Abantwana.
Abaninzi banenkxalabo malunga nendlela abantwana abavakalelwa ngayo xa bezalwa kwintsapho apho abazali abangatshatanga ngokusemthethweni. Abaninzi babekho kubantwana babashukumisa iphulo kwiofisi yokubhalisa, abanye baze bavumeleke ukubeka isitampu kwipaspoti.
Kufuneka kwaziwe ukuba abantwana abazalelwa emtshatweni womtshato banamalungelo afana nabantwana babazali ababhalisiweyo ngokusemthethweni. Into eyohluka eyahlukileyo kwabanye abantwana kukuba umntu osentsapho yakhe unobumba ohlukileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo unina, kuba oobawo bahlala banika abantwana babo igama. Oku kunokudala iingxaki ezongezelelweyo - xa usenkulisa okanye isikolo, imibuzo kubazali kunye nemibuzo evela kubahlobo. Kwabaninzi, into yokuba igama lomama alifani nelobawo kunye nomntwana liya kubangela ukumangalisa kunye nomnqweno wokubuza, kwaye abantwana abahlala bekulungele ukuphendula imibuzo enjalo.
Ukuba ngabazali bomntwana basemtshatweni womtshato, ubaba akazenzeli ngokuzenzekelayo ukuba nguyise, njengokweentsapho zemveli. I-Paternity kufuneka ibhaliswe kwi-ofisi ye-registry, ngoko ke abachasene nokuya kweli ziko ngenye indlela baya kufuneka bahambe ngayo. Le nkqubo ibalulekile kungekhona nje ngokuba umntwana ufumana ubaba oseburhulumenteni, kodwa nangenxa yokuba xa kwenzeka ikhefu elubudlelwaneni, uya kukwazi ukufumana inkxaso yenkxaso evela kubawo, oko kukuthi, i-alimony.
Ukuba ubuntwaba bungasungulwanga ngexesha, kwaye abazali banquma ukusabalalisa, ngoko uzalane kufuneka kuqinisekiswe enkundleni. Ngoku ubuhlobo bubekwe ngoncedo lweemviwo zofuzo, ukuba utata wenqaba ukuyiqonda umntwana. Ukuba uyise akayiqondi, imvume yakhe yanele. Emva kokusungulwa komntwana, umntwana uya kufumana i-alimony, kodwa akayi kukwazi ukutyelela amanye amazwe ngaphandle kwemvume kayise, eya kubangela ubunzima obongezelelweyo, ngakumbi ukuba ngaba abazali basenobungozi obubi.
Indawo yokuhlala.
Umcimbi wesibini obaluleke kakhulu obakhathazayo abantu abakhetha umtshato womtshato ngumba wezindlu. Ngaba banamalungelo alinganayo kwizindlu ezithengiweyo, njani ukwahlula xa kwenzeka ukupheliswa kobudlelwane kunye nendlela yokuyibhalisa ngokufanelekileyo?
Ukuba ngomtshato osemthethweni yonke into elula kakhulu kunye nepropati efunyenwe ngokubanzi ihlukaniswe kwisiqingatha, ngoko kumtshato womtshato kukho ubuqhetseba. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba indlu ethengiweyo ibhalwa kuphela komntu ohlala nabo, nangona emva kweminyaka emininzi yomtshato, umntu ohlala naye wesibili akanakukufakazela ukubandakanyeka kwayo ekuthengeni le ndlu. Akukho ubungqina bommelwane kunye neentsapho zokuhlala ixesha elide bakhokelela indlu kunye kunye kunye abayigcineyo kwihostela abayi kuba nexabiso elithile kwicandelo lezindlu. Ukuze ugweme iingxaki ezinjalo kwixesha elizayo, izindlu kufuneka zibhaliswe kunye namalungu entsapho kunye nenkcazelo ecacileyo yezabelo ezazo. Oku kunokuba izabelo ezilinganayo okanye izabelo ezilinganayo nalowo uza kutyalomali xa kuthengwa i-co-housing. Inkontileka enjalo iya kuqinisekisa ukwahlukana ngokufanelekileyo kwepropati xa kuyimfuneko.
Ezinye ipropati.
Kwiminyaka abantu abayichitha emtshatweni womtshato, benza ipropati eninzi-yintenitshala, iimpahla, iimoto, ubucwebe kunye njalo. Nangona intsapho ilungile, akukho mbuzo malunga nokuba ngubani na ongowakho, kodwa kungekudala iingxaki ziqala, abafazi bagqiba njani ukwabelana nabo. Umtshato osemthethweni, abatshatileyo banamalungelo alinganayo kwipropati efumanekayo emtshatweni. Umtshato womtshato ushiya ilungelo kwipropati kwabo bawufumene. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukugcina zonke iincwadi zokuqinisekisa ukuthenga okukhulu okanye okubalulekileyo kuwe, kukulungele ukuba nerejista yemali kunye nerisi yokuthengisa. Unokufumana enye indlela. Ukubonelela ngeengxabano ezinokwenzeka, akusiyo ingcinga embi ukugqiba isivumelwano somtshato osesikweni somtshato esiza kulawula ubudlelwane bakho kwaye unqume ukuba yeyiphi na imeko phantsi kwayo. Xa ukwahlula ipropati, iya kukusindisa ekubeni uxabane.
Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ubudlelwane obusemthethweni banikezela iinjongo ezingaphezulu kuzo zonke iintsapho, kodwa ezinye zazo zibonakala zingenanzuzo. Wonke umntu uyazikhethela ukuba angabeka isitampu kwipasipoti yakhe okanye ayikho, kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuba wazi ukuba ngendlela enengqiqo kunokwenzeka ukuba wenze ulwalamano oluthembekileyo, akuyimfuneko ukuba ube ngumyeni nomfazi okhethekileyo kule nto. Ngamanye ama-inshurensi ngohlobo lweemvumelwano zomlomo kunye nezivumelwano ezibhaliweyo kukudibanisa kakuhle kwiimvakalelo nokuthembela, kwaye kunceda ukuqinisa umtshato.