Unokutsala njani ukutsala ingqalelo yomntu ovakalelwa emoyeni? Ukuba uhlushwa ngumbuzo onjalo, ngoko kufuneka uzame ukuqonda izinto ezithandayo kunye neemfuno zakhe. Ukuba wena ngokwakho u-emo emo, uza kuba lula, kuba iimbono zakho zehlabathi kunye neemvakalelo zihambelana ngokupheleleyo nombono wakho othandekayo. Unokuthetha ngomculo ongena entliziyweni yakho kwaye kukuve uluhlu lweemvakalelo eziqhelekileyo abantu abazama ukuzifihla, bona iifrimu ezithandwa ngabantu abathanda wena. Ngokuqhelekileyo, uya kugqitywa ngentsingiselo enye kunye neengqondo, ukuqonda kwakho akuyi kuba khona.
Kodwa yintoni oyenzayo ukuba uyintombazana eqhelekileyo eyathandana. Unokutsala njani ukutsala ingqalelo yomntu ovakalelwa emoyeni? Ayikho imfihlelo yokuba abantu abaninzi, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, abanamathuba malunga ne-emo. Mhlawumbi, inyaniso kukuba aba bantu bayazi ngokwenene ukuba baphume kwisihlwele, kwaye bazimelele kwiitampu kunye nokubandlulula. Yingakho, ukukhupha kakubi "kubantu". Oku akumangalisi, kuba isihlwele sibagweba ngenxa yabo, ngelixa bengacingi nantoni na.
Ukutsala ingqalelo yomntu ovakalelwa emoyeni, ukumenza aqale ukuthetha nawe, mqinisekise ukuba awuyi kuhamba malunga nesihlwele. Ngoko ke, zama ukukhusela inkcubeko ye-emo, uchazela abanye ukuba ngaba bantu banjani. Ukuba unabo bahlobo be-emo, qiniseka ukuba uye nabo kunye nolunye uhlobo lokuhlangana. Ufanele uwatyelele abantu abanjalo, baqonde kwaye bazive oko bahlala kunye nendlela abazive ngayo ihlabathi.
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Emva kokuyiqonda le mculo, xa uzive zonke iimvakalelo ezizaliswe kuyo, unokuqonda ama-emo guys ngakumbi. Ngoku ukuba uyazi ukuba zeziphi abantu abanomdla kuzo, qalisa ukuthetha nabo. Khumbula ukuba u-emo ngabantu abanyanisekileyo nabanyanisekileyo. Ukuba ulungile kubo kwaye uyayiqonda imiphefumlo yabo, baya kuhlala bekuthabatha ngokunyanisekileyo kwiqela labo, nokuba ngaba uqhelekileyo. Ukongeza, ukuba uyabathanda abantu abanjalo kwaye wabelana ngeminqweno yabo, kunokwenzeka ukuba nawe u-emo, awukwazi nje ukuqiqa ngawo. Kodwa ukuba uyaqonda ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba uzive ngokwenene kwaye ungabi njengaye wonke umntu, ke ungesabi uze uziyeke. Yiba emo. Ngaphezu koko, umntu othandayo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqonda ukuthanda kwakho. Uluntu lwanamhlanje lithetha ngentando yesininzi, ngokuqinisekileyo luyabagweba njalo abo bachasene nenkqubo. Ukuba ungumoya oza kulwa noluntu. Ngoko ke, lungela ukuba abantu abasondeleyo nabangakhuselekanga ngokomoya abanokukugweba. Ngaphezu koko, abaninzi abahlobo baya kunqaba ukuthetha nawe. Kuthetha into eyodwa kuphela - abayinyani kwaye abazange bakuqonde indlela indlela abahlobo bakho be-emo baza kuqonda ngayo.
Khumbula njalo ukuba inyaniso ayiyonto ecacileyo neyicacileyo njengokuba iiklasi ziqwalaselwa kungekudala. Uthando luhlala lubandezeleka, kungenjalo, alukho nto. Ngoko ke, ukuba umfana oyithandayo akawunaki, qonda ukuba uyakunika ukuba uzive upheleleyo. Emva koko, ukuba wakubona ngokukhawuleza, awuyi kukwazi ukumthanda ngokwenene.
Kodwa ke, kungekudala, xa eqonda ukuba ungumphefumlo onobubele ngokwenene, ngenxa yokuqonda ngokufanayo, umbono ofanayo wehlabathi kunye neemfuno eziqhelekileyo, uya kuqala ukudibana.
Ewe, ulwalamano alukwazi ukuba luhle. Ngoko ke, ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba into ephosakeleyo, bonisa iimvakalelo zakho ngesibindi. Uhlobo lwama-emo langempela alulindele ithuba kwaye alizami ukuhlehlisa into ethile ngomso. Ukuqwalaselwa kwimeko yinkalo yabantu abanoyikiyo iimvakalelo zabo kwaye abazi indlela yokuyivakalisa. Kodwa awunjalo. Ngoko ke, sithetha nantoni na ocinga ngayo, memeza kuye, uchaze konke okuphephe. Ukuba uxabana kwaye uyaqonda ukuba uziva kakubi, ungagcini. Ukudandatheka kukuqhelekileyo kunoma yimuphi umntu. Awukwazi ukuziphoqa ukuba ujabule xa kulunge ukufa. Musa ukuqulunqa izizathu zokuphuma kwaye uxoxe nabahlobo. Abahlobo bokwenene baya kuqonda kwaye bayakuxhasa ukukhetha kwakho. Ukongeza, isoka lakho liza kuthatha njengento yokungahloneli kunye nento yakho yokukhohlisa, ukuba uyaqhubeka ujabulela ubomi, xa umphefumlo ungendawo.
Ukunyaniseka yinto eyahlula i-emo kwabanye abantu. Umfana wakho kufuneka azi ukuba uhlala unyanisekileyo kwiimvakalelo zakho ngaye nabanye. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuqonda ukuba awuyi kusebenza, kwaye uya kubeka inxenye. Yaye yintoni enokuba yimbi ngaphezu kokuhlukana? Ngako oko, zama ukuhlala ube yinyani, loo ntombazana eqonda ukuba eli hlabathi alikude kakhulu, ukuba kukho inkohlakalo eninzi kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle kuyo, ngoko ungaqambi amanga kuwe nakwabanye ukuba konke kuya kulungile. Ewe, ukuba unoyolo ngokwenene, kufuneka uhlale uvakalisa oko, kodwa akukho luvuyo lwexesha elide. Ngoko ke, musa ukuziphoqa. Yivuna ukukhalela ukukhala. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba usekhaya okanye phakathi kwesitrato esityebileyo. Abantu abagciniweyo abaluhlaza abaqondi kakuhle into eyenzekayo kwaye kubaluleke kangakanani, kodwa i-emo, kubandakanye nesoka lakho, liya kuxabisa amandla akho nomnqweno wokuhlala uhlala.
Abafana ba-Emo banamathele kwaye banengxaki. Ungalokothi ulibale loo nto. Kakade, sele uqonde ukuba kukho nawuphi na ungeke ugxeke umfana wakho ngezinyembezi. Inyaniso yokuba abafana bayalila, bathi kuphela zazomirovannye bescharternnye ubukhulu. Njalo mxhase kuye nayiphi na imbonakalo yemoya kwaye uya kuhlala ehlala esondele, kwaye uya kuziva uluthando lokwenene.