabo bahlala kuyo, nayo yonke into ayiyiyo. Ekuqaleni komntwana umntwana kufuneka aqonde ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuba acacile kwaye anyanzelekile kwizenzo zakhe. Ngako oko, ungamthembisi into ongayi kuyenza, kodwa xa kukho into eyenza ngokukhawuleza, yaxolisa, tshela umntwana ukuba kutheni ukuphumelela ukuzalisekisa isithembiso, kwaye uzame ukuhlawulela kangako ukusilela kwakho.

Ukuphuhlisa
Mhlawumbi, bonke abazali abakhathalelayo baphupha ukutshala imali kumntwana ubuninzi bezakhono kunye nezakhono, ukuhlakulela ngumntu ofundayo kunye nomfundi. Isihloko sokuphuhliswa kwabantwana kwangaphambili kunye nokulandelelana ngenye yezona zinto zifudumele kakhulu kwiifom zemizali. Kodwa oomama benza impazamo enkulu xa benomdla nangentshiseko kubandakanyeka kubantwana, baholele kwiibonda kunye neeklasi kwi-system yeMontessori, kwaye abafundanga nto ngaphandle kweprogram yethelevishini kunye neencwadi zokupheka. Ukuba awucwangcanga ukuba ngumama wendlu, thabatha ikhefu lokubeletha ukuze uhlale usesikhathini kunye neendaba kwiinkalo zakho zobugcisa. Ngenkxaso yentsapho, abaninzi balawula ukudibanisa ukukhuliswa kwabantwana kunye nokubhalwa kwengxelo. Ukuhamba nomntwana olele, mamela iincwadi zokulalelwayo. Nika ingqalelo kwiiprogram zomlobi zabantu abadumileyo, apho babelana ngeengcamango zabo ezingaqhelekanga malunga nento yonke ehlabathini. Musa ukunqumla umhlaba kwi ezine zesiJamani "K": inomusa, kyuhe, kleide, kirche (abantwana, ikhitshi, iingubo, icawa) .Uya kuba neenjongo zakho, oza kuzifumana ngokukhawuleza kunye nendlalifa yakho!

Eyona mihle
Ngaba ucasulwa ngumntwana kunye nokugxeka? Ngaba umntwana wakho uhlala ekholiswa yinto yonke? Ngaba uhlala uhleka kunye nokucula iingoma ezidumileyo? Ngaba awunakho ukukholelwa ukuba ubomi bukuphathe kakubi? Musa ukuhamba nobuso "obumuncu"? Siyathemba ukuba oku akusiyo kuwe.
Abantu abalula kwaye banethemba lokuba lula kulo kweli hlabathi. Ukuba unomgca obomnyama ebomini bakho kwaye izandla zakho sele ziwe, ukuba unomdaka kwaye umnqweno wakho kuphela ukubalekela ekupheleni kwehlabathi apho kungekho mntu unokukufumanisa khona, yiya kwisibuko, uncumo uze ucinge uthi: "Ndiyonwabile kakhulu! Konke okwenzeka kum kungunobunzima besikhashana. Ngomso ilanga liya kuvuka, kufike usuku olutsha, luza kuzisa kuphela iindaba ezilungileyo. Ndiya kuba nethamsanqa. "Yonke into iya kuba njalo.